mojsterr

Wow. That's amazing.

"Most men take better care of their car than the woman they are in a primary relationship with." I know this is not the case in your relationship, but it's a good quote. To get to the point. You need containment. You're not getting it from your man. He's not playing his role like a man should and that's why you will never feel cherished - like a woman should. We both have roles that we need to play, it's in our biology. That's why there is a Masculine and a Feminine. They are different. And if things don't go like they should, the woman starts playing some of the man's role and there becomes an imbalance. He needs to play his so you can play yours. Teal explains it much better. Also, for the love of god Don't listen to this guy lol

This timeline is getting stupider and stupider just because some people can't deal with the truth. Men aren't women. You can Identify as one if you wish, but bodies are different. Now all of reality must contort to them, just because otherwise their feelings might be hurt. And we sure can't have that now can we. And just like that we're creating weaker and weaker people. Everybody is acting like a child. It's Idiocracy. Too bad George Carlin died, he would have so much material now. More than anytime before.

In tennis they paired a male tennis player from the back of the list (I think 250th position or something like that) to the women and he anihilated even the best ones without a problem. That's how big of a difference a male and a female body is in sports. And that's just tennis. I don't see how males acting as women can be allowed anywhere near women's sports. It's no competition. It shouldn't be allowed. People trying to justify it should take some time to rethink everything. Obligatory:

How long have you been doing it for?

Only 1. My future self who made it.

Do more drugs to quit drugs? Seems legit. Do it for science @Someone here

There is nothing wrong with being a materialist.

Short answer: No Long answer: Noooooooooooooooooooooooo

I see God as extremely selfish. The most selfish being in existence, in fact. He's the only one that exists. All is him. And everything exists only for him and no one else. I mean, how could he NOT be selfish? From his point of view everything in the Universe is just "Me, me, me". I came to this conclusion when I contemplated about the ego and why would it be wrong to have it (I mean the kind of ego that people talk negatively about). I found out it wasn't wrong. Everything I see around me is made for me to take and enjoy. Why not use it. Children are like that too. And they are the most accurate representation of God.

Ok then replace the word "rich" with "get good at X"

Yeah you can. You just don't really want to. It's the same as people who want to get rich but won't put in the years (YEARS!) of hard work. So what they really should say is "It'd be nice to be rich" - but they don't really want it. They just like to fantasize about it. Also, how does it feel when you say "I'm to weak"? Does it feel good?

Please don't stop, the cigarette indunstry needs you.

What if you die in an accident before and you haven't lived your life?

Just kidding I don't listen anywhere close to this genre, but I do love these guy's energies. And they have grown on me and I like them now. In Slovenia we also have a great electronic music scene. And DJs from all over the world love our party people. I can't imagine going to a party in the US, where they start in the middle of the day and end at 2am.

Don't! That's how they get you. I see myself as doing the Lord's work by being optimistic in the world of increasing pessimism. This is my battle to have a good future. If I stop to fight, they win. They won't win. Edit: I forgot to add that I believe strongly in manifestation. What you belive will happen to you. We create the reality. This is my weapon.

Nice. This is similar to a walking meditation where you imagine yourself from the neck down, no head.

It won't work, you need to send your photo ID to verify you're over 18. Fuck youtube. Search on Google how to bypass age restriction videos. You're welcome.

Imagine a different life and work on that imagination. Every day. Believe you already have what you wish to achieve and sooner or later reality will start bending to get you what you desire. But you already have to feel like you have it. Reality is only a mirror to your thoughts you had in your life up until now. We created all of the situations that are happening to us right now. Change your thougths to change the world around you. Do this exercise. Forget that he tals about manifesting money. It can work for anything else too:

I would say having true purpose in your life and fulfilling it. I'm just guesssing, since I haven't reached it yet. But this must be the best feeling ever. Feeling accomplished and whole. Fuck yea

I had a bully on another forum. That guy was oozing hate from every pore of his body and psyche. And he found me to directe all of his hate to. I couldn't get rid of him, any time he saw me post, he needed to unload. It was difficult for me, but it must be even more difficult for him to be in that body. What agony, I can't imagine. Though he wouldn't adimt it. He doesn't see it. So I have found the best way how to work on people like these. I haven't mastered this yet, but I know when I do, I've reached the peak of my psychology. But the way you go a it is counter intuitive: Instead of being angry, all you have to do is try to imagine that person happy. But not just smiling and superficially happy. Try to really visualize him really joyful. Like he just got the best news in the world and all of his insides lit up from joy and pure happinness. Imagine him fulfilled. Imagine him having everything he ever wanted and getting it and you are now observing hm in the state of complete gratitude. Imagine that thing finally braking all of his pain inside and the hate and everything now just obliterated and radiating immense joy. Really really vizualize it. Can you still feel angry at him? I found out this immediately alleviates all of my anger to that person and not just that, but I suddenly feel enourmous love for him. Love that he is finally getting what he was searching for all of his life (because now in this moment when he still has a need to bully you, he obviously hasn't found it yet - that's why he channels his anger to people around him ho trigger him - people like you). I see how every dark cloud from him lifted and I see him genuinely smiling and being in ecstasy. I also see him realizing how he hurt other people and feeling bad for it. This is the practice. If you become a master at it no one will every be able to hurt you and even more, instead of feeling hate you will feel neverending joy for him. And at the same time when you feel joy for him, you will feel joy for yourself and what he did won't matter, because it didn't pierce and hurt you like it does now. It's an amazing exercise. I know it's tough when you feel hate, I still haven't mastered it myself, but in the glimpses I have when I work on it, the feeling is trully wholesome. I believe this can cure a lot of your problems you described. Try it. Try it for yourelf. Not for him. Even if he still bullies you, you will react totally the opposite. And he might change. And if not, it will have no effect on you.

I don't know. Since I am new to this forum I don't know you people much yet, but I like you. I like your problems and your posts, it's fun to read. I always like when people contribute a lot and you're one of them. But I can't relate what you're going through since I'm not in your shoes, so hope you working something out. I do like this forum very much, though. It's different than all the rest I have been on until now. The debates are on a different level and people are smarter here. I like the approaches to different world views, because it's far from basic. I was searching for something like this. Will see how it goes in the future.