blessedlion1993

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  1. Right now im in Italy with some friends and Saturday there was a boat party cruise for 2 of the girls bday. We had a dinner the night before and 2 of the girls from Miami were the hottest. One of them I knew from a Mexico trip. I was interested in her friend though. At dinner I saw her friend glancing at me here and there then she came over later and introduced herself to our little group. I pretty much immediately roped her into a convo and next thing she was sitting with me and we talked for like an hour. Next day we’re on the boat and I’m hanging with both Miami girls. It’s going well and we’ve got a fun little group vibe going. Later in the day I’m dancing with the one I was into and were getting handsy. These girls are probably in the upper 9s and 10s in terms of hotness imo. Anyway we split up for a second and her friend comes up to me and is like “my ex was jealous of you in Mexico because all the girls voted that you were the cutest” “I am into you” so like a dumbass I told her I thought she was super hot, but she’s like no go enjoy yourself with my friend. then the energy shifted and she was like super pist and closed off all the sudden. anyway I get back with her friend and we’re making out and stuff and she wants to come home with me the bus arrives and right as we’re getting in the taxi she has to leave with her friend who was pist and I get massively Cock blocked. now neither of them respond to my messages so like fuck it, but also fuck. and it also sucks because there’s not many other options here. Italian women aren’t very open to pick up or talking to gringos. idk guess I’m just venting. It was bullshit. But also I’m kinda proud of myself if my game skills have gotten this good to have 2 dimes both want me.
  2. 1) Yeah I def fucked up the response there. I shouldn’t have told her I thought she was hot as it’s clearly what her ego wanted to hear, could’ve played that cool. Learning point. 2) I just texted the girl I liked and asked what she was up to tonight and got no response. The other I just said hey how r u? Both of them haven’t responded to me. 3) Nah man. Trust me. I went out last night to like an all Italian party and none of these girls were open or receptive. Okay maybe 1 but she wasn’t that hot. It’s weird. But the italian locals just don’t seem to want any white boy action
  3. It’s depressing you’re this deep into the fear narrative. With this mentality you might as well be one of those guys who has a robot girlfriend and never leaves his apartment
  4. Yesterday evening i saw 2 gorgeous women going to the beach where i live. I started making comments about one of the girls hats and how it looked like a Tulum hat (i live in another part of mexico) and they were kinda engaging but it was wierd because i was like talking to them from being behind them on the sidewalk, so i asked if they'd mind if i walked down to the beach with them and they were like "we're actually having sister time right now and just want to catch up" i respected their request and just kept going. For me a no is always a no and i never push it after that, it's just so desperate to do so. Later i ran into my friends on the beach, all women , and watched sunset with them. So there i am, with 6 topless chicks on the beach and one of them says her friend is close by, so we go to meet them and lo and behold it's the chicks from earlier. So i rock up with 6 topless chicks right to the girls who had previously rejected me, it was fucking dope.
  5. Dude knows nothing about emotion The best way to do this is stop being so logical and be more emotional with YOURSELF, then you will naturally be able to relate to women more. When speaking with her, use emotional terms "i feel sad about...." "____ gets me so excited" etc
  6. @spinderellaI'm in a similar position, been doing ayahusca shrooms etc for a while now and am called to 5 MEO DMT I plan to do it this month I don't think you have anything to worry about, if anything it will give you clarity and you might realize that you do get that head over heels feeling for him and have appreciation for what you guys can build, and excitement. Just don't make any decisions post-trip, give yourself some time to integrate and sit on it after. There's no rush. Also, it's a lot juicier to build a deep stable love versus just getting that initial high, it's usually a let down and there is a crashing point. But seriously question your level of attraction for him and don't settle, what is your body saying? Tune into your intuition.
  7. Brother, if you are reading this you are going to make it through, there will come a day when you are sitting in the sun naked with a beautiful partner the waves crashing and only a stillness in your mind and your heart wide open. Your eyes will swell with tears when you think back to all the things you went through and how you ALMOST ended it all, and are so glad that you didn't. You look forward to the barbeque dinner you will be having with close friends that evening and the laughter you will share. Your partner cuddles up to you even closer and her touch melts your soul. She wouldn't have fit like this with anyone else, it needed to be you. You have infinite gratitude for being an absolute warrior of life and realize that even that pain you had to go through was necessary to get you to where you are today. Even your parents have changed their ways and live in more love after seeing how much their son has transformed and the impeccable quality of his heart. Stay strong, the world needs you.
  8. Teal Swan and Leo have an incredible amount of similar videos and almost the same amount of subscribers and started around the same time....i smell a conspiracy!
  9. i actually ran into this issue, i realized that i was putting up a front and had to act in line with that front, which in a way was lying. but i found it easy to show myself slowly, and the acting dumb just kinda loosened up the intro and helped break the ice
  10. So i went out last night to a party, and was all anxious about doing pick-up and even though i rolled into the party with 5 women and was dancing in a circle with them (massive social validation) i didn't want to hookup with them bc they are my friends. So i looked around and was trying to find a hottie, and there were a few. I noticed that in talking with the girls i was not getting the results i wanted and was being a bit needy or try hard. Then i randomly remembered a quote i saw in a video from Leo that was like "the dumber you act the better you are at game" or something like that. And it just clicked. I started just being super spacey and acting like i was literally dumb but also still holding down pillars like presence, honesty, expressing intent, but just being so dumb. not dumb like "duhhh 2 + 2 =5" or saying dumb shit like that, but dumb on like a social level, like just kinda out of it and not in my head at all. not really responding to questions and occasionally staring off in the distance. Ended up hooking up with the hottest girl there for about 2 hours, making out and stuff and then going home with another hot girl who was there. It's so simple! And i dont really even like the word "dumb" it's more unconcerned, but it really can't be an act "i'm so chill, i'm so unneedy, i'm not bothered by anything" people see right through that, so dumb kinda is the best word to describe whatever the fuck i was doing, but hey it worked. Couple that with making her felt safe, bingo Safe and Stupid , my new pillars for pick-up. Hah
  11. i think so many guys already act smarter and more entitled than women , that if you do this dumb thing it calms them down a bit and they don't feel lowered in any way. wisdom that's true, the buddha basically had a tantric brothel so he needed to spit no game
  12. sick... Yes! I think this has a lot to do with it. It's like by being dumb and simple, it's assumed your not malicious insecure and judging her, it makes her feel safer bingo
  13. After 5 years of personal development i have come to the conclusion that it is a balancing act. I'm all about habits and getting better, but if there isn't time for integration and slow growth, you will just backslide. Many want to 10X their personal development and have rapid transformation, but i've learned this work has it's own natural maturation phase that you cannot rush or plow through. It's actually quite beautifully designed and nice when you can just relax into your own progress without needing to push it or read so many books. Just do like 1-2 hours a day of meditation , reading , courses, whatever and you're set, it's almost impossible to not grow and develop. The key is consistency, vision and becoming keenly aware of what goes into your mind, other people, media , etc. Be like the fucking white house with what enters your mind, maximum security , only the highest quality of books, teachings, friends, even music! It all comes down to lifestlye and mindset I found myself watching these psychology videos and i realized how so many people who study this stuff like triggers, psychology, childhood trauma, many of them really get nowhere in their progress because there isn't love. All these things, pick-up, healing, psychology, improvement, they just point to a lack of authenticity and love, simplified that's all it is.
  14. i wish i could better explain what i was doing, but i can't put into language yet, it wasn't dumb like that, blurting thing out etc but def less calculating and not trying
  15. this place is heaven brotha! Avoid the touristy spots though, there are some serious gems here filled with conscious yoga babes who love tantra and psychedelics
  16. @Leo GuraWhy do you think that is? My theory is it makes them feel safe and unjudged
  17. I guess he was trying to prove a point, but he's just like being an asshole and ruining peoples' day. Those poor women probably felt unsafe
  18. @The Lucid Dreamer Gotcha, yeah that's a much better way of putting it. @Koeke Ralston is actually a dark dude at times, i did a 2 week retreat with him and the whole thing was basically shadow work. In his books, especially the book of not knowing, he goes into the core beliefs of the ego that create the shadow. It's all based on consciousness expansion but that requires deep digging
  19. cool, thanks! I've done a Ralston retreat and just started getting into Teal Swan...she's kinda like Leo but female, they'd be a cute couple
  20. Interesting @The Lucid Dreamer you explain this very well. I would say i'm pretty similar. I'm 28 now but been diving into this for over 5 years, 2-3 years of meditation before Leos work, however, Leo took it to the next level, by far. All the other people i followed, John kabat, eckhart toole, etc didn't even go close to "there" I love how Leo just puts it the fuck out there, because people need to know But i still don't see how that explains that people aren't having an experience? If your consciousness living through multiple lives then the people youre interacting with, while yes they are still you, are still having an experience and their own consciousness? I don't see how any of this justifies solopsism.
  21. @Hello from Russiawhats the best shadow work teacher you've seen?
  22. you tell people to take a bunch of the strongest psychedelics in the world and that they are imagining everyone in their life...some are bound to go off the rails. even if it is true, it's dangerous and needs to be eased into, not saying it's true. i personally believe others definitely have their own consciousness and experience. my problem with Leos teaching is he doesn't stress the importance of other people and community enough. As cool as it can feel to be this lone wolf conscious mofo, we are deeply social and even if you attain the highest enlightenment, being alone and not relating to others will make you sick. people can also be like the strongest medicine and consciousness raising tools out there, you just have to know how to do it. aubrey marcus for example, holds many of the same ideas and philosophies of Leo but very much promotes community, which i don't see much from Leo, if anything, it's like "better to be alone and people are a distraction, they're all unconscious chimps" I used to have this mindset and it made me isolate, think i was superior, and depressed. we need each other, no matter how conscious we become. Aho! p.s. -not a criticism to Leo and his introverted way of life, i just think for most people, that style is not going to work. I love Leos' work and will continue to be a loyal fanboi, ive done the LP course, have the book list, listened to every episode, etc but i had to come to my own conclusion on many things and taking everything he says on blind faith is stoopid
  23. bc it has the potential to drive people nuts, solopsism is considered a form of madness
  24. y