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@Jacob Morres I think you're misunderstanding. I am not labelling Heirarchies as bad , you seem to be doing that. Here's a simple example; Imagine that there is a company trying to slow down pollution, there is someone in the company, the CEO, who has studied plastic usage, proper recycling etc for years and knows exactly how to reduce this issue. So he presents his idea, then an intern, says "no, let's just do THIS" (insert horrible idea here) without the power dynamic, the CEOs idea is on the same level as the intern. In this situation having a power distribution is important. And the Intern can still be treated with respect and dignity but his idea gets rejected ultimately because the CEO is higher on the decision making ladder. And pollution goes down. Your point on racism is totally invalid. Racism isn't beneficial, ever, where heirearchies and distributions of power CAN BE, when used properly. Racism is definitely in our minds and psyche, as are heirarchies, but one is totally destructive and ignorant, another can be productive. The problem is when the CEO thinks he is better than the Intern in some absolute sense. But the Intern may have more mastery in meditation and in that arena he would have more say and power. @Leo Gura Solid, I'll take that into account. I typically don't test out different things like that (taps of shoulder, smile, etc) but it could be fun to try and fine tune it. I just worry that could get too "heady" also you need a ton of data points because some girl might hate being touched by a stranger and some might love it. Some may find a shoulder tap creepy another sexy, so it's hard to write "THIS is the perfect number of taps" Being in the body and at ease is always invaluable. Same with ridiculously strong eye contact. I think a large % of success goes to luck and energetic match as well. Some questions; How much honing of skills can go into it? You think you could ever get to a point where you're hitting 90% success? Like is that even possible? Also, what's the best way to gain skill, just observational experience? And what exactly are you observing? Her reactions? Also, do you do most of your pick up at clubs? Bc it's a totally different demographic with different results. What if you brought the same tactics to a yoga group for example?

@Jacob Morres Correct, in the grand scheme of reality, we are all equal. It'd be great if we could live that way, but maybe not. We live a world that lives by very different rules, and pretty much nobody has transcended the heirarchy mind set. It's embedded in our dna. "where do i stand compared to him?" It's actually not necessarily a bad thing, some situations require an "alpha" or leader to call shots and if everyone was acting like all their voices mattered equally, nothing would get accomplished. Politics, businesses, militaries, even spiritual circles. There needs to be some structure and distribution of power, which of course can't just be equal for obvious reasons. That's not to say everyone doesn't have their unique contribution and value. And people can always be respected and have high self-esteem even in these systems.

@Leo Gura Does it really get that technical, (2 or 3 taps on the shoulder, big or small smile, etc) I don't think there could be a formula for that, because what if one girl likes to be tapped twice and another likes it 3 times, and one girl thinks big smiles are cute and another creepy. Isn't it possible that you're just getting too technical at that point and it's actually fucking up your game?

This is literally my life lol and yeah it's pretty fucking dope, but you can get lost in it as well

Hey man, i know you've been through a lot of bullshit, clearly you have had to overcome some serious hurdles in life. And that takes strength. So props But in all honesty, you sound like a total victim whiner here. I read the previous comments and no one said anything that mean or "bad" to you, you're just hyper sensitive and ready to point out anyone that is making a comment on incels as a horrible person. Incels are losers by definition , i'm sorry. They should face the facts and use it to grow, or they will remain losers, and normal people will not lose any sleep over it. It's like a fat person who just gets mad at all the skinny people but never takes the day to look in the mirror and realize he's a fat fuck, who just needs to get over it and eat healthy. You complaining and freaking out on everyone does nothing for these incel people. they should feel like losers with their mysognism, lame online victim communities and porn addictions. Should we praise these people? Even @Flowerfaeirys comment wasn't that bad. She was just saying that when a guy is being needy or scared of her, it places her higher than him in the interaction. Imagine if you were standing in line at a store and someone in front of you just randomly said "take my spot" and then he started shining your shoes. You would probably feel above that person in some way. "Why is this guy kissing my ass so much? Does he have no self value?" Human interaction is typically some kind of this dynamic and shifts based on what is going on. But you flipped out on her and got all defensive about it. So just pointing out this might be a shadow for you, if you flip out on me, then you're more stubborn than you seem, but it's fine if you do. I genuinely don't give a fuck

i find myself so deterred from this, it's not that there aren't opportunities but i just would rather meditate or nap. but at the same time i need people and i've isolated myself way too much, it's starting to take a toll on my mental health any good, QUALITY books on socializing? Please none of that win friends and influence ppl bullshit

I think this topic and video is of utmost importance at this time. So just go jerk off and keep meditating bro, a lot of guys need this

Thank you, very insightful and helpful advice <3 @BipolarGrowth

I live in Peru, in a spiritual place. Many people here are doing plant medicine and psychedelics. I met a woman at a restaurant and she was alone so i just sat with her and we went deep into a conversation about meditation and different spiritual practices. Minutes turned to hours and i invited her to my place to listen to music, do breathwork, and snuff (an amazonian tobacoo you blow up your nose) She came over and we did some yoga, breathwork, tantra eye gazing and self inquiry and just chatted about emotions and life. It was beautiful, and this is not that untypical where i live, everyone is into tantra and consciousness and psychedelics. I asked her if she wanted to cuddle and she said yes and that turned into making out and sex. After the sex (not right after but maybe like 15 min after) i realized we had been hanging out for like 6-7 hours and i just wanted to be alone to recharge (im an introvert). so i said i was just going to go to sleep and she was cool with it and left. I checked in to see how she was doing a few days later and she was ghosting me then said she felt used. I apologized that she felt that way, and that it wasn't my intention. Was i an asshole? I seriously want to know. I feel like i kinda was, but also was fucking tired and wanted to sleep

i just feel like people are so tense and deluded that even going out isn't enjoyable. Everyone is just like staring at each other and i feel like there are legit insane people out there ready to snap at any moment. I feel bad for service workers who have to face these wolves, people are just looking for anyone to flip out on. Hostesses getting assaulted over requiring masks, people are like high on drugs and totally deluded and pist. I left the US, I live in Peru now, in the mountains, working on my laptop, away from all this psychosis and not spending insane amounts of money just to exist. I don't know how people are dealing with this shit; https://www.reddit.com/r/news/comments/q6qbbj/a_record_43_million_us_workers_quit_their_jobs_in/

Appreciate the insight everyone, as many mentioned I can admit this was massively bad communication on my end, I didn't really make it clear that i was just exhausted and needed to recharge for a bit. And we had spent a while opening up emotionally and doing certain fragile practices. @Leo Gura As far as the intention of keeping her around goes, i honestly didn't know in that moment, i was kinda just going with the flow. Had she responded to my text i would've def been up to hang out again. I wasn't just pumping and dumping like a club ONS, or we could at least be friends, she was good company. But she wants nothing to do with me now, which I've just accepted. I do have to look at myself and ask if i used spiritual and emotional practices to take advantage. I hope she doesn't see it that way bc we actually had a really nice night together. I see many guys doing this, and don't want to be like that. From my POV it was just like "hey, let's explore this, go deep, and see what comes up with each others' energy, and if we have some fun too, great, no harm and everyone is complaint." I wasn't intending to just do this once and ghost her, but i also wasn't really feeling like she would be a girlfriend later on. I have to be honest about that. Regarding the cuddling, I don't sleep well with other people in the bed, and it was only like 10PM so it wasn't that late. I even offered to walk her home and she said it was cool. You guys have given me a lot to introspect on. I think the biggest fuck-up was my communication, as many have mentioned. In the future i'll be more honest about it and give her more insight into what's going on in my world.

i live in a place where people are obsessed with dark spirits, spiritual attachment, entities, and frankly i'm fucking sick of it. I see it make people so much more paranoid than they need to be. Like we already have enough shit to manage and worry about in the 3D world, now you want to cake on top of that auro-holes, chakra-blocks, and spirits clinging onto your spine? GTFO and give me some mushrooms

@indigomonarchThat's wild man, i'm literally going to be in Iquitos in 3 days for a 2 week Ayahuasca retreat and after Im coming back to Pisac to go balls deep into San Pedro , Mushrooms, and Bufo. I don't fuck with Ayahuasca anywhere another than iquitos and with my specific shamans, but i think the other medicines out here will help me integrate. I already pretty much live like a hermit, so it's like a constant retreat anyway

yeah, Leo is right on this one....unfortunately

true, it does feel way better out here though

the nawwing feeling of life just dragging on, even with the meditation, breathwork and psychedelics i fall into these old patterns of bullshit and meaninglesness and it just feels like a cycle, so much fear, none of these videos or talks help like they used to, everyone just seems full of shit

I have been doing research on this since Leo has been mentioning. It's pretty staggering how unknown this is, it could be someones' sole reason for depression/anxiety no matter what else they do to try and help it. Seems like the best way to detox is by fasting and eating certain food, also doing saunas. But are there any products or procedures that rapidly increase this process? Any recs?

how could you possibly know that?

I'm also interested in this topic. Personally, my mind is very distracted but i meditate more than anyone i know. Probably 4 hours a day. Focus meditation just don't work with me, i'm too distracted/add. But what i can do better than anyone i know is sit in silence and "be". This may be helpful for you as well. Drop enlightenment, breath focus, even contemplation and just sit with yourself. This will bring about deep peace and mystical insights

And if so, how accurate was your experience compared to the way that Leo explains it?

@Leo Gura Valid point. I guess it'd just be interesting to hear and i'm sure there would be some nuances/discrepencies you guys could dive into. But ya, likely a lot of agreement on everything. Could be fun tho

@Leo Gura I agree with @Matthew85 on the Aubrey Marcus comment though, Aubrey is in line with a staggering amount of ideas and insights you have shared, he is also doing a lot to bring the world to a higher state of consciousness, with his Fit For Service and Podcast. Dude is conscious as fuck and i find little ego/hypcoricy in his work

Also, Dan Pena might be most rotted soul on earth

"But it doesn't matter that i'm saying it because you ALL are not even real, you're just figments of my imagination. I'M THE REAL ONE, everyone else is just a projection, this is MY dream, all others....fake, figments, imagination. Wow, I AM GOD. I can't beleive i'm the only one actually having a real experience, no-one else has an experience bubble, just me. No need for life insurance for my loved ones if i die, because they don't even exist, once i'm gone, the whole shabang is over. because im god and no one else is" Anyone see the issue here?