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  2. Posted

    4 minutes ago, RedLine said:

    yes, it should de done that way so you and the girl have more privacy

     

    21 minutes ago, Federico del pueblo said:

    Seems like good game.

    It's also good if you still want to take her home for sex, because if you make out heavily with her in front of her friends and then want to take her home she might feel judged for leaving with you because her friends will know that it's probably for sex and then she might not want to do it.

    Yeah, I will incorporate it into my night game.

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    1 hour ago, AlterEgo said:

    No need to ask at all.  She will let you know.  You just assume she doesn't and have fun.

    Yes, usually I don't ask, but sometimes it's extremely difficult to say if a woman is interested or not, in these cases usually I ask. Because if she is not interested, she will just say she has a bf and that's it.

     

    36 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

    Your sexual subcommunication should be so strong that she tells you about her BF within a few seconds or minutes herself.

    If girls are not telling you about their BF until much later that tells you that your intent is too weak and needs work. Sexual eye contact is key. Work on that.

    Yes, Leo, I'm working on that. But the thing I'm still struggling with the most until now is knowing the right moment to try to kiss. 

     

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    8 minutes ago, something_else said:

    It’s a good idea to move around the club with a girl anyway, idk about the kissing in front of friends thing though

    One of the best indicators of interest I’ve found is that she’ll follow you around the club if you try to take her somewhere else

    With a girl in a club I usually end up doing a combo of dancing, talking in the smoking area or quieter parts and walking about and exploring the place with her if it’s big enough

    You can prob kiss her anywhere if she’s not super shy

    Yes, another advantage of asking a girl to follow you to another place is that you also demonstrate leadership characteristics with it.

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    4 hours ago, Federico del pueblo said:

     

    How is the word "chulo/chula" perceived where you live? Like "la gente más chula siempre se encuentra por aquí" 

     

    In Portuguese " chulo/chula" means something gross, obscene. 

    lol some foreigners when they come to Brazil they use the word " gostosa" like this was something like a compliment for women that just met, but the word " Gostosa" has an extremely high sexual meaning, it's just for women that you have extreme intimacy already, unless you say just in a joking tone in an extremely calibrated way. 

    If a native says the word " gostosa" for a woman he just met, he can easily be accused of sexual harassment.

  8. Posted · Edited by Tudo

    21 minutes ago, Someone here said:

     

    A tangent question tho: why do you remember every thread of mine?  Why are you focused on me ? I myself have forgotten about those threads you mentioned. 

     

    I don't give a shit about you, I know some stuff you post because you have more tha 6 thousand posts and many threads and seem almost addicted to this forum, anyone that participates on this section of the forum will inevitability notice some shit you post.

     

    21 minutes ago, Someone here said:

     

    What's the difference?  Dating leads to having sex imo. You cannot Separate the two . What's the point of talking to girls and asking them out If you don't plan on having sex with them ?

    Bro, you said multiple times it was prostitutes. You paid for sex. Don't play the idiot and try to fool me.

    But whatever, I won't keep this discussion.

  9. Posted

    10 minutes ago, integral said:

    Hes as of right now not her friend, she thinks they are friends and hes not! What im saying is actually be her friend. From there good things can happen outside of there relationship. I consider his chances with her 0. Move on to other things. 

    go to parties with her friends...? Every gf ive had happened in small friend circles, i meet a guy, they have friends i meet the friends, i hit it off with one of them and its a 5 year relationship. Its very common.. 

     

    Bro, you changed the subject, we were talking about meeting a girl for a romantic/ sexual relationship, not for friendship.

  10. Posted

    3 minutes ago, Someone here said:

    Could you explain how? 

     

     

    You literally created one other thread about women envying having a penis.

    5 minutes ago, Someone here said:

     

     

    Well what if you live in a country where there  is not that much dating opportunities? What are you gonna do then ? The first thing that comes to mind is travelling to a country where relationships between opposite sexes are a bit more loose.  Whats wrong with that either? 

    So go to other countries and date normally, no need to keep going to another country just pure sex.

  12. Posted

    6 minutes ago, integral said:

    This is not manipulation to get laid, its just basic flowing throw life. Be friends have fun, relax with it and another opportunity is around the corner with someone you might be more compatible with. 

    Yes, it is. Because you trying to make a girl think this is a real friendship when indeed all you want is to fuck her.

    Nice guy type of manipulation. 

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    5 minutes ago, integral said:

    @Tudo lmao what im saying is, its done, the friendzone is what is it, make a friend and use that situation for other opportunities.

    Friend circles and social connections of the like are the easiest way to get a girl friend. 

    This shit just works if you are able to build really big social connections. For the average Joe, the ideal is just to be social, go to parties and all kinds of events and talk to girls there. Simple. 

  14. Posted

    38 minutes ago, integral said:

    Youve been friendzoned, that is the chess position your in. Make the best move in the position. There are pros and cons to being friendzoned. For one, your her FRIEND! Talk to her like a friend not a lover. Then get into the circle of her friend group. 

     

    Bro, if girl likes you, it's going to be easy, no need to "  Then get into the circle of her friend group. " And this is extremely manipulative and creepy too.

    "Talk to her like a friend not a lover"

    Wtf, the girl already sees you just like a friend and you want to reinforce it?

     

    Clueless guys out. I pity the women that have to deal with this kind of men.

  15. Posted · Edited by Tudo

    1 hour ago, Razard86 said:

    Interesting....so from a few words on the screen...this poster is now creepy and a weirdo? I didn't know prejudice was so rampant.....prejudice (Pre= before you know) Judice= to judge. So you judge without fully knowing the person. Wow.......

    He made multiple posts and even threads about these subjects, so it's not just from a "few words on the screen". You are assuming stuff here.

    Indian guys usually are known for being kind of creepy and low EQ and this definitely appears to be true.

     

  18. Posted

    55 minutes ago, Bandman said:

    If you keep replying in this tone to your followers the consequences will be dire. Can't you see that what you are doing is wrong? In every post you sound like a high horse asshole. You can't be telling your followers about everything being imaginary and infinite love and still behave in this way, you twisted fuck. Who do you think you are, to shatter peoples realities without at least being loving and caring about it. How can you have reached the deepest awakening on earth but still just be a pus leaking asshole online. You are so fucking obnoxious and nobody dares to tell you because they are afraid of a ban. You deny everyone's spirituality as "being imagined" while constantly whining about your own spiritual ideas. Even though on paper we are allowed to discuss spirituality on this forum, you just reply to every thread which is not about god-realization, that it is bullshit and imaginary. How can you be like this. If someone thinks their spirituality rings truer than your god-realization just let them be and let all ideas be relatively equal on here. Even if for example yoga or advaita is imaginary it does not mean it is not valuable or true.

    Nah, I like the way he communicates

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    12 minutes ago, Alistair Kershaw said:

    @Tudo mid 20s. I'm well aware I fucked up from the get go. Is there no hope to changing the situation? It's been a long time since I've been into a girl like I am with her, but that's probably why I played it too safe.

    I won't lie to you buddy, it's extremely difficult to change this situation. All I would do is be sincere about my intentions. And if all she can offer is friendship, then I would end it and break contact with her. There is plenty of fish in the sea , go meet other girls, it's not easy but it's the right thing to do. Trying to force it  will just make things worse.