Stoica Doru

Don't meditate because you have to do it or need to do it. Most people overcomplicate this meditation thing, which is just being in the now, in total acceptance. Meditate because you love it, you love existing and you appreciate the full perfection of The Universe as it is, along with all the challenges that are thrown your way. Do shit you love because you simply love it, not as a mean to get enlightened, which is a stupid paradox, because you can't get to what you already are, but you can only see it with full awareness. Anything that needs to be forced will produce backlash and counter, whether it's manipulating a person or an experience. Meditation and counciousness are two very simple elements, but people tend to take them too seriously, encapsulating these words in a hard to get vision, that needs a lot of work and worthiness. Bullshit. I had this insight while meditating.

You're all worthy beyond imagination, the people of this forum and Leo. We invest so much time in improving ourselves while trying to gain some gratification from our own self sometimes. In case you need it, I just wanted to say: You're awesome, thank you, don't you forget that! Glad to be a part of Actualized.org, one of the most open-minded communities out there, I'm sure. I also want to share this awesome piece of art, which simbolises the new paradigme shift of this planet, which we, the people of Actualized.org, are a part of. We're so lucky. Have a good day, much love!

Women don't really know what they want, especially nowadays, with all the modern mediatic propaganda. They're easy to brainwash, given their emotional inclanation. I've also been hearthbroken myself several times, but that fueled my awakening process, so we should thank them, somehow. Trusting women in this day and age is a very naive thing to do. An exception should be when you're about to get married or do something really serious, otherwise it's wise to be cautios and don't have any expectations.

I don't mean it in a philosophical manner, like yeah whatever I am here, doing my own thing... Just think about it! From the vastness of this entire universe and from its infinite potential which is indescribable, we get the chance to fucking be, to exist, at random! What an shocking honor! Just try to zoom out into the universe, in a search for borders and you'll get the feeling. What more could we ask for and do? ? I got this magnific overwhelming feeling while reading Conversations with God, Vol. II, in a part where was described the everlasting contraction and expansion of the Universe, which will happen, basically, forever!

@Dodo I have never consumed any drugs. Hell, I dismiss even alchool and tigars. I'm not really into the external stimulation in regards to awareness, as I like to get everything only through personal means. That's one reason and the other is that I'm going to become a police officer, so it doesn't really fit. But, who knows...

@Sevi Ask and you shall receive.

@Sevi We are all loved. This encounter made me sure of that, indeed. But, as long as you accept your soul with full understanding, rather than judging it by terms of ''ego'' and so forth, you'll see that the Kingdom of Heaven is within you, not in the acceptance of others, or in the harsh critics you might bring to yourself from time to time. Just by living at this particual moment and having the amazing power to just be, it's a certain guarantee that you are loved beyond any imagination.

@Prabhaker Hahaha! I will make sure to be taking part in a remake of that music video, as the main actor. I'll find an actress somewhere.

@Richard Alpert My expression was that of a divine amazement. The same glance you might see in the animes, with my jaw hitting the floor. I saw the purest aspect of God and of Counciousness itself. I'm pretty hard to be taken by surprise, but oh boy, I almost cried.

It'll help your ego mature and also your higher self, because you are doing a bilateral holy mission - the unconditional and forgiving loving of yourself. Obsession comes from fear of unpredictability. Love comes from stillness and safety, which is undefeatable and everlasting.

@Max_V You simply need to accept yourself fully, along with all of your "flaws". Think how you would treat, let's say, the most beautiful woman who falls in love with you. You take care of her, you respect her, you make sure she has all of her needs met and so forth. Until you haven't accepted your "debilitating" traits, you won't be able to change them accordingly, because acceptance means, above all, understanding on a very profound level.

Counciousness is like love. Cannot be explained, only be felt. Feel it fully, and your philosophical question will vanish into consciousness itself.

@SOUL That pretty much sums it up. However, we are indescribable, like this whole existence. Can be felt, but cannot be defined, given our limitless potential and our primordial essence.

As simple as that. God cannot say no. There are no limitations in this endless world, which we call The Universe. Be a visionary, you ain't getting any younger, don't waste this magical experience here, on this beautiful planet, as the most complex being ever known. Good luck!

@SOUL I've been also going back and forth between the deterministic theory and the ability of human beings to manifest their future. I think the truth is somewhere between those two. For example, you can't manifest not being involved in accidents and live your life totally unharmed, but, at the same time, you can create your dream life, as long as you truly believe and fully envision it. We're not fate's prisoners, but just tiny creators with big accomplishable dreams.

That summed up what I was about to advice. When the teachings or insights become too strong, it's like a tsunami or an avalanche. You may run away from them, but they're still going to catch you up, the extra effort not being worth it, so don't fight, only accept and embrace the harsh crisises, and they'll pass and wash over you proportionally to the magnitude that you surrender.

@Shin Dude, ''enlightened people'' is contradictory. They're no longer individuals. Spiritual crusade - I'm doing it right. But, yeah, as long as you believe that you're a loser, for example, regarding women or money, you're going to attract that negative vibe, and you'll manage to manifest the reality correspondent to that belief. As Neale Walsch said :''God cannot say no''. Change your pulsation, and you're going to become a magnet for whatever you may call ''good'' or ''evil'' circumstances, depending on the manifestation sent towards The Whole.

What do you think about it? Have you managed to use it? I recently started reading Neale's "Conversation with God" volumes , and I'm also doing some investigation as to how this basic principle works. Some say, Teal Swan included, that the Law of Attraction is the first law in the universe, example being the fact that some yogis, monks or whoever it may be, which have an increased counciousness, can even levitate as long as they change their universal constructs and beliefs, defeating gravity, which is below this primordial law.

No, it's not "try to do this method, or how can I force myself to do more and more meditation or work myself out until I'm full of paradoxes and contradictions". It's quite a simple one however - too good to be true - it's called Relaxation.

@Simon Håkansson Enlightenment doesn't come upon motivating yourself. The ego needs motivation mainly. You need to learn to fully surrender and let go of the control you think you have. This denotes that you are trustworthy to The God within you, and only then the peaceful Love that you are in essence will shine bright within you. Enlightenment is Love. Can you force yourself to love me more, a stranger on the Internet, more than you love your mother? No. You need to let go of stories, personal justifications, egoic ambitions, in order to see the fully loving nothingness that you are. Once you're there, attend to your soul's core desires and wounds, as you'll begin the awakening of the heart. Good luck!

@Danielle You must quit your addictions, shortly speaking. You'll be alright in the end. I went through the same horror and it lasted for some good months. This will help you get a bigger picture of what's happening : Also, feel free to contact me in private if you're in the midst of a huge crisis. I know it can be excruciating at times, but, all in all, it's a blessing. Even if it might sound depressing, you need to learn to die and surrender to life itself. Much love, you'll see the light!

How Can You Tell If A Person Is Enlightened? That's the paradox of it. Once ''you'' are enlightened, there's no person to be enlightened. And it's just a redundancy to say ''be enlightened'', because pure and carefree being it's the state of enlightenment itself.

So, I've been working real hard on the admission to a college I really like for two years now. But, lately, just as the registrations are about to go down, I keep getting the insight into signing up for another one. I really don't know what to say, as I've sacrificed so much time and effort into getting myself ready. Could insights also be too risky, or are they an absolute must? I really can't resonate with this new insight, it's weird. I'm confused, because I don't know what to go after, besides the Police Academy I choosed. I don't think I'll serve a low counciousness purpose there, so I don't see what's the catch, but I don't think I'll get it either. I remember Leo saying that insights need time and judgment to pursue, some taking real effort.

@Who_Am_I She and Matt Kahn have the most comprehensible, holistic and gentle approach in spirituality that I've found so far. I was able to grasp their frequency and teachings pretty fast. They're straight to the point and effective, not insisting on old school masculine and harsh approaches like "the ego is an obstacle, or the mind is a disturbing trash can". Those kind of approaches really set a huge fire within anyone on the path, resulting in "What have I been doing wrong?". You haven't loved yourself and your imperfections, that's what happened.

@egoeimai There's nothing as good or bad. The individual circumstances of each person decide what suits them better. As for those two guys criticizing her, I wouldn't bet my belief on them, as the gossiping interest about someone's private life doesn't seem so wise. As long as everyone gets the suitable information from whoever it may be, there's no need to say that's a fake guruu or stuff like that. Teachers should take care of their own teaching, rather than going on crusades of jealousy or hatred against someone else. That doesn't seem so spiritual or wise. People need to convince themselves on their own, by being in alliance with their true self and with the external frequencies they're receiving, as long as those factors improve their well-being.