vladorion

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  1. You can, but you'll probably end up pursuing stuff that is not what you truly want. Motivation that comes from trauma is usually along the lines of trying to prove something to yourself and other people. Trying to prove that you're good and loveable, essentially.
  2. Therapy can be effective for healing trauma but it has to be a modality that actually works. It can be a very slow process though if one has a lot of trauma and defence mechanisms. Venting is not therapy.
  3. Essentially, you have to get comfortable with making people uncomfortable for your own selfish gain i.e. become a little bit of a sociopath.
  4. You don't need to integrate it if it's genuine insight. You just need to have that insight on deeper and deeper levels.
  5. You'll overcome this fear by understanding that you won't lose anything that's important. If anything, it'll be beneficial for you. So go ahead and push the limits!
  6. The only place he teaches you to lead women is to your bed, for a quick pump and dump.
  7. Nirvana is complete absence of suffering.
  8. Do a regression hypnosis session.
  9. What makes people like Desantis or Tim Pool the worst of the worst? Being conservative?
  10. He wouldn't start hating himself. He already hates himself but is in denial about it. Which is the same as to say he's unconscious about it. There can be a big difference between how one feels deep on the unconscious level vs how one feels on the surface. What is felt on the surface is often a compensation for the very uncomfortable feelings that lie underneath. A narcissist's love for himself only applies to his surface self-image.
  11. According to Taoism, semen contains a lot of what they call jing energy. "Jing energy is the deep foundational energy reserves of the body and it is this energy that determines one's ultimate vitality and the quantity and quality of one's lifespan. Jing energy is precious and has long been recognised as a “treasure” that needs to be nourished, protected and preserved." When you're ejaculating you're just dumping this precious energy. I personally found that if I go too long without ejaculating I experience a sort of energy stagnation, the energy builds up and kind of sits there which doesn't feel good. Ejaculating too much just feels like shit. Once or twice a month is good but it's going to be different for different guys.
  12. If you feel bad after cumming you probably cum too often and depleting your energy a lot. Try to abstain for a while and let sexual energy build up. Then cum and see if there's a difference vs how you normally feel after cumming. You can also learn to orgasm without ejaculation.
  13. Interesting how the newly appointed moderators immediately start talking like Leo.
  14. Just because it's fun doesn't mean it's good for her. One night stands hurt women. Whether they're aware of it or not is another issue. 35% regret it. Compared to 20% of men. And considering the fact that most people live in denial about how they actually feel deep down, that number is much higher. Trauma and self destructive tendencies will make a woman get into these situations where she's essentially pumped and dumped. But a highly conscious man won't exploit that.
  15. The only true life purpose is to wake up. Everything else is something you do in the meantime.
  16. You really have no choice but to follow to teachers who's teaching / style / energy etc. you resonate with. But don't forget to use your discernment.
  17. Only true for blitz/bullet games. There's very little place for intuition in classical games. Everything has to be meticulously calculated.
  18. So since you consider yourself god realized, you cannot experience pain. So if you put your hand into boiling water, there will be no pain. Try it and get back to us. Curious how this goes.
  19. Confusing pain with suffering. Pain is just a signal from the body indicating damage has been done to some part of it. It's necessary for the survival of the biological organism.
  20. Positive self talk is a coping strategy to avoid dealing with your emotions.