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Hollywood, Walmart, Mr. Hands...there's more to life outside America

It can't be defined what's high or low value. It depends on the individual, everyone has different values. Personally, I'm repulsed by Hollywood celebrities, so it's Walmart for me.

@Leo Gura Yeah but Hitler had massive social proof...

For us men it also comes around when we realise how high demanding and flakey women are by nature.

@Princess Arabia I agree with you on this for the first few dates. Maybe just me, but it's a concept I've never come across in my dating life, the girls I met usually cut off other guys after 3-4 weeks.

First off, I'm sorry you had to experience this. My therapist once told me a story about a woman who during an IFS (inner family system) session realised she was sexually abused as a child. I don't think there's a lot you could have done for it to not be a shocking realisation. What can help you short term is mindfulness and body awareness exercises, like breathing, body scans. IFS-therapy is what I can recommend long term.

Being on the lookout for the right one to come along creates fomo in my opinion. To have different experiences...is this really dating? Or F+? Not sure I understand, what do you mean?

I don't think it's ethical, more of a sign of immaturity imo. Just like focusing on having abundance which is being propagated by the pickup community. Abundance is for anxious people or a byproduct of inner growth. I'd also never get involved with a girl who dates multiple guys, just not for me.

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@Sabth I remember a school trip with sleep over when I woke up a school mate because he was breathing in his sleep. @Clarence Thanks a bunch, mate! Will look into this more, but it sure could explain a lot. Just saw there's a misophonia forum too.

Like when someone is eating, tapping their fingers, brushes over their clothes with their hands, scratches themselves, sipping a drink, clicking sounds with their lips, just anything that's really subtle. This shit drives me nuts. Something inside me gets triggered and wants me to react in totally unreasonable ways like knocking them unconscious, while said person is just happily doing their own thing. My parents never understood when I tried to make them understand how irritated I was as a kid, I thought they do it intentionally to annoy me. Other people I explain this to have no clue what I'm talking about. So what exactly do you think is going on?

What does it take for a woman to realise this in your opinion? Or this? Or how toxic media and especially social media is?

He's just picking on them, good names to rhyme with I guess 😆

Also, what other rapper can speak in tongues?

Thanks, appreciate it. I mean it does sound interesting but I don't know...I'll try to watch what happens more consciously next time in this regard. The sounds do feel inappropriate though. It's just all types of subtle noises that irritate me, and others seem to be totally unaware.

I'd say it depends on what type of rapper you identify with the most. Objectively, you could argue he's the GOAT because he's the best selling rapper. For me it's because of his voice.

I dated a girl like this recently, she was so preoccupied with getting me to commit to her she totally forgot to enjoy the present moment and slowing down, it got annoying real fast. Even after rejecting her several times she still wanted to become my girlfriend. I really hope she's doing well these days, it broke my heart to see how little respect she had for herself. Isn't this human nature?

Nice awakening.

You should travel.

No, you can just be a human being and be considered an asshole. Do not focus on being an asshole, this should not be the goal. The reason you're confused is because you try to manipulate women.

I've never been to the US...is this the way you guys talk in real life?

Yes I've been an asshole to women as well and their attraction went up, as if you gave them drugs. But it didn't make me feel good so I don't really care much for what most women are attracted to.

Huge respect to the screenwriter who convinced you of his fantasies.

@DreamCryX Here you go

@DreamCryX The nice guy/asshole paradigm is due to brainwashing as well. There is no nice guy. We all have our dark sides.