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@Joseph Maynor Excellent choice. Take care of it.

I tried 🤷🏻‍♂️ my door is open.

Dm me if I can help you out.

@yetineti Not every exchange needs to be a contribution to the human condition.

@Monster Energy She doesn't have that monster type of energy.

If it was I would cry.

In fact, I had two girlfriends that made more money than me and before me, dated guys that you could call more masculine with more status and success than I had. So, maybe there's more to attraction than your rule says. Of course, if you constantly view yourself as a victim in dating and go in to receive, then that mindset is rather unattractive in itself. Focus on the factors you can control.

This hasn't been my experience. I had a woman who wanted to stay with me when I was very skinny, had no money, had no friends or really any other resources. She even drove me to places because she had a car and I didn't. So it's hard for me to believe that women only love men for what they bring to the table. Some women really care about you for who you are.

@Leo Gura You might like Polestar's designs. Today's cars look like they've been designed by some IT-dudes, zero soul.

Redpill is one of the few places where young men feel heard about their dating struggles. The rest of society often tells you to suck it up and that you're the problem, without really acknowledging how painful loneliness and constant rejection is. The problem with redpill is how it generalises. It takes your experiences and turns them into rules and absolute truths about women and dating. Eventually, you end up seeing every interaction through that lens, making you distrustful and holding you back from forming genuine connection. If you ask yourself if it's holding you back: How much has it helped you understand yourself and women better? How much has it helped you form meaningful relationships?

It depends on who it is.

For me it's usually sympathy when they try to hide it and their eyes tear up. But I've had girls throw a tantrum crying and that's when I feel disgusted. It really depends on the reason. There's been times when it made me tear up too. I just listen, no action needed, maybe a hug, depending on who it is.

@Joseph Maynor Give us your view in more detail. Do you mean it only applies to a small range of people?

You need to meet people in real life. Connecting with them only through your phone is like living on fast food: your hunger will be satisfied, but it doesn't give you the nourishment you actually need. Eventually that lack of connection catches up with you. What about people gives you trauma? What makes them evil?

@Schizophonia So that's where you're Phallus theory started.

@Thought Art The fuck did I just watch.

@Joseph Maynor What you mean by too extreme?

That's attachment right there.

@Majed What are you afraid to lose?

No, celibacy is not the way for you, bro, it's cope. You simply don't read of people making posts like "I have such a great relationship!" If you're a virgin you are missing out, sorry to say.

@Ramanujan I've been there before, I know the pain and exhaustion when connection somehow doesn't come as easily. It might take some pressure off to know that you absolutely don't need a girlfriend for things to get better for you. You mention a lot about calling your friends...do you ever meet up with people in person? Where do you come across people or get opportunities to interact with them? School, work, shops? And what are your interests?

What is there to deal with? I don't really think about someone's Se level when I'm interacting with them. I usually just let things unfold rather than trying to control the situation. In fact, a funny side effect of this is that women tend to invite me over to their place first because I'm not the one pushing for it. In terms of approaching and leading girls: Yes, I've noticed the low-Se disadvantage, but that's something that can be developed.

I'm INFJ, Se is also my inferior function. What do you think a high-Se man can do in dating that you can not learn to do?

Go sit where people are and watch all the different types of people that are dating or in a relationship. Do you think they are all non-intuitive?

@Joseph Maynor Why not sell it? It's a waste of money sitting around and will deteriorate if not used.