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Yeah ,i think it is mainly related to my high junkie food ,coffee and cola consumption at that time İ didn't smoke when i had gastritis for the first time and i am smoking only 4 cigarettes for a day. Thanks for your recommendation.

Hi,i am 22 years old guy. i have this problem since my first ejaculation so approximately last 9 years.lately i have realized that it is something abnormal,because after i ejaculate i feel this annoying pain in my scrotum even after 10 hours of my orgasm ,so when i want meanwhile to get my second erection it is very painful and that's why impossible and because my friends have this type of pain after 4th ejaculation at the same night ,i think it is a patology. Especially when i ejaculate at night, i am waking up with a unbearable pain every morning ,when i have morning erections. İ was in 3 different urologist they all told me that i have to take painkillers and it is very difficult to get the root cause of this pain.but i have also gut problems and these drugs are not okay for me and of course i don't want to get these medicine for my whole life . İn google i didn't find any related article ,if anybody has any recommendation please help me.

Hi, it is a worldwide known problem and the cause of this sound is mostly undetectable ,in medical language it is idiopathic. İ had this sound even as i was a 9years old child i am 22 now, since april of this year i have noticed it much more as it was before. İ went to some doctors and we checked my auditory capacity ,which was absolutely normal .my doctor told me that it can not be solved,so i have to used to live with that sound ,which is sometimes unendurable. Does anybody have tinnitus,what would you recommend?

İ didn't smoke when i had gastritis for the first time and i am smoking only 4 cigarettes for a day. Thanks for your recommendation.

Thanks for your answer.i'll look at this book. But to be honest i can't believe in myself ,that i can handle it, the emotional baggage is so enormous..

Hi, it is a worldwide known problem and the cause of this sound is mostly undetectable ,in medical language it is idiopathic. İ had this sound even as i was a 9years old child i am 22 now, since april of this year i have noticed it much more as it was before. İ went to some doctors and we checked my auditory capacity ,which was absolutely normal .my doctor told me that it can not be solved,so i have to used to live with that sound ,which is sometimes unendurable. Does anybody have tinnitus,what would you recommend?

Hi,i am 22 years old guy. i have this problem since my first ejaculation so approximately last 9 years.lately i have realized that it is something abnormal,because after i ejaculate i feel this annoying pain in my scrotum even after 10 hours of my orgasm ,so when i want meanwhile to get my second erection it is very painful and that's why impossible and because my friends have this type of pain after 4th ejaculation at the same night ,i think it is a patology. Especially when i ejaculate at night, i am waking up with a unbearable pain every morning ,when i have morning erections. İ was in 3 different urologist they all told me that i have to take painkillers and it is very difficult to get the root cause of this pain.but i have also gut problems and these drugs are not okay for me and of course i don't want to get these medicine for my whole life . İn google i didn't find any related article ,if anybody has any recommendation please help me.

Hi, i don't know what to do.i mean my situation is so: i have serious emotional problems ,i am anxious since my childhood,my relationships are sucked because of my relationships with my parents. İ have smoked cigarettes 5years ago for the first time,but during this 5years i have quitted it for several times .last time it was for about 11 months and i am trying to cure my gastritis meanwhile. 3months ago i started psychoanalytic psychotherapy and last week i felt an amazing urge for cigarettes, so i couldn't resist because my willpower is very weak .actually as i have realized that,i have no free will ,my ego started to use this fact for mind confusion and i can't handle any of my self-development issues right now ,because i don't know what i am capable of and this thought is an obstacle for me right now. İ think i can't wait for so called insights in my therapy in order to be able to quit the cigarette again because my gastritis treatment will be worse and worse. İ think that, it is related to some resistances and i have to realize the deepest causes of my addiction but i don't know how i can control this urge till then. İf somebody has or had any related situations,i am open for any advice.

Hey , so you mean that psychoanalytic therapy has changed your personality ?

Yes you are right,but to be honest i have read 3different books about self esteem and one of them was Nataniel Brandon's 6pillars of self-esteem. That's why i have mentioned the free will issue, my emotional baggage doesn't let me doing any stuff and this annoys me İ thought that i can handle it by myself may be after some years because the improvement is so slow at this point of my journey and of course i don't want to lose my time.that's why i am trying to do my best in order to make these changes more possible than it was. As i said before these videos and books can't influence so much as it can for other people with less emotional problems. Do you think it is worth spend my time -which i think can't work for years because my manipulative mind makes the changing process researching or openmindness almost impossible-instead of spending my money ?

I have smoked it approximately 30-40 times

Hey Leo, i am 22 years old and living in Azerbaijan.i am shy and insecure and don't have any special passion or desire in my life.it is probably because of my low self esteem and childhood traumas which are the result of my problematic relationships with my parents-a overprotective mother and a father with low self esteem . İ have watched minimum 100 of your videos since the last year but i have a inferiority complex ,so most of the time it was a motivation for several days ,because my idol Leo have said that,but i could't do any hard work anyways,because a side of mine doesn't want to do anything ,only surfing in instagram or youtube and reading something about psychedelics or psychoanalysis which can give me the hope ,that one day i can change.i have contemplated every day for the last 1,5 years and meditated for the last 1,3 years.but it didn't help so much and i suffered because i could't do it properly because of my tricky mind. I have contemplated about this issue -Why i can't change myself and what is the key point ,the deepest thing that i have to change in order to become more peachful in my life.i have realised that i don't have any free will, it is all subconsciousness and even our decisions and desires and passions are coming from there ,which means that all criticism is meaningless,if you are not doing this with the aim affecting my subconscious mechanism and causing any movement or change in my life.But i am aware of that this thought can be used as manipulation from my ego-mind in order to make me more lazy,it is also a trap,i am trying stay aware. I have realized that even i am lucky with that realization that i can change myself and my perception if only i can change my subconscious mind because it is too strong and feeds itself,so we have to form a mechanism there which feeds itself upwards and get stronger and stronger.the only thing that we can do is that and the most important thing in order to find the happiness and truth.but i can't say when it will be the time for any change process it is random and it depends on your chance how fast it will feed itself or when you will get this insights that will lead you to the next step .1)what do you think about that? I began with psychoanalysis 3 month ago,i have financial problems but at the same time in my head it is very hard for me to spend money for anything (you now probably what i mean ) so i have no access to psychedelics , alternatives that i have found are eye movement desensitization therapy and neurofeedback therapy , which are probably not available in my country. I am not sure if i am doing the right thing because after 1,5years i'll have access to all of them.2) But is it dangerous taking psychedelics without any purification work? I am not sure enough if i have to spend my money for psychoanalytic therapy.

Hi, is it psychoanalytic psychotherapy or something else?

Hi, have you done psychoanalysis or any other therapy?

Thanks, yeah benzodiazepines are dangerous drugs .i am not sure what i am gonna do ,because i think antidepressant will interfere with my psychoanalysis that's why o am trying to avoid it for now Thank you for your answer. How long have you been in psychoanalysis?