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What is a principle worth? For me, it's more about principle than compassion, a social and civilizational principle for a government to not kill one's captured people. "Sanctity of life". Executions should be only applied in extremely exceptional and even historic cases. Like with nazi war criminals or Bin Laden (if he was captured alive). By your logic, we should just massacre all of the stage red people.

The potential for abuse and mistakes is too big though. Government should not execute people out of the principle that life has value. This is what differentiates us from places like Russia and North Korea.

It will make you masculine and sexual. This technique makes no-fap redundant. Enjoy yourself royally, just on occasion do this no cumming technique. One no-cumming equals 10 days of no fap. Obviously, it's more complex than that because body hormones and states can swing quite a bit (and don't overdo one or the other) but that's the general gist. This exercise will also be made redundant. Let your mind focus on positive things(; On dates, you want to avoid any foods that might overfill you or your girl. After dinner meeting, actually seems like a very good idea.

But that's first dates, right? I mean you can meet up for coffee and even dinner only so many times before it gets stale. This is how it is for me: The first date is for sitting, talking, a little walking and just generally getting to know the person. My second dates are basically the same but to avoid staleness and "demystification by oversharing" I bring along a game of Jenga. It's really fun to play especially with a drink, and the loser has to pay. It's simple but can get real intense(: The third date is even more activity-focused, I like going to museums because I have a free pass, I genuinely enjoy them and I want a girl of mine to also have this appreciation. After the museum, some food and drinks but lunch prices are much more bearable. If by then she doesn't feel comfortable enough to go to my place, it's most likely a flake. Also keeping food in my kitchen won't work per se because I do live a short train ride away from the city. Defaulting trains have cockblocked me more than once, but it is what it is. I am generally very satisfied with the location where I live.

I just live in an expensive place, especially with all the inflation that is going on now. A normal 2-person dinner with wine will set you back 45 euros at the very least. For that reason, I usually do only starters on second dates and go to multiple places so she will also pay. All and all I try not to make money into an issue. If I am comfortable spending she should be also. If you want to get more in touch with your ballsy, dominant and overall more masculine side. Before a date or going a night out, try masturbating a little without cumming. This will require control and awareness but for me at least it's not that hard to do. Just use pics instead of vids.

@Leo Gura What do you do if you have a date planned in the evening and nobody ate yet?

If you have a date planned in the evening, like at 6 for example when nobody ate yet. Isn't it kind of inevitable to have a "costly" diner date? For me, just spending the evening with a beautiful/elegant/feminine woman is something I value. I happily pay for the first date. If she lets me pay without a courteous protest as in "let me pay" or "we'll split", that's a good sign the date is going well. Even when she will flake the emotional cost will make the financial cost seem negligible. Also, I wish that I had so many dates that it would be a real financial issue(;

Can you have a mix? I always do proper dates. Just showing that I am an interesting and "normal" easy-to-be-around kind of guy. But at the same time, I always take action to escalate and she must understand that I am sexual. Then it's up to her to decide whether to get along to my place or maybe when the romance wasn't sufficient to (hopefully) have another date. I am not a player but I always try to keep the tension that at any date she might not resist me(;

@mr_engineer Do not be so intimidated, it's not a full-time job. It's mostly when you start out it's the most grueling. Eventually, you just have to find your way of doing this in a time and energy-efficient way. forget about the 1000 approaches. After a little time of approaching you'll be swallowed into the belly of the beast. Then you'll have to decide whether to commit or opt out. once you commit, you commit, then there is no way out for you anymore. Welcome to real self-development. It's true, most people don't have the vision, mentality or heart to commit. Are you "most people"?

@mr_engineer You sound very inexperienced and therefore ignorant of the issue at hand. Sperm-wars? incel-shootings? remove these words from your vocabulary and commit to getting better with girls so you can find yourself one nice girlfriend. It won't be easy but definitely worth it for the self-development you'll achieve. The sex itself is not what it is about. I hope you will be able to read your post one day and cringe at it.

I get what you're saying but it's not totally true. It definitely does not have to be this way. There are more "pure" and spiritual components at play as well. But yes, the better you get with girls the better you can capitalize on these aspects.

I know what you mean: just loving a girl will get you nowhere. Though girls are most definitely highly attracted to authentic expressions of (romantic) love. Such as passionate kissing, love in tone of voice, masculine protectiveness, ownership and being in tune with her emotions and "agenda" and also/especially vulnerability! @Leo Gura When you say "survival value" you make it sound like every guy needs to be the stereotypical Chad douchebag or some kind of successful millionaire. Which will result in newbies acting in all kinds of creepy and even sociopathic ways. If a guy wants to get good with girls. He either needs to get in touch with his authentic masculinity and/or with their femininity when a guy is overly masculine (though this is rarer). There are no shortcuts, strong men are made not born. But...! A cheat code I use before dates and before nights going out is to masturbate but not to cum. This will put me easier in touch with my powerful masculinity and sexual charisma, and my femininity is also still with me. I've done it so often that I actually can watch soft porn in a pretty disciplined manner, never feel painful blueballs and I also don't cum immediately when having sex. (after a while your balls seem to forget they were on the brink of cumming.) So for the more feminine guys, I highly recommend trying this technique and noticing the difference in how you feel and act and how girls react to you.

When I came across that dude I thought that he was a genuine, conscious, and wise dude. But I guess when you take up on the role of "shaman" things will get to your head. Really being a shaman is an enormous responsibility, and when you're shamen for damaged drug addicts this increases the risk and responsibility a hundredfold. Shamans should do background checks and reject unstable and immature people but of course that is not his mission. If you're unstable or immature you're better of doing more frequent but "gentle" therapy sessions with small to moderate doses of lsd/shrooms/dmt rather than a full dose of 5meo. Also, I followed that guy on Facebook and saw a post of his praising Qadaffi. Pretty weird and fucked up.

Diluted vinegar for cooking is fine, drinking a tablespoon seems just stupid to me. not all organ/body tissue reacts the same. Obviously, the stomach and throat are such that they can handle extreme levels of acidity. But is this also true for inside your rectum? In some folk remedies, people use a cloth with vinegar to hold up against painful areas. They mostly just end up burning off their skin. My point is just not to use undiluted vinegar when plugging because this brings an unnecessary risk.

Try training your voice and if you have good energy you should speak into her ear with your nose pressed against her. Because I am in such a good mood today I'll share these club cheat codes with you: Cheat code 1: before club masturbate but don't cum. I recommend using pics instead of vids because they are less stimulating and thus it will be easier for you to control yourself (also avoid painful blueballs). Then go to clubs and project your energy on some random girls. The cool thing about clubs is that it's socially acceptable to fully project your sexuality unto some stranger girl. You'll be polarizing but that's what you want. Cheat code 2: microdose LSD Cheat code 3: Enter God mode by combining cheat code 1 and 2

Yep, this is what I am doing for years. My last trip was my deepest yet. I realized my life is an imagination with zero substance. There is only so much fear I can tolerate in the come-up phase, so I take it slowly. During the Come-up, I am like "what hell am I doing to myself". And after the trip I am like: I want to go again! again! Though sometimes it's hard to tell the difference between pussy-footing and responsible dosage setting and trip pacing. I try to be as intuitive as possible in deciding when to trip again. On average it's something like once a month, maybe a bit more.

I have this fond childhood/teenage memory where I concentrated so hard during a chess game that it felt like my brain would shake out of my head. It was pure bliss after I won. I never concentrated so hard ever again in my life.

When I was out of a job, playing chess was the only thing I was daily doing that I felt helped my brain stay challenged, sharp and engaged. I also think chess played a big role in keeping my old grandpa relativly sharp

I think most PUA's are overdoing this. I recently went out with my old PUA coach (not paid but just as buddies). And I was shocked at how try-hard and cringy he seemed when he kept persisting by constantly coming up with new things to say. He has spent years training this talking skill but I noticed how inauthentic it was to him. He is generally a "successful" PUA and I learned a lot from him but in my opinion, is a more silent "energy/chemistry focused game" way superior to constantly speaking. Also, I just don't believe in persistence on girls that are not open/interested.

I've seen it grow wild in some parts. It's really a beautiful plant. It got this aura to it. Same with opium poppies and peyote. Something about them makes you know they have these sick mystical powers.

Tap into the Godly visual beauty of the flowers and keep it at that(;

Personally, I just embrace the quiet, if there is a click this will build pressure. Ideally, you'll let her bask in your energy and let her release the pressure by making it a back-and-forth interaction. Or what about saying "I don't know what to say" when you don't know what to say. Also, observational remarks can be good. "you must be very creative". (when she has an unusually creative outfit for example).

@Vercingetorix Good! Not depending on anyone is the most powerful thing here. I daygame alone mostly because of that. And honestly having a wing in daygame who is not an experienced pro will only hold you back. It will just increase the cringe and not to mention you'll have to share. But I also have a special bias because I do mostly day game in a city where I relatively often stumble into people I know. Therefore I put a lot of value on subtility and situational awareness to avoid drawing attention. Only when I am at the very point of doing the approach I go into full "not giving a fuck-mode". For me personally, a big lesson from daygame is that I have to prioritize my mental health. My main struggle was not to feel like a crazy person for doing this. I was either going to quit or continue in a way that is respectable, cool, non-cringy and even beautiful. (all for me in a highly subjective manner). This means that now I push myself less, go home when my energy is off (when girls react more closed-off than usual and this pattern doesn't seem to improve), I don't persist when she is not open or impressed by my presence and I keep within my integrity and authenticity as much as possible. Integrity > standard pick-up theory.

Hmm... When I do an approach, I often in the first few seconds intuitively know if she is "open" to me. AKA whether we click. Personally, I never persist with a girl that doesn't click. Because I authentically lose interest in her, in my mind if a girl is not impressed by my presence I'll just think she is dumb and defective as a woman or we simply don't match, and that's perfectly fine and normal. If I approach and she looks away from me, that's a big no-no for me. Like, that's an immediate "bye have a nice day!". My intuition is obviously not perfect but I do sense these clicks with girls. Sometimes a girl will click very well but has a boyfriend. Or it will click but I do bad game. That would be a more "true" loss. I know some girls will subtly test men by acting like a cold fish. Though this is not most girls and personally I find that very unattractive. Most feminine girls won't help themselves but to express their "openess"/interest in all kinds of tacit ways, acting feminine for one. But also her sprinkling in some shit-tests. Ironically these are some of the most explicit indicators of interest. Personally, I put a lot of value on click. For me having a click trumps all in getting girls.

I have recently been doing some 5-meo-malt. Each time I can really feel my lower back energies. Maybe it's nonsense but I can Intuit that my awakening will go hand in hand with an explosion of energy from my lower back. I am afraid I will not be able to handle the intensity of energy (nor do I really want to). Any tips, what should I do?