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@docs20 If you want to get more in touch with your ballsy, dominant and overall more masculine side. Before a date or going a night out, try masturbating (a little) without cumming. This will require practice, control and awareness but for me at least it's not that hard to do. Just use pics instead of vids. Eventually, you'll reach a point where you can masturbate for a very long time without cumming and you'll still get all of that sexual energy pumped into your body. But you also don't want to overdo this.

Which is exactly the right-wing criticism of what trans people are doing: trying to fit in and be more "cool". Fitting into stereotypes is what all right-wingers love to do. No, I meant keeping your masculine force in check not repressing any gay/trans urges if you have those. The challenge for most heterosexual (young) men (irregardless of right/left-wing) is twofold: 1. How to get in touch with your powerful authentic masculinity. 2. Once there, how to contain and express it in healthy ways. It's more a balancing of forces, the primal vs the civilized if you will.

"right-winger" or not, a lot of (young) men are insecure about their masculinity. Most even don't know what authentic masculinity is and how to attain it. Masculinity definitely has a dangerous reckless side that must be controlled. But ironically keeping that force in check makes you even more masculine, that is what makes you "cool". To be honest I never heard about men taking hormones. But before dates, I do manipulate my body via a masturbation technique to gain testosterone/masculinity (and even creativity). If I didn't do that seducing/turning on women would be so much harder. Maybe a cool new topic. "How to get in touch with your authentic masculinity".

She is a pretty university student that just moved to my town. Is she shopping for a new lover or does she just want a cool guy to entertain her because she is bored and lonely in the new town? We already had an instant date but only later she mentioned her boyfriend. She is obviously attracted to me and I do project sexual energy (we click well). So she should (and will) sense that I am "a threat". But of course, I do not want to have sex with her if she is in a happy relationship. I only will do that if she already broke up with him (small chance but possible) or she clearly states to me that she isn't happy with him and has the intention of breaking up. I am going out with her on Friday, how, if, and when do I ask about her boyfriend situation? I don't want it to be awkward nor make her close off to me (as not to be perceived as slutty or a cheater).

@Hello from Russia@Tyler Robinson@Leo Gura@NoSelfSelf@integral She is a cute little PhD student. In my book that's as high quality as they come. From her perspective, she did nothing wrong by just meeting me up and she did honestly say that she got a boyfriend beforehand. But yeah we do click very well, we talked about interesting intelligent topics. We also had very solid eye contact throughout, and I did manage to get some minor physical escalation. She wants me, but to be honest I am not sure how to continue with her. She still got her feminine coyness so If I do nothing, nothing will happen.

Update: So I went on the date. Was just a fun night out drinking. She has definitely some issues with her boyfriend (we talked about it) and there was definitely tension between us. But I don't see anything happening in the near future. She is more of a long-term prospect. I won't put any effort into pursuing her. She stated she wants to see me again but I will let her send the "after-date text" otherwise nothing will happen and it will end here. At least for the near future.

@flowboy @Federico del pueblo @Leo Gura Thanks for the comment. I will go and report back. (Not a promise though) An important detail is that she is new in town and here for the long run. Her boyfriend is probably left behind relatively far away in another country. I am talking Holland-Belgium, it's not that far away but still kinda unpractical to travel there regularly.

@petar8p Yeah, I think I am just going to ask

@NoSelfSelf I am not a "gay male friend". We have serious polarity and I accept nothing less. I do mind her having a boyfriend that's why I started this thread.

@NoSelfSelf To be honest I just want to feel the waters and see. I am no saint but I am definitely no simp either. @universe I think I will just explore and not overthink this issue. I am currently also dating another girl that has put me on hold due to exam deadlines. I really like her so if she flakes it will be a very hard hit for me, so exploring other options is here the best thing to do to not feel needy or crushed if she flakes.

I don't feel my dignity is on the line by meeting up with her. I have a hard line against interfering in a happy relationship though an unhappy dying one is a grey area for me. I will communicate this clearly to her if it ever comes so far but I don't assume I will be having sex with her. My main question is how do I communicate with her on this issue? What does that mean? future lover? is that a bad thing?

I am writing this post half as a joke because my life doesn't revolve around getting laid, pursuing my passions is way more important. But I am seriously considering taking a pet snake. Something like a false coral snake. I already admitted my fascination for snakes to various girls I dated. And to be honest, how they reacted was entirely based on how much they were into me. If a girl was sufficiently into me she thinks it's "cool". But I also had some mediocre dates where the girl was visibly turned off by the idea of snakes and creatures of the like, "Ewww" they would softly say. Anyhow each time I will bring a girl home the snake will definitely get some attention. I don't know how feminine girls will react to that and whether they'll still be in the mood haha.

In the near future copywriting on its own won't be a viable profession due to AI. Nowadays to make a text or article all you have to do is to run AI and make some corrections. If that's what you want to do, think more broadly. For example, instead of a copywriter be a marketing communication expert or a community manager. Just to name a few things. A more directing role is needed.

That's not what I said. It's not about the hours per day. Think more broadly, complexly and with vision I understand it's very hard to do so without outside responsibility. That's why you have no choice but to develop vision and immense inner strength. Yellow is very intellectual. But it doesn't seem you are applying that to managing your life or having a worldview/philosophy you can draw comfort and satisfaction from. Why are your thoughts so painful? because they aren't true! Also green at a young age is often just a philosophical justification for your weakness and why you are a such special snowflake. From your original post, I did get that you have a lot of pent-up masculine energy, Good! Use that and take some (smart) risks.

@Ramzi08 Lazy genes!? Never heard greater bullshit in my life. Each of your ancestors since the literal beginning of time worked his ass off just to survive and make your existence possible. You have some serious limiting beliefs, the thing about those beliefs is that they seem like solid reality. Those beliefs are illusionary bullshit, every young person (and you are really young) learns work ethic and discipline. Life forces you into it. Life is about getting stronger. The weakest mold themselves into the strongest. You're only 22 and claim to be green-yellow? focus on blue and orange. Have a deep respect for the qualities of these stages.

Haha, cool replies! Thanks for the message

Thanks everybody for your comments. To clear up some misconceptions, The snakes I have in mind are absolutely harmless. "exotic" is a highly relative term that really means nothing when you think about it. Pet reptiles, including snakes, are relatively common and a lot is known about their care. Yes, a captive-bred snake will never experience the infinite space his ancestors would have had in nature. Though having lost this freedom he will gain the freedom from hunger, thirst, disease and parasites. And of course, his enclosure must be of sufficient size. Here play in factors such as obviously the size of the animal but also his lifestyle (is it very active or calm) and is it a fast or a slow mover. I have done crazy amounts of research on this topic and just last week I returned from the jungles of Suriname where I learned even more. The only reason I kept off taking one is due to the strong reaction people have to them.

Pfff.... That's why girls are lame. Just kidding, many guys have strong reactions to snakes as well. Girls on this forum please let me know: will you date a guy who owns a pet snake?

Vinegar is highly acidic, it literally dissolves surfaces. It goes without saying that you should never use white/pure vinegar for plugging. Apple cider is a little better but still extremely acidic, it's not "green apple acidic" but on a whole different level. If you want to dissolve your 5meo use 1 or 2 drops of apple cider and the rest water. That should do the job and even if the 5meo powder if it's not completely dissolved, the dose is just as potent. I am saying this because I noticed that after trips I have a peculiar pain when pooping. I did some research on how vinegar can be damaging to the body and came to the conclusion that organ and body tissue has a hard time handling those levels of acidity. I think that it can get particularly dangerous when you plug regularly using nothing but vinegar.

@Leo Gura you keep telling how girls are attracted to assholes because they are emotionally stimulating. That's true to a degree. But at the same time, it is not really that hard to be emotionally stimulating when you are a "strong" man and you click with a girl. If you developed yourself to the point of being pretty decent, meaning you have embodied the basic principles of pick-up and dating, you actually can be very chill, decent and kind to the girl. and you still be emotionally very stimulating. Exactly! I get crazy pick-up results after a 5meo trip

Ukraine is slowly but steadily taking back land. I see this trend continuing. Russia's strategy is to slow this advance by digging into trenches and leveraging their bigger numbers as they can always find enough men to (re)fill up those trenches. Russia is making use of some old but theoretically solid military strategies, combining the defensive advantage of ww1 style trench warfare with brutish capitalizing on its larger numbers against a smaller but way stronger force. The Union army turned around the civil war when they started capitalizing on their larger numbers by accepting they will take the larger losses and incorporate "cannon-fodder" like tactics during battle. The only difference is that back then basically everybody was cannon fodder and generals like Ulysess S Grant were morally tormented and actually cried for their man. I don't think Russian generals and officers share this mentality. But the question for Russia remains: will this strategy hold in 21 century-modern warfare? Also, this winter will be harder on the demoralized Russians rather than the well-equipped Ukrainians. Being a Russian soldier on the Ukrainian front is the last place on earth any human in this world would want to be.

I just felt like sharing this weird thing I noticed in day game where sometimes I will approach a girl that is incredibly hot and from the first second she is super excited and genuinely attracted to me. She makes everything very easy for me and she'll be the one to gladly asking for my number with the specific purpose to hang out later. It's almost like she is meeting Brad Pitt. But when I have her number she either blocks me right away or flakes after 1 or 2 texts. So as fast as she was hooked she also flakes. I think it's because afterwards she realizes "wait a minute, who the fuck was that guy?" and even feels embarrassed for acting so excited and making it so easy. It's important to note that I did not have the opportunity for instant dates to build some familiarity in those cases. But still, they were really hot and we clicked exceptionally well, like the potential for a beautiful synergy was very big and yet they flake so fast. Like, if you're experienced in this field. Do you also experience this phenomenon when it's a curse when girls are overly enthusiastic, totally compliant and lose their feminine coyness?

I will do none of this manipulative PUA bullshit(; The thing you must appreciate about learning pick-up is how it is a subtle art form revolving around embodiment and honest signals. The better you are the fewer out-of-integrity manipulations you have to do, all of those stem from insecurity anyways. Respect the art form, it's like being a whisperer of venomous snakes. Also, appreciate that pick-up is a very spiritual process of personal transformation that when done right should lead to integrity and better character. The subjective judgment of girls is spiritual feedback that sculpts you and makes you better. When you get bit by a venomous snake you learn quickly to adjust yourself.

Had a good date, she was very late which annoyed me. But basically she was just as enthusiastic as when I approached her. She was really into me, I didnt even had shit test from her. She was constantly very enthusiastic and sweet to me. We had some cool romantic moments

The funny thing is I approached that girl when she was waiting on her date. But she told me that she wasn't really feeling attracted to him and wanted to politely and respectfully communicate that to him. I assume it's true but maybe it was a spiel for me. Either way, I feel flattered(: I am seeing her on Friday if she doesn't flake. Another girl I am seeing tomorrow so that put's the pressure a little bit off.