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Haha Yes! no intellectual philosophizing. You have a stance, state it and make it clear that you're ready to chop off the head of anybody that disagrees with you. I often made the mistake of being too" courteous", "open-minded" and intellectual on dates where instead I just should have had expressed a strong stance.

@Danioover9000 I am not familiar with Destiny or his style. I had experiences where I was in a grey zone. I almost made a girl lose her flight because I was being selfish, not taking her agenda into proper consideration. I did not do the right thing by causing her extra stress and felt bad for it. Also, I didn't get laid then because she could sense that I was hesitant about my actions. Sure, have masculine energy! With that energy, you can be a dangerous man but at the same time you got it under control and you don't need to act needlessly like a dick. I notice that in cultures where there is a bigger contrast between men and women, like in Eastern Europe. It's custom for the man to behave like a gentleman towards a woman. Why? because the man does not need to prove his masculinity, because it's most likely already there. He needs to prove that he can take care of her.

@Leo Gura I understand of course, It's just that it's a common misconception that you need to be a dick to get girls. But apparently being a dick only works if you're a psychopath, which most guys are not.

You have Psychopath game and normal game. In normal game you're respectful. Because being a dick does not work if you're a decent person who had a good upbringing.

How is that even possible? I never invite girls to my town, let alone my house for the first time (always to the big city nearby). What kind of girl would tolerate such shit from a guy she has zero connection with? I lost girls for all kinds of little faux pas, and he gets away with that!? Also Brand seems to have some serious charm and social skills so why would he use such an insane style?

As part of Sex-ed young men should be taught to always take it slowly. The whole beauty of initiating love is that you take it slowly, being accommodating and giving the girl the space to potentially react clearly if she changes her mind. Guys should know that it's normal to sleep with a girl in the same bed without sex if she is not receptive. By stating this as normal this takes a lot of the pressure off. What we have now is just blindly terrifying young men with #metoo shaming which only creates more confusion, dysfunction and potentially even more sexual misconduct.

No, Florida and Texas are doing a great job at attracting business and (educated) people

Did you learn a lesson after that experience? In my experience pick-up lines, let alone edgy pick-up lines are unnecessary. Also, you told her that she is perfect which is probably untrue and giving all your cards away.

That's exactly the appeal of the Republicans. If you're a business or homeowner, you're primary concern is to get the homeless people away from your store entrance or your front yard where your children play. So a crude approach is applauded in this instance regardless of "heart" or "long-term sustainability".

@Leo Gura Oke, I see your point. But how is the American people going to see what you see, if they see near-apocalyptic homelessness in San Fransico while Texas and Florida are doing well? They will say: Sure, some of the Republicans are "stupid and bad". But the Democrats have the far left, who in their eyes seem to hate America. Which is a bigger evil.

How do you explain Florida and Texas being America's most successful states currently? Tell that to somebody from San Fransisco

Nah, only Russians and Brazilians got style figured out. Approaching a feminine stylish girl feels so incredibly natural and easy.

@StarStruck from my experience girls only express obnoxious/controversial opinions if they're not into you. Otherwise, she'll be very yielding and not express strong opinions that might cause a rift. Of course, some women are the dominant career tiger type with leadership roles. They tend to be more dominant. I myself cannot handle dominant girls because I am very chill and will never forcefully "outpower" her if she does not give me the room to let happen it naturally through our chemistry.

Still very rare though, only after a few dates of really connecting and sharing vulnerability, the girl will send an after-date text implying to see me again. But that's so rare. Even after sincere, hot and fun dates in which she is obviously attracted, she won't bother to send a "respectful" after-date text thanking me. I just think girls know that they have a huge leverage during during text where my charm has no effect. She'll use that opportunity to act aloof and purposefully frustrate me to pump up her value. I just feel very disrespected by that, I treat her with respect and give her a good time by making her feel emotional yet it doesn't feel like she really values that. Why can't feminine girls act respectfully during text? The highest form of day game is a combination of two things: Smooth, cool approaches and knowing your type. Most of the pain that beginners experience is because they approach women who are obviously not their type with an autistic cringe persistence and they make clowns of themselves during the physical act of approaching. I have been there, and it's just part of the learning process but you must grow out of it relatively quickly.

Why? Relatively consistent use definitely did lift my baseline. I am not super conscious or anything but I definitely feel that Bueaty has now a harder time hiding from me.

@mr_engineer @Raze What if I told you that it's easier for "ugly" people to have more loving and deep relationships than "beautiful" people. A physically unattractive women and men will still attract the right person if they are decent and loving people on the inside. It's a curse to be beautiful or have high beauty standers. There is whole shallow ocean of insecurities, pettiness and ego that comes with it.

@The Redeemer The truth is you can be (and need to be) very nice and respectful to women as long as you're strong. A girl that's into you will give you the space to be masculine. Yes, girls are highly subjective and driven by the whims of emotion and with that comes a certain selfishness, disrespect and coldness. But part of your development as a man, and spiritually really, is to maintain your objective clear thinking (so not toxic resentment and blaming) and most of all your integrity! If you need to be erratic and angry to get laid you're operating from a hurt inauthentic place.

I am so incredibly sensitive to style. When a woman gets naked she becomes 50% less attractive for me. The style of most Western girls is so plain and boring though.

Example of extreme personality, life purpose, and masculinity fulfilling a noble service to society. There is something about snakes that makes them very spiritual creatures. It is said that their venom contains substances that make creatures like rats accept death when envenomated. How do we know that? Guys like him. This is science at it its purest.

I am really grateful to the girls that satisfy me but when I want to lovingly return the favor I seem to lose a lot of my passion. Fingering is really tiring and boring. Also eating pussy is boring and sometimes upsets my sensitive stomach (when I swallow too much of those juices). I find it sexy to see her moan and have horny looks but can't help to feel a little empty and bored inside. I would also add that I eventually get really tired and sick of kissing too much during lovemaking as well. Now these things are the opposite of exciting for me but how can these things become more enjoyable to me?

yeah, but the point is they themselves kinda don't care about commitment. Lately, I have been picking up tourist girls, also this "mature" doctor from Colombia and all she wanted was an intimate night. She is the one using and discarding me in a sense. (Though the free breakfast buffet at the hotel was deeply appreciated:P) She would have been more vulnerable to "being used" if I kept her around but was actively searching to upgrade her. Girls can be cold and detached, certainly more than me if not most guys. They treat guys like they are nothing, if she is emotionally not feeling it anymore you're done for it, discarded! But when she is "attached" and you don't respond to a text at the right time: That is disrespectful and extremely unatentive! I have had dates with girls with boyfriends and it is insane how they put up a smoke screen of being pure and innocent.

Stronghold Crusader was a sick game though

@Danioover9000 That's biased as hell, he conveniently leaves out genocidal massacres committed by the people's crusade led by Peter the Hermit. And they literally killed every man, women and child after they conquered Jerusalem in the first crusade. Of course social advancement and "legit" geopolitical considerations allowed for the crusades to happen. But apart from an unbelievably successful first crusade, they were mostly a series of failures and disasters, also for the wider Christian world. They sacked Constantinople because of some petty internal squabbles, which Crusaders had all the time. Constantinople would never recover from that and the most wealthiest and advanced medieval Empire would be mostly forgotten and not given much thought after the Turkish conquest. The medieval age is complex and nuanced but in general, Muslims were more advanced and tolerant back then. Obviously, everyone was a barbarian in a sense back then. Saladin was not like a highly enlightened and compassionate good guy but in a medieval Islamic context, he certainly had a certain decency and integrity. Definitely not as fanatic as the Christians.

@asesuaugisltu I always feel very uneasy when the girl goes faster than me. Like if we just met and she already grabs my forearm and gets incredibly close, making physical contact. She wants to fuck alright but damn I don't feel ready.

As long as those people are not dying in the West its a blip on the radar