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Love is not a conspicuous display. Of showmanship or staged array. It's a furtive act, a kindness given To a noticed need, without condition Love is the answer to a prayer. A light that shines, an unflagging flare. It's not about being seen or heard. But about actions that speak in more than word Love is not something premeditated. A show put on, an accolade awaited. It's a selfless act of giving, of sharing. Without expecting and there's no comparing Love is a gentle touch, a listening ear. A helping hand, wiping away that tear. A steadfast presence, a shoulder on which to lean A comforting embrace, a safe harbor seen Love is not about being flashy or bold. It's the little things, the stories untold. It's essence is compassion, kindly care A precious gift that's oh so rare

just face the fact that everyone is on a continuum of evolutionary development know where you're strong, know where you're shit market yourself to find those who need your strong and counter your shit only very few are for you same for everyone

it is collective hand holding, a group hug ... which may have its place as training wheels for the up and coming if there is a self realised person then it can be beneficial to meditate with him/her since their energy field can boost your own ultimately however the work has to be done alone and the experience is different for everyone, existence never make duplicates

the presence of others is one more distraction no matter how accomplished the meditator as a person, there is zero benefit to meditating with another only downsides meditation is removing the ego not stroking it

my answer to this is i am pretty open actually, what is your take on it (optional: and what is your personal experience and how is you lifestyle because of it) this leads to a fruitful conversation such a question if answered easily leads to argument and conflict which is why i suggest the above which leads to agreement and harmony

god doesn't know its own name let along anything about itself knowing is a mind realm it's like you have never looked in a mirror before guess i'm pretty fly the deeper a mind goes, the more fun god has, it's an infinitely fascinating game it made for itself

for those who happen to come from the absolute perspective sure

the word suffering etymologically means to allow something to affect you negatively things happen are they good, are they bad, are they god it is all your choice pain is merely a body reacting that something has gone wrong

who are you going to ask

did you wonder why realised people don't need anaesthetic to have surgery ... they dont made episodes about it on youtube either

neo advaita = don't lift a finger, all is perfection, just admire and behold advaita vedanta = strain every sinew to inhabit your true nature then make this yet more perfect, this is your absolute birthright

do everything with a burning totality until you see the utter stupidity ... at which point you will get wholly serious about singing dancing painting poetry etc. hope you catch my drift seems you are doing fantastic as it is so keep on keeping on

am i a body or am i beyond a body can i realize this and embody it? this is the work

life has 3 realms, samsara nirvana nondual spirituality is the journey from 1 to 3 nirvana is the end of suffering, it it the transmuting of every bad to its good and while we're here nondual is from good to god, your absolute reality

the only ethical sales is you need this but you don't realize it and i shall hereby tell you why if you are dealing with a person's wants not needs this is manipulation and unethical why unethical? you dont know if i have money for your wares so you are potentially taking money from a child's mouth if it's a need you are perfectly justified needs are far more wide ranging that one realises; there are many things i can sell you that you had no clue you needed

you cant do meditation out of external motivation has to be intrinsic a fire within group meditation is utterly counterproductive except if you are already a dedicated meditator - like for example folks at vipassana retreats

leave the you at the door before sitting on the floor

if anyone is curious https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11849119/The-seedy-retreat-shaman-charges-800-high-hallucinogenic-drug-ayahuasca.html?ns_mchannel=rss&ns_campaign=1490&ito=social-twitter_dailymailus

youre distracted 24-7 so why not 23-7

https://www.reddit.com/r/RationalPsychonaut/comments/11n9pnu/replacing_psychedelics_with_meditation/ that sub is recommended too ... comment either here or there if you want to share your own insights

death is simply the ramping up of pain, today it's 9 tomorrow likely 9.5, until you get to 10 and the you gives up go sit with someone who is terminal in hospice with pain meds hourly to keep them alive highly recommended

no it's not the dreaded c word, it's worse it's the grim reaper keep saying it's time ... it's that dreaded downward plunge ... this is death at least for me thank you for your compassion ... i am perfectly indifferent as to when i go i bless you today

death isn't oh shit something bad is ahead and i am going to die one day namely coming to grips with your own moratality death is my life right now if fucking miserable and painful and gruesome and this is the beginning of the downward spiral to the end i almost certainly have cancer or something worse and there is no hope or recourse or salvation possible there is no point going on

ask chat-gpt to give you as many as you feel like chat with it to tell it your personality your traumas your past relationship problems your relationship goals you can have different lists of boundaries for each different environment you inhabit

fear is please god keep me here one more day, i am a good boy i promise not like that loser in the hospital bed next to me