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ego's main job is to give you one more day here, that's why you have a fridge full of food, ego is doing its job

fear is wanting this to continue when you know it won't

a leader is about issuing a 4-point proposal what you will do how long you need to do so what resources you require what happens when you fail/succeed it's a finite term contract to complete given task/s you are good to the extent you complete the task/s

awakening: first step know what you are final step be what you are, first is mental final is experiential, both are work

everyone thinks they're a person until the moment some sage shows them they're not the chances of finding said sage are highly remote the chances of said sage transmitting - and you at that point being receptive - are remoter still

even atheists daily pray, just gimme another day

if your spirituality doesn't include understanding the unspiritual, something is wrong one, compassion grace mercy need to be visible fruits of your path two, know that everyone is exactly where they are meant to be and doing precisely what they need to do ... with no need for you to butt in three, get humble and childlike and charitable and start getting on your hands and knees for the weakest and the lowest, then things will make more sense four, develop your listening and empathy muscles, intentional presence is all people are seeking from you five, learn to speak your truth in one sentence, nobody needs a degree to know the truth, come off your high horse and out of your ivory tower six, learn what love means and if you haven't loved your neighbor today, your spirituality is a complete waste if you do you well, then you will see spirituality growing leaps and bounds everywhere indeed the more conscious you get the more you see everything is perfect

success for the ego is about superiority status importance contemplate how one could reframe what success is, in a conscious non-egoic way

i know! let's play a game of imagining i have limits

everything is for your benefit, all is a miracle, life is amazing and only getting more so be tender, be compassionate, be merciful, be slow to anger and rich in loving kindness each acts according to their accumulated consciousness, each contends that they are good right justified, each is doing the best they can

more from hongzhi:

Questioner: You say reality is one. Oneness, unity, is the attribute of the person. Is then reality a person, with the universe as its body? Nisargadatta Maharaj: Whatever you may say will be both true and false. Words do not reach beyond the mind. Q: I am just trying to understand. You are telling us of the Person, the Self and the Supreme (vyakti, vyakta, avyakta). The light of Pure Awareness (prajna), focussed as ‘I am’ in the Self (jivatma), as consciousness (chetana) illumines the mind (antahkarana) and as life (prana) vitalises the body (deha). All this is fine as far as the words go. But when it comes to distinguishing in myself the person from the Self and the Self from the Supreme, I get mixed up. M: The person is never the subject. You can see a person, but you are not the person. You are always the Supreme which appears at a given point of time and space as the witness, a bridge between the pure awareness of the Supreme and the manifold consciousness of the person. Q: When I look at myself, I find I am several persons fighting amongst themselves for the use of the body. M: They correspond to the various tendencies (samskara) of the mind. Q: Can I make peace between them? M: How can you? They are so contradictory! See them as they are: mere habits of thoughts and feelings, bundles of memories and urges. Q: Yet they all say, “I am”. M: It is only because you identify yourself with them. Once you realise that whatever appears before you cannot be yourself and cannot say, “I am”, you are free of all your ‘persons’ and their demands. The sense ‘I am’ is your own. You cannot part with it, but you can impart it to anything, as in saying, “I am young”, “I am rich” and so on. But such self-identifications are patently false and the cause of bondage. Q: I can now understand that I am not the person, but that which, when reflected in the person, gives it a sense of being. Now, what about the Supreme? In what way do I know myself as the Supreme? M: The source of consciousness cannot be an object in consciousness. To know the source is to be the source. When you realise that you are not the person, but the pure and calm witness, and that fearless awareness is your very being, you are the being. It is the source, the Inexhaustible Possibility. Q: Are there many sources or one for all? M: It depends how you look at it: in other words, from which end. The objects in the world are many, but the eye that sees them is one. The higher always appears as one to the lower and the lower as many to the higher. Q: Shapes and names are all of one and the same God? M: Again, it all depends on how you look at it. On the verbal level everything is relative. Absolutes should be experienced, not discussed. Q: How is the Absolute experienced? M: It is not an object to be recognised and stored up in memory. Rather, it is in the present and in feeling. It has more to do with the ‘how’ than with the ‘what’. It is in the quality, in the value; being the source of everything, it is in everything. Q: If it is the source, why and how does it manifest itself? M: It gives birth to consciousness. All else is in consciousness. Q: Why are there so many centres of consciousness? M: The objective universe (mahadakash) is in constant movement, projecting and dissolving innumerable forms. Whenever a form is infused with life (prana), consciousness (chetana) appears by reflection of awareness in matter. Q: How is the Supreme affected? M: What can affect it and how? The source is not affected by the vagaries of the river nor is the metal by the shape of the jewelry. Is the light affected by the picture on the screen? The Supreme makes everything possible; that is all. Q: How is it that some things do happen and some do not? M: Seeking out causes is a pastime of the mind. There is no duality of cause and effect. Everything is its own cause. Q: No purposeful action is then possible? M: All I say is that consciousness contains all. In consciousness all is possible. You can have causes if you want them, in your world. Another may be content with a single cause: God’s will. The root cause is one: the sense ‘I am’. Q: What is the link between the Self (vyakta) and the Supreme (Avyakta)? M: From the self’s point of view the world is the known, the Supreme — the Unknown. The Unknown gives birth to the known, yet remains Unknown. The known is infinite, but the Unknown is an infinitude of infinities. Just like a ray of light is never seen unless intercepted by the specs of dust, so does the Supreme make everything known while remaining unknown itself. Q: Does it mean that the Unknown is inaccessible? M: Oh, no. The Supreme is the easiest to reach for it is your very being. It is enough to stop thinking and desiring anything but the Supreme. Q: And if I desire nothing, not even the Supreme? M: Then you are as good as dead, or you are the Supreme. Q: The world is full of desires. Everybody wants something or other. Who is the desirer? The person or the self? M: The self. All desires, holy and unholy, come from the self; they all hang on the sense ‘I am’. Q: I can understand holy desires (satyakama) emanating from the self. It may be the expression of the bliss aspect of the Sadchitananda (Beingness–Awareness–Happiness) of the Self. But why unholy desires? M: All desires aim at happiness. Their shape and quality depend on the psyche (antahkarana). Where inertia (tamas) predominates, we find perversions. With energy (rajas), passions arise. With lucidity (sattva) the motive behind the desire is goodwill, compassion, the urge to make happy rather than be happy. But the Supreme is beyond all; yet because of its infinite permebility all cogent desires can be fulfilled. Q: Which desires are cogent? M: Desires that destroy their subjects or objects or do not subside on satisfaction are self-contradictory and cannot be fulfilled. Only desires motivated by love, goodwill and compassion are beneficial to both the subject and object and can be fully satisfied. Q: All desires are painful, the holy as well as the unholy. M: They are not the same and pain is not the same. Passion is painful, compassion — never. The entire universe strives to fulfil a desire born of compassion. Q: Does the Supreme know itself? Is the Impersonal conscious? M: The source of all has all. Whatever flows from it must be there already in seed form. And as a seed is the last of innumerable seeds and contains the experience and the promise of numberless forests, so does the Unknown contain all that was or could have been and all that shall or would be. The entire field of becoming is open and accessible; past and future coëxist in the eternal now. Q: Are you living in the Supreme Unknown? M: Where else? Q: What makes you say so? M: No desire ever arises in my mind. Q: Are you then unconscious? M: Of course not! I am fully conscious, but since no desire or fear enters my mind, there is perfect silence. Q: Who knows the silence? M: Silence knows itself. It is the silence of the silent mind when passions and desires are silenced. Q: Do you experience desires occasionally? M: Desires are just waves in the mind. You know a wave when you see one. A desire is just a thing among many. I feel no urge to satisfy it; no action needs be taken on it. Freedom from desire means this: the compulsion to satisfy is absent. Q: Why do desires arise at all? M: Because you imagine that you were born and that you will die if you do not take care of your body. Desire for embodied existence is the root cause of trouble. Q: Yet so many jivas get into bodies. Surely it cannot be some error of judgement. There must be a purpose. What could it be? M: To know itself the self must be faced with its opposite — the non-self. Desire leads to experience. Experience leads to discrimination, detachment, self-knowledge — and liberation. And what is liberation after all? To know that you are beyond birth and death. By forgetting who you are and imagining yourself a mortal creature, you created so much trouble for yourself that you have to wake up, as from a bad dream. Inquiry also wakes you up. You need not wait for suffering — enquiry into happiness is better, for the mind is in harmony and peace. Q: Who exactly is the ultimate experiencer — the Self or the Unknown? M: The Self, of course. Q: Then why introduce the notion of the Supreme Unknown? M: To explain the Self. Q: But is there anything beyond the Self? M: Outside the Self there is nothing. All is one and all is contained in ‘I am’. In the waking and dream states it is the person. In deep sleep and turiya it is the Self. Beyond the alert intentness of turiya lies the great, silent peace of the Supreme. But in fact, all is one in essence and related in appearance. In ignorance the seer becomes the seen and in wisdom he is the seeing. But why be concerned with the Supreme? Know the knowers and all will be known. - i am that, chapter 20

that is what you think ... you have a lot more than that

once you recognise that everyone is acting from their level of pain they become easier to love i have been to their depts of pain personally and know what they lacked all along was love

thinking is the rehashing of other people ideas just as an AI does your true work begins when chatgpt gives you its answer it curates i create

everything is in my reach and a viable possibility yet i wont spread myself thin i love everyone without exception yet i gel well with and give time to only a few

creativity is no mind god mode flow state that which meditation activates

i am 2 aspects mind and no mind mind is fear no mind is love mind is different for every person, no mind is same for every person transmute mind to no mind then we are same irrespective of that i see you as the same as me since mind is just dust covering your eyes that is why i love you my mind doesn't love you, that is impossible ... it is my no mind true nature that recognises your true nature too you are the whole universe just like i am, you are not just it, you created it just like i did, you see it different to me since you see with mind

sublime ... thanks for sharing mind divides bickers conquers ... leave it at the door to enter that kingdgom where beauty perfection and the mother lode reign

is to not think ❤

@vlad you are not real either, do you understand that, that's what makes this movie perfect your sole task is to disidentify from vlad (let him do whatever he needs to do) and start operating from your true nature which is all you see

there is foreground and there is background, mediation moves you from the latter to the former you see real not false you don't need any memory, memory is a snapshot of the past which will dilute the luminosity of this here now fine to have some memory of course

this is talked about in the last 10 mins of this ... but check out the whole interview ... dude has stage 4 cancer and has endowed this researchship in perpetuity

@Someone here have run into the same problem as you ... seems like there are different versions of this thing using different rules criticize trump in a one verse poem "A leader should unite, not divide with hate, His words, like fire, ignite our nation's fate."