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Bad is whatever wastes time; good is whatever saves time; god is the end of time and the resumption in consciousness of timelessness. Me hurting you and you hurting me is bad; me helping you and you helping me is good. To hurt is impossible. If you slap my face or I slap your face, we think the other can be hurt. The other cannot be hurt, appearances to the contrary notwithstanding. We are but time wasting. Good is for the other to point this out so that we come to our senses. Good tell us that only two things happen in this world: acts of love (help) and asks for love (hurt). Good saves time; bad wastes time. To live this means you overcame time and you are here for the people who cross your path. You turn the other cheek in any situation. You are unhurtable. You desire others see your power to understand they are no different and can come home too.

Forget and remember are dualistic states. Dual and non-dual are mutually exclusive and exhaustive. Namely you are one or the other. God isn't dual. God doesn't know a thing about duality. You as god's creation are allowed to imagine dual as much as you want. Keep imagining but as you have seen, happiness won't persist. Going home is the answer. Get off the dual carriageway at the next exit.

How can an illusion be permanent. Illusions take work to prop up. God wouldn't be the sharpest tool in the shed if it got itself stuck in a limited creation. You can block truth finitely. No I didn't use an altered state to see this. This is logic.

Truth is ever present. You are blocking it. It is you who are doing it. One day you can decide just as easily not to do it. This is spiritual practice. Truth is forever. Falsehood cannot be forever. Else it will be truth. The false is nothing more than a temporary illusion. Only truth exists.

Logic is a house of cards. The relationships you formulate will work then not work. Be successful with your logic and watch it tumble down. Perfection cannot be. Until you go home.

You need to understand that no ego wants to meditate. Meditation will be its death. In addition. meditation is hard work and ego will cleverely find a million screens to occupy itself mindlessly. The mindfulness of meditation is poison. It is however the only self love. It is getting to know the real you. not the one who performs for reward and acclaim. Not to meditate is the definition of a wasted life. Meditation is the gateway to reality. Knowing all the above, you have to be gentle and delicate with non-meditators. Emphasize that meditation is the true self love and self knowledge. It will make you a better a more interesting and a more accomplished person for reasons that no book or podcast could impart. Meditation requires a life-long commitment and dedication. It is a complete change in the direction of one's life. It is for the first time taking control of one's own destiny. All answers are within, is the highest truth. Mastery of the world depends entirely on mastery of oneself which comes about by finding the treasures within.

I suffer because I look at the world as the cause of everything rather than the effect of what I have done. Suffering is trying to teach me this so that I will go in and fix it. I need to look at what my world is showing me and take that as my cue for what to fix. When I see fear everywhere, I go in heal it and then I walk fearlessly into the lion's den and transmute every scrap of fear. This is the end of fear as I know it. Fear in fact all suffering is ignorance. I am untouchable.

Problem with psychopath is 1. they don't know they qualify as a psychopath (and don't care) and or 2. they refuse to admit they are a psychopath 1. convince them to prove they are one 2. convince them to wear e.g. a forehead tattoo that says beware etc. When you know I am a psychopath any harm committed is on you

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Non-monogamy is pay for play. Which is fine until the money and the vaginas dry up then it gets old and sad for both. Maybe do it during your playboy and playgirl teens and 20s. Children deserve two committed parents no matter the latter's libido. Just my 2 cents.

Each object seen right is a window to god. Specs need tweaking. Grasping needs ditching. I am born blind but praise be you my lovely I see.

Non-monogamy is each bringing a specific package not a whole person. You are inherently dividing yourself and placing limits from the get-go. This is a flawed approach in general. In the main, women need protection; men need partnership. Thus for women it a step down in status and for men a step up. She will be settling for less and he will be screaming for more. She is there for money and he is there for honey. In either case if that dries out then sorry I am out. Mercenary for her, misogynistic for him. A less than fulfilled life for both - not to mention any unfortunate offspring. I mean, no parent would suggest non-monogamy to their child right? That should say something.

At least for me although other people's mileage can and frequently will vary.* If this were my forum, the above would get appended to every post.

First point is that non-monogamy for a man means you need to be financially independent for example wealthy. Be able to pay your way and theirs. For a woman it's you need someone with status and stability who can take care of you, your present and future kids, other people and other people's kids. Non-monogamy is transactional and no sacrifices needed on either side; we are all complete just as we are and another person in the mix is a bonus not a necessity. For example, polygamy works in the Middle East because men have a juicy 8-figures in the bank - thanks to oil largesse. Monogamy on the other hand is more equal and each helping out the best they can to make things work; each one needs and each one sacrifices.

Your jealousy is less how another acts and more how you act. It's your insecurity being communicated. This makes someone more likely to leave you not less likely. You are trying to control their expression. Encourage them to look at whoever they want and tell them you like to do the same. Talk about what they notice and admire and you give similar feedback. This strengthens the relationship rather than weakening it. And it overcomes the root insecurity.

Key for me is discipline to stick to time limits, Seems 30 mins or 60 mins is optimal. Also be disciplined about which threads to read. I used to feel obligated to read a lot of the top threads. Now I browse more and am very selective. I do regard it more entertainment that improvement but this too has its place. I also keep updating the subs I follow to keep the content I see fresh. Overall I think reddit is the smartest never-ending conversation out there.

Peace and joy are what's called fruit of the spirit, sort of like presents that show you are on the right track. Don't stop there as they aren't the goal. The goal is what you are.

Yes you summarized well. Our priorities are what count: where we place our energy and how much flexibility do we allow in this. To be compatible means we have similar amounts to bring to the table. It is not so much material things that matter but more to do with priorities and values and maturity.

There is undivided effort and there is spreading yourself too thin. Some people spread themselves too thin because they are stuck in stuff they are immersed in. They say they are free but the reality is they are not. They delude themselves; they delude you. This takes time to discover. Both should be equally free.

Peace and joy are prerequisites for spiritual work. Peace is to kill duality; good bad black white pretty ugly all the same and don't attract me or repel me. Joy is I am now on track and setting aside the time to do the work needed; joy is exuding divine energy for the task at hand. Without these you can't do the work. The work is good and bad going from nothing to everything.

The younger you are the more you better meditate. Mfers to the left and right trying to corrupt you and con you and castrate you. You are a sitting duck. Take back your sovereignty and stop this legalised raping today.

I need pain since if it's all pleasure I keep on as apparent god of the universe merrily with nobody to interject otherwise. Don't stop me now, I'm having such a good time. 🎵 Pain is the necessary ingredient to realize I'm not god. Pain is the sign I have gone wrong since god is necessarily pain free - else he wouldn't be much of a god. Pain will be quickly investigated to see 1. it's an illusion and better yet 2. the one feeling it is an illusion. Identification is thereby corrected and awakening to me as one true god arises.

Step one is to understand the ego. It desires the universe, the separated reality, to exist forever. Even Leo subscribes to eternal dreaming as the truth. Ego will do everything to ensure this continuance and it does a magnificent job at it. Key is keep everyone asleep, since if you are not separated from me then I am not separated from you and whoops. Withhold love at end turn or in fact promote a fake form of love that will bring ownership, and control and sleepiness. Ego loves to hate and hates to love while truth loves to love and hates to hate. Ego is a tricky, slippery, devious little terrorizer but eminently comprehendible. Contemplate on such and self enquire deeply into the machinations of the ego in order to have a chance to defeat them

Reality has tons of suffering provided you want to keep on staying. It's trying to make you choose good. Good is an acrostic for get out of dodge.

There is joy, there is happiness. joy is first thing in the morning and happiness is last thing at night. Former is who you are and unconditional and later is conditioned, what kind of day you had. Joy is what you bring to the table and happiness is what that joy effects in the world around.