gettoefl

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  1. beware there are two survivals survival of ego and survival of dream kill the ego, enjoy the dream you need dollars as well as sense to enjoy the dream and all the beautiful souls in it so do your work, on both fronts, for maximizing your few breaths here
  2. leaving aside wordplay that everything is good and you are god etc. what makes you put your head down on your pillow and say yes! that was a good day the following quote i just came upon inspired this question "a good day is when you return to bed 1% more smarter, richer, healthier" what specifically could be on your list to count any day a good day (from hopefully a higher level of consciousness than this materialist view-point)
  3. right, have listened to leo's latest, had some great back and forth with like minded spiritual warriors, now time to get out and barbeque looks like a good last sunday of august going on at my end ... and i hope at yours too x
  4. any day hanging with leo and his gang makes a good day not sure i would have a good day without knowing this place is here i hope that counts as a good attachment where apart from here do you NEED to visit to have a good day?
  5. yes this works well, and also gravitating to people who are all about the positives, the nows rather than the news which is actually the olds
  6. this is sweet and very deep ... how practically did you do this for any day say during the month of august
  7. congrats good stuff, i hang out with the homeless few times a week and this help me with my ice breaking skills, still need to work on it much more specially to be more spontaneous
  8. i call strangers new people do you talk to new people every day? every week? this would be exceptionally challenging for me though i do manage it once in a while
  9. mine i try to reflect on the word love as much as i can, what concrete acts of love did i carry out ... even to call my parents is a good day for me
  10. we have much in common may i ask how you developed a calling for cemeteries, alcoholics and self realization ... this is very fascinating to me ... did you have a role model
  11. love this have you lived such a day? how will you survive if you do this all the time?
  12. god in fact stole all our adjectives the mean guy that it is lol no good bad up down in out beautiful ugly ... it all just is! but for the purpose of this thread, focus on if you have to explain to another who is not so conscious what made your day good
  13. yes good stuff i love this quote: there is no bad weather only wrong clothing
  14. guilt is accepting a code of conduct you never signed up to then feeling bad for not meeting it because hey what if someone finds out what i'm like my behavior is love maximization on a case by case hour by hour basis irrespective of what any other says
  15. i'll throw this into the mix until a person says no, they cannot say yes, you cannot trust their yes they are simply going along with the game to see where it leads this applies to any relationship and is not about sex FORCE a person to say no if you want things real and remember this post is not about sex after they say no, the yes is then trustworthy
  16. god is good all the time ... worship team is fun but just beware you are getting in deeper
  17. "ideal world" is purely abstract to me ... well do you have any skin in the game on this topic? @Nahm
  18. didn't say a word about you, but you are speaking theoretically, i deal with this in day to day life
  19. in ideal world yea, not when you have no power to live the life that you want to lead, then you do what you have to do to get through the day
  20. with respect i lived this it is just like a slave leaving his master masr ain't gona let you go easy and will never stop til you back in the fold i am persecuted and penalised every day for stepping away, i am basically a second class citizen
  21. in my case i spun some story that i now do online church that's the end of the conversation thank you covid
  22. no you are dragged there from the time when you could not make up your own mind if you leave you become the black sheep of the family and pariah of the community, and reap the dire consequences to the point where even your basic survival is drastically impacted leaving can't be done lightly
  23. church gets deep claws in you, it is hard to unhook bear in mind that church CAN lead to the highest truth, but it will be a most arduous journey since you will be fought every step by the powers that be and leaving it behind is damn hard
  24. yes speaking out the truth can upend others as well as you ... there is much collateral damage involved the highest truth is not to speak truth but live it ... do everything resist nothing and be the light of the world st francis said, preach the gospel use words only where necessary