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am i a body or am i beyond a body can i realize this and embody it? this is the work

life has 3 realms, samsara nirvana nondual spirituality is the journey from 1 to 3 nirvana is the end of suffering, it it the transmuting of every bad to its good and while we're here nondual is from good to god, your absolute reality

the only ethical sales is you need this but you don't realize it and i shall hereby tell you why if you are dealing with a person's wants not needs this is manipulation and unethical why unethical? you dont know if i have money for your wares so you are potentially taking money from a child's mouth if it's a need you are perfectly justified needs are far more wide ranging that one realises; there are many things i can sell you that you had no clue you needed

you cant do meditation out of external motivation has to be intrinsic a fire within group meditation is utterly counterproductive except if you are already a dedicated meditator - like for example folks at vipassana retreats

leave the you at the door before sitting on the floor

if anyone is curious https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11849119/The-seedy-retreat-shaman-charges-800-high-hallucinogenic-drug-ayahuasca.html?ns_mchannel=rss&ns_campaign=1490&ito=social-twitter_dailymailus

youre distracted 24-7 so why not 23-7

https://www.reddit.com/r/RationalPsychonaut/comments/11n9pnu/replacing_psychedelics_with_meditation/ that sub is recommended too ... comment either here or there if you want to share your own insights

death is simply the ramping up of pain, today it's 9 tomorrow likely 9.5, until you get to 10 and the you gives up go sit with someone who is terminal in hospice with pain meds hourly to keep them alive highly recommended

no it's not the dreaded c word, it's worse it's the grim reaper keep saying it's time ... it's that dreaded downward plunge ... this is death at least for me thank you for your compassion ... i am perfectly indifferent as to when i go i bless you today

death isn't oh shit something bad is ahead and i am going to die one day namely coming to grips with your own moratality death is my life right now if fucking miserable and painful and gruesome and this is the beginning of the downward spiral to the end i almost certainly have cancer or something worse and there is no hope or recourse or salvation possible there is no point going on

ask chat-gpt to give you as many as you feel like chat with it to tell it your personality your traumas your past relationship problems your relationship goals you can have different lists of boundaries for each different environment you inhabit

fear is please god keep me here one more day, i am a good boy i promise not like that loser in the hospital bed next to me

to be fearful is dumb, it's following the crowd, it's staying inside the box, never making any waves or impact to be fearless is intelligence, it's not about doing stupid things and saying look at me it's about taking the road less travelled, doing something that others won't dare do, being a trailblazer ask yourself, how could i be fearless today? what is one thing i will do that i have never done before to go through the same motions every 24 hours is the wasted life only the new thing you do today makes you a meaningful person else just shut up

god's job description is, to watch the spectacle unfolding and not get involved unless someone is desperately praying for a hand

f-eel e-verything a r-isk = fear feel everything a reward = desire feel everything perfect = love nothing's a risk, there's no reward, love what is And if you can't be with the one you love, honey Love the one you're with ?

i trust no one until proven they have my back i know the price of doing otherwise nothing to do with lies but varying levels of self disclosure, unless we are tight, you get a big fat nothing my life my business

read my lived experience in the post above

some people are hell bent on destroying you, and i don't exclude one's flesh and blood from this for example dont tell parents you're gay if they will go off the deep end themselves or at you they cant handle live and let live let alone intimacy

telling many the truth will backfire they will weaponize it and destroy you you own nobody the truth no matter what you declare in addition the truth will destroy many people who out there can handle the truth? every word you speak must be tailored to another's level of consciousness as sociopathic as that sounds

take enormous pains to change not one speck without, take enormous pains to get deeper than anyone ever has within the out will be magnificent to the extent the inner depths are plumbed this is a life well loved

meditation itself is self love; self love is getting up and sucking up the discomfort while the world is cosying up under the covers it is saying i am going to make my few hours here count and not merely eat and drink and be merry meditation itself is placing yourself in god's hand to fashion you as it will, you have no clue but you trust that going in is going to unleash grace whether of inner or outer variety just sit and ride the breath

survival is i will choose myself over you every time, i deserve to be here, i will maximise my time and happiness even at your ultimate expense love is i will take a bullet for you, as demonstrated by moms dogs and gods and perhaps elephants how to reconcile these two perspectives? how to become a more selflessly loving person? what does love look like and is there anyone who models it?

this is good explaining it https://www.reddit.com/r/awakened/comments/11fuic5/the_world_is_an_illusion_of_the_mind/

you are talking from the absolute, that doesnt help the 99% stuck in the relative