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polite has to go out of the window if you want to win the prize, you have to be ruthless since life gives one chance

it is a serious topic, the rest of your life is in the balance here, we are screening for someone's maturity and readiness to be in relationship dates are interviews until sex pretty much

BETWEEN 1st date and 1st sleeping together, this could take time

my question was the MINIMUM needed to sleep with someone and have a firm foundation to build something deeper these are nice to have not have to have

you misread the question for a second time

how could you not talk about protection if you were sleeping with them

god enjoys looking in the mirror, this isn't bad this isn't good this right here is god

you haven't power but there is tons of it at work, just get aboard the train and enjoy

young and hot is amenable to rich with status, is a tale as old as time the young has lived 1/4 of their life and sacrifices 1/4 ... the rich has lived 3/4 and enjoys the last 1/4 the young has a pampered carefree second 1/4 and the opportunity of inheriting all the loot, in order to really enjoy their second 1/2 it is win win win

yes - i call it the way of existence

gratitude is the barrier, it creates ties and expectations, you owe nothing and you are owed nothing, every action was given and received for its own sake, no other reason, you have a few million breaths remaining in the dream, stay in your lane - forget about others - just do you

real simple, find a person on the same porn frequency as you are they are out there all else is bringing imbalance and pain ... it is not fair to bring that to any serious relationship porn on the down low is exactly the same as cheating, your partner objects but you go ahead and do it anyway, get over yourself and leave the person to someone who is deserving

seriously what woman wants to be with a guy who just wants pussy? does the woman need to have any body parts above the waist or just below? this is abject commodification and you probably are not willing to tell the woman it is just her pussy you are after, and not just that but to hit it and quit it so this makes you a disingenuous disagreeable maladjusted person that no self respecting woman will want to go near put yourself in the woman shoes and see this clearly woman want sex just as much as men do but not when the latter brings to the table what you bring got to work on yourself so that you walk out of the house knowing you are a god among men and any woman would hit the jackpot to get the merest sniff of you this is all your world, it is all for you, start to live like it already

you have only so many units of energy, you give it to the porn actor or you give it to your partner, trying to do both sounds like sloppy seconds meaningful relationship means you give them the respect and decency they give to you ... it means reciprocity ... if they want something you try to meet their wants and if they don't - for example porn - then you abstain

i am talking of meaningful relationship not hookups or pickups

child in a man's body more like ... a conscious person has no interest in such base degeneracy and bringing such energy into a relationship is despicable ... fix yourself then go love someone

i argue that porn is stunted development due to unhealed pysche, you do it since you don't relate effectively to the opposite sex, if you could relate properly you'd be having all that sex with them, women don't want sex less than men, they want high quality high quantity sex with evolved menwho don't need the screen version ... unless perhaps to watch some high quality movies together from time to time ... some women will enjoy this ... so find someone who has the same taste for it as you do

your partner is allowed to choose a non porn dynamic besides porn is a life drainer, takes away your vital life force leaving your depleted and dysfunctional at dealing with real people

you are engaging other females if only virtually ... go heal your trauma and wounds and then get involved with someone on your level ... an evolved person doesn't desire that in their life, they despise it ... besides you don't need to do what the 99% are doing

watching porn in a relationship is giving a certain percent of your resources to an internet sex worker it is akin to polygamy - yes i enjoy my steak at home yet i will eat fast food outdoors whenever i please be honest about who you are and if they are annoyed at you draining your resources this way, be the man and pack your bags porn represents stunted development so find someone more on your level

life is desiring pleasure despising pain desire all pleasure imaginable - when it comes don't desire it stays - since pleasure is the birthright of humanity despise all pain imaginable - when it comes don't desire it goes - since pain is the transcendence of humanity this is being happy

silence speaks, it's free on his site too

math finds whatever works so we find something true in the physical world; math deduces what else must be true based on that; so we are unravelling our universe; our eyes and scientific instruments are too paltry to see the majesty of how the universe is but math sees clearly how it ticks

math is language to describe what is; its genius is it makes something complicated explicable in one page; its elegance and simplicity makes further discoveries obvious and straightforward it doesn't do any more than tell you what's there; it hasn't inherent truth but is a good tool for uncovering such

i'd trade with you in a heartbeat, worst mistake of my life coming back to the uk, us was the happiest quarter century of my life mired in inescapable narrow minded stupidity here give me life liberty and the pursuit of happiness any day politics means nothing to me, i just do me and live life to the full