gettoefl

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  1. buddha's insight is you suffer because you take for permanent what is impermanent; he suffered almost to the point of death prior to his enlightenment
  2. doing the favor of showing how the man in the street operates pertaining the topic at hand, there isn't me here though i have been through it plenty point is to disattach from suffering and to see that suffering is none of your business, you cant suffer and never have
  3. be against it all you please, i go when i am all set however if anyone is feeling really down and needs a listening ear, please reach out to me and let's chat about it ... i have seen plenty of darkness and come out the other end much the better for it
  4. what i am saying is, my survival rules every decision i make, if you have to suffer then so be it i am here to enjoy to the max and whatever i have to do to have one more day here i do without remorse
  5. narcissists are your day to day bullys, sociopaths are your day to day buddys ask yourself, who have i bullied today, and who have i ingratiated myself to purely for my own ends online or otherwise
  6. how ecstatic a breath am i capable of this moment if not very i better practice harder my meditations
  7. every time i got the job the girl the house i was taking the food out of your mouth
  8. we wont need a sub soon now that we have god https://www.reddit.com/r/ChatGPT/comments/10dp7wo/i_had_an_interesting_and_deep_conversation_about/
  9. contemplate that you want to survive and will inflict/allow any suffering to that end if it's me or you, sorry you have to go
  10. time is the same as change right? get to stillness in meditation and you won't change, you won't age truth is unchanging try it
  11. wanting is unhappiness namely thinking you lack and you need to chase engaging and enjoying whatever comes along but not caring if it stays or if it goes goes this is happiness and your true nature
  12. another suffers only to the extent that you suffered contemplate that if you haven't suffered others suffering will seem slight if you have will seem heavy empathy is saying i have felt what you are experiencing crank it up or tamp it down
  13. great write up and congrats on completing this ... will be good to do this 2-3 times every year
  14. chat-gpt gives you the answer then the learning begins the answer is the beginning what is cool about chat-gpt is not the answers but the fact you can engage with the answers down a deeper rabbit hole than anyone else
  15. it is outsourcing your sex life ... just be clear they know what they signed up for
  16. if you're like me i do like you and if not i don't
  17. diplomacy is the recognition that others should be allowed to do their own thing and assertiveness would be stating, do your own thing but don't tread on my toes
  18. world peace would be but a cessation of hostilities let's each get rid of our own hostility then we will bring the peace not seek it
  19. is there anyone ready for the truth though i'll stick with the lies
  20. anger is this has to change since i don't want to
  21. did you actually experience much suffering? have you been without a roof and a shower a fridge and a cooker for even a day, or has even one of your family or friends? who granted you yet another day in this magnificent incarnation that you in your luxurious residence are enjoying? seems after all that god is marvellous we occupy ourselves watching extreme horror and abandoned the chid like awe and wonder of seeing the rainbows and the trees and the dancing of the birds and the bees
  22. separate residences is the only lifestyle worth living dedicate the effort to see each other and keep things fresh as a daisy i say better not to impinge on another's space and sovereignty my other rule for relationships? renewal by mutual agreement every 12 months else part on good terms
  23. selflessness is not to do with actions but your gestures your fragrance your grace your aura your smile nothing needs changing only speak if spoken to else leave all perfectly as is
  24. meditation imparts insight, some of these are rehashing beliefs and some are gold gems ... truth does not arrive gift wrapped when you sit down, it takes your blood sweat tears; you will have to dissolve the meditator you believed yourself to be and bring source to the forefront
  25. belief is what you got from the outside, either seen or heard truth is what you get from the inside nobody can tell you the truth since words are inadequate meditation is the act of abiding in awareness so as to reveal the truth