Bando

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  1. Man history class is gonna be entertaining af for the next generation of kids
  2. Ive never really understood why people do this, he gives good relationship advice and seems like a generally good person, so what if he likes Trump that doesn't mean he's a bad person. Everybody has some believes or options other people might not like. Also I'm starting to find out most people on this forum don't really understand spiral dynamics and just lump people into a certain category based on some common stereotypes. S.D is not a good measure when looking at individuals
  3. Jesus $6000 I love the dedication, but from my personal experience the biggest bang for my buck came from doing bootcamps a good bootcamp from a good teacher costs around $2000 but man does it skyrocket your results. Having people who studied game for years break down what you're doing wrong when talking to women, correcting your vibe, reading social cues, frame gives you a much deeper understanding on attraction. Going out with experienced people to clubs, bars, ect is one way to speed up your results, if money is an issue try looking at pick up groups near you and try to link up and go out with them but if it isn't pay the money and go out with a "professional"
  4. At least have a few sexual encounters with women before making this decision. You've never been with anybody so how do you know you dont need anyone? Your creating a limiting belief which can easily turn into redpill or incel ideology, (not saying it will but its easily to fall into one of these paths if based on your story) I don't want to pressure you you or anything, but I would encourage you to start taking dating serious, (at least 5-7 partners over the next 2 years which should be easy enough) and then make your decision. 14-24 is where most of your socialization skills develop. Its hard for the average person to honestly get better past this age at dating as your faced with more responsibilities in life and can't delegate as much time and energy into dating. Wait until this whole Covid situation is done and then start hitting the streets! In the mean time write down any limiting beliefs that you believe is preventing you from attracting women to you and genuinely contemplate on them.
  5. Ive never really understood the no fap craze. Most people Ive talked to who have a fapping issue stems from porn addiction, like if you take away the porn most guys literally can't get off. if you can't go 2 weeks minimum without jerking off you have an addiction. You're not supposed to feel drained after you bust you gotta give your Johnson a break.
  6. @GroovyGuru Can layout what your typically do in day? (time block) How much of your time is spent doing focused work? Just curious.
  7. Hahah, this is the RSD I remember that took my game to another level, if the product is anything like this and touches over main attraction sticking points like vibe, frame, congruence, paradigm, overcoming limiting beliefs ect. This will be the only course you need when it comes to building attraction, buy it
  8. Don't do this if you have no game and fear talking to women the last thing you would want to do is get hookers. Not only will create new limiting beliefs about women that will only hurt you but you'll be even worse of than you started. If you suck with women this bad, you just gotta tough tf up and go approach or at least socialize with women. There are certain lessons you can't skip when it comes to attraction if one doesn't want to learn them well...tough titty
  9. This is a nice take, when you start getting good at attracting girls you realize they they have their own life, beliefs ect and their not obligated to agree on your advances, if there not on your vibe just wish them best of luck and go about your day, don't create a story in your head about what happened just keep moving, it's really that simple
  10. @knakoo Great advice, I remember reading that reddit post a while back, its funny to know the the person who created it is on this forum The goal every guy should have in dating is to just "be" and let attraction come naturally without the need of mind games, negging, pedasltes, worrying about being high value ect, you can just let things happen naturally. But this is only after you learn how to attract women (I suggest pick up), integrate it into your own personality and then transcend it altogether. If you go about dating the right way you should come full circle, I started off as a "nice guy" and worked hard to break that pattern, got deep into pick up and learning all these "tactics" Leo often talks about, (they do work btw) and got great results and then started doing intense emotional healing and spirituality work. Honestly I even feel more of a "nice guy" then when I started because I know its authentic and not some cover to gain approval. Theres is no "talk to her like you're a king" or "look for something to neg on" but just being natural which makes dating feel sooo much better. Don't aim to just get chicks, but also aim to clean up and make the process of getting chicks more conscious and non-manipulative, make it enjoyable for everyone
  11. Or you you can just type your question
  12. My mother is in her 50's and has had metal fillings for about 15 years, should I convince her to get them removed? She's has no side effects and seems full of energy, should I be worried? I didn't even know this was even a thing to be concerned of, this whole process seems daunting, especially considering one wrong step and you can fuck everything up
  13. Hahaha some of you guys need to be hit with a bus or something, so you guys can be more grateful of the body you have. If you have no major health issues, can put on muscle and move your body without pain I would consider myself blessed, People who usually parrot this ideology have no real experiences with women and instead of figuring out a way get better at this, they get all bitter and complain how there not getting laid because of how they look. Some people are born disabled, some get into horrific accidents, some are born wealthy and good looking, thats how life is, if looks arnt your best feature focus on something else like your body and becoming a more high value man just stop with the bitching cause your only going to attract other losers who agree with your ideology and you'll trap yourself in an echo chamber.
  14. Try staring at a candle and focus on belly breathing, thats what I found works best for me
  15. This was probably one of the most funniest threads Ive read on here Sigh...All great things must come to an end
  16. @Jacobsrw Ive tried meditating with my eyes open and I find I get quite distracted. Do you look at a blank wall or in nature? Or do you just let your eyes glaze over not really focusing on anything at all? Do you mind explaining your meditation routine?
  17. @No Self Yea those algorithms are ruthless, I watched a few videos on Trump on YT in September and since then Ive been bombarded with Trump propaganda and have no way of deleting it. I can see through his bs so it wasn't that big a deal but I can see how other Americans can fall into Trumps paws.
  18. Hooray!!! This bs is finally over now the real show begins
  19. You know what's funny, if Trump didn't mishandle Covid I'm 90% sure he would have won by now. Im generally disappointed on how close this election seems to be.
  20. Most defiantly, I always preach whether man or woman you must learn how to defend yourself. If you or someone you love is in a serious threat you need to have confidence you can escape with minimal damage. Keep doing it, try sparing with another fighter if you really want to test yourself
  21. I've never understood why Joe is friends with this guy in the first place, Jones exhibits so much negative aspects of stage red it surprises me that him and Rogan are so close. Is it normal to be friends with people that low on the spiral if you're considerably developed?
  22. Now that we're coming up on the election date, I've been speaking to relatives and friends about politics and all the events thats been happening as of late. Supreme Court decisions, presidential candidates ect. Some of them I actually respect and look up to but when I hear them adamantly defending why they support Trump and Amy Coney Barrett or any conservative leaning politicians, I can feel myself getting mad on how stupid their thinking process is. I then try to explain to them why their not moving America forward but are actually keeping us stagnant and it always feels combative and dirty which is quite draining. They believe they're all individuals and should be treated as such and believe Trump is going to maintain that right. When I tell them we're all part of a community and voting should not be for ourselves but for everybody they laugh and tell me I'm to idealistic. I have no problems with either party, as they both have their pros and cons but from now own I refuse to engage anybody who honestly thinks Trump should be President or he should stay in politics cause it never goes anywhere. Why is talking about politics always feel dirty?
  23. @lmfao Great job confronting this person! Always do this to people who cross certain boundaries. The fact he actually apologized and is still engaging with you is actually pretty surprising. Your gonna meet assholes in your life thats inevitable but you have one advantage, you understand that this is only bad because it goes against your Ego-mind and you can change the meaning of this experience. He's probably suffering from living his own life and is so numb to his emotions that he doesn't even know how to sympathize or see his own flaws thats gotta suck. If you want to speed up this emotional cleansing find a way to forgive him and actually put yourself in his shoes and see what life is like from his angle. Letting go and challenging your limiting beliefs about this guy is what's going to heal you, not hearing his apology or getting him to see his own flaws, he'll change when he's ready.