Princess Arabia

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  2. Posted

    3 hours ago, whh2222 said:

    is it an overreaction for me to consider that a red flag? For a  woman to so casually declare that she hates men? It wasn't very negatively charged, but it rubbed me the wrong way. 

    Cats fight other cats and dogs fight other dogs. So what. Cats and dogs fight each other. Alligators eat their prey. I don't see the prey losing sleep over it only defending themselves in the moment they're being eaten. Their bodies are sometimes equipped with things to fight off their prey naturally. Please do the same and worry about the female you really like being a man hater, if not there's no problem in that department. Men hate women all the time, nothing to do with me. Why would a man be attracted to be if he hates me, and even if he is attracted, I surely wouldn't give him the time of day for long because that hate would surely not take any time to be projected outward. 

    You don't realize what that hate is doing to that woman, yet you say it rubs you the wrong way. No, pity her instead and be glad you're not the one poisoning yourself.

  3. Posted

    3 hours ago, LordFall said:

    That's a good point. I don't understand fundamentally your point though. You're saying everyone has the same impact or that everyone has an impact or something else? Or just that one human isn't more valuable than another type thing? 

    Everyone has an impact. How big or small is relative. The person that seems to have a big impact couldn't have done it without the lesser impact, so that's why it's relative and depending on how you look at it. Leo couldn't have done this without us, and Mother Theresa couldn't have been a humanitarian without the appearance of the "lesser humans". The humans that we deem valuable are nothing without the steps that brought them there and included in those steps are people of a seemingly lesser value and so everyone in some way shape or form is allowing for the whole to be the whole. You have conjured up in your mind, what is more valuable and that actually means nothing in the big scheme of things because nothing stands alone. Hope we have made this clear this time. Lol Much Love.

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    23 minutes ago, kamwalker said:

     

    It really is semantics because if you take the definition of murder as killing unjustly or without reason then one can always find a reason to justify it based on their set of beliefs. And depending on the context you will find that many people will be OK with murder. A person who just raped a child and proceeds to walk away and gets gunned down by someone who saw it happen would garner a lot of sympathy in the public eye and I wager would not want them prosecuted. I'm not here to debate what is worse, a healthcare CEO getting rich off killing people vs some other evil act, but the point is that everyone has a tipping point. It's easy to sit here and try to straddle the line during internet post discussions because it makes you come across as less biased (when in reality all humans are biased no matter how hard you try), but when shit hits the fan and one of these situations applies to your life I guarantee every single one of you will be a lot less confident with your declarations.

    Just because I said there's no just cause for murder, doesn't mean I probably wouldn't go murder someone that raped my baby girl. You have put words into my mouth this whole time and keep telling me what you think I'm saying about myself. If i went and murdered someone for any reason, I would not tell myself it was for a just cause. I would say it was wrong and go suffer the consequences. I never said I had no biases, YOU SAID IT MAKES ME COME OFF AS ONE WITHOUT BIASES. You are totally seeing what I said in your own eyes and interpreting it how you feel like. I have biases. That does not excuse murder, even if it's my own child. You have built stories upon stories from what I said initially and now in your mind you have ideas about me and what you THINK about me. Alli said was there is no just cause for murder. If my own child was raped and I went and murdered for it, I wouldn't be saying it was for a just cause, I would maybe try to fight it under an insanity plea, but i wouldn't tell myself the murder I committed was justified. 

  5. Posted · Edited by Princess Arabia

    Yeah, that's his own justifiable cause what his mother went through and what he went through. Do you think if he didn't have a personal issue here, he would have done this for millions of other people. He doesn't give a shit about the others, only what he and his mom went through. 

    This is why I said to suit his own personal agenda and biases. All of you saying he was justified in his acts are just like the Health care fucking system. They have conjured up in their heads why they have just cause in denying, defending and deposing. But of course you can't see this. 

    Please note that I am not excluding myself from this, the difference is I wouldn't try to justify what I did, I would just take whatever punishment that comes and say I was wrong.

    We all have reasons and believe me I have plenty why I wouldn't go and take out my grievances with the food industry. I have plenty, and I could call them justifiable. But I would be no more different than them if I was to go and commit cold blooded murder because of it and if I did, I wouldn't say it was justified.  

  6. Posted · Edited by Princess Arabia

    25 minutes ago, kamwalker said:

    How can you say there is no just cause for murder? There are plenty of situations where we murder people either through the death penalty, self defense, or emotional retaliation. To say there is no just cause for murder is some sort of holier than thou attitude where you want to come across as enlightened when the truly enlightened answer is that some things simply are binary as a human. Otherwise civilization would not exist as it does.  If someone murdered your new born son or daughter in front of you you would be singing a different tune. 

    In your mind you think I'm trying to come across as some enlightened being. I don't even know what that has to do with an opinion. Legitimate self-defense is not murder and I wasn't referring to the death penalty. You have used arguable explanations of murder to come at me to justify your disagreement and for your rebuttal. In the case of what was shown here in this video of the man being shot from behind, it is obviously murder and need not be disputed as such. I never said there is no just cause for what may or not be interpreted as murder. In the case of self-defense and the death penalty and casualties of war, these cases are arguable as to whether they are murder or not. Shooting someone from behind in cold blood is murder and not only murder, but cold blooded murder. I don't care what the person did or even if it was me that committed the act, it is still fucking murder and and has no justifiable cause except in one's own mind and to suit their own agenda and biases. I can be the same way with myself and say I had no justifiable cause to shoot that man, because even if I don't like the health care policies murder is not the answer and I was being just as evil, if not even worse by taking the life of another and I would go do my time. 

  7. Posted

    2 hours ago, Someone here said:

    so what's your alternative?  Do you have the nerve to claim you live without "a story "? I mean we don't nesscary need to squeeze goats testicles or read the tarot or any woo woo myths to believe in ....but at least since you are not awake you believe you are a human chimp living on a rock that orbits around the sun in the middle of nowhere...

    No . Stories are essential for survival .you couldn't have human life without em. Imagine living as an empty headed nobody who abandoned society and just begging for bread on the streets ...you will end up like that without Stories.  When you interact in society with other human chimps who are also not awake and deeply stuck in the matrix just like you..you have to practice etiquette and play by the social matrix's rules . Without Stories you couldn't sleep at night..because you need an ontological bedrock of assumptions that it's safe to drift off .

    I would like for you to quote where I said I don't have a story. Cmon,I'm waiting. Or maybe you're going to say what it is you THINK I was trying to say in my comment and didn't see the words for what they actually meant. Do you think I was referring to only you and not myself. The only reason you responded the way you did was because you assumed I was pointing a finger. 

    Also you're unaware of what I mean about stories. 

  9. Posted

    15 hours ago, Basman said:

    If you guys where that McDonald's employee, would you have called the police upon recognizing the killer or let him go?

    I think I would've let him go to be honest. He's motivated by a just cause and I have very little sympathy for these evil CEOs.

    There was a reward. Working at McDonald's you might have done the same thing and all "just causes" would have flown out the window.

  10. Posted · Edited by Princess Arabia

    Not all women hate men, and not all men hate women. Sometimes these people are only hating their own insecurities and ideas about them. Their misunderstandings. Now you're not liking your own thinking that all women are hating men and now it has made you start reacting differently and you are in your head about women. Deal with this on an individual basis and don't carry on your previous stories about what you heard others say about the opposite sex. It's pretty simple. Every moment is a new moment and the woman you may meet tomorrow may be one that loves and cherishes men, and you may sabotage that believing she hates men. You're doing the same thing those women are doing. Living in the head.

    You don't have any shadows and don't need any practices other than to stop believing everything the mind is telling you including that you have shadows in dating, and live in the moment. We create our own demise. You have logically explained away why you're telling yourself these things and how they make sense. Ditch all that and see the next woman anew. You'd be surprised at how she may respond to you based on your state. You are only aware of the mind telling you things, not that you have shadows. Forget about all these modern fancy terms and see yourself as someone just seeing the light of day like a child and be curious about life. You have been programmed and now you're trying to unprogram by doing practices when all it takes is to see the world with a different lens. IT'S ALL SPONTANEOUSLY HAPPENING NOW. No past, no future. Use the mind to reference and hit the memory to remember important dates, birthdays, events etc. Treat life as something that doesn't have a chain of events and everything is new in the moment and you will be surprised at what unfolds.

  11. Posted

    24 minutes ago, LordFall said:

    He does not have a huge impact on society. He keeps the toilets of one hotel in one city clean. And not by himself usually these housekeeping teams have 5-20 people so he can't do that limited job by himself. He has a certain quantifiable impact just like every other human being does. 

    The people that do the "dirty work" or "cheap labor" are saving time and energy for the ones who are making a direct big impact to do their work without having to worry about the small details. If there was no one to clean the White House toilet and do the house work and the President had to do that work all by himself, do you think he'd have the time to run the country and be impactful to millions? That one small team of service workers cleaning and scrubbing etc are indirectly  impacting millions of lives just by being service workers. Please try to see beyond what i'm referring to as I could use numerous other examples in this case.

    I'll use another. AI has the potential of saving lots of time, money and resources. The people that worked hard on building that type of technology probably used the services of a janitor or a deliveryman or some type of low income servicer to aid in their journey of building such a huge technology. If it weren't for the help of the behind the scenes workers that you know nothing about and were probably low wage AI would probably still be in the making. 

    Bottomline is the people in the forefront are using the services of the people in the backend to advance and make huge impacts and if it weren't for the low ended people it wouldn't have been possible or would delay the process tremendously. Those factory workers in Indonesia and China are having huge impacts in the world behind the scenes - I don't have to explain to you how as you can use the same explanation that I used above. Never underestimate the impact everyone is making to make this world go round and not collapse. Everyone is playing their part in some way or another, you're just noticing the millionaires and the people in the limelight. 

     

  12. Posted · Edited by Princess Arabia

    2 hours ago, James123 said:

    Definitely. From nothing you have a body to write, eye to see, nose to smell etc... What can be more beauty than this?

    Welcome to the illusion of the senses. They ain't telling you shit. You are no more fortunate than the blind and the deaf; and when people lose their sense of taste and smell, it's because that was already the case.

  13. Posted

    Your world is unique to you and there are no facts. You can make your own assumptions and live to see them reflect back to you if you stick with them long enough. You are Reality so within the dream of separation anything can appear and it's based upon your beliefs and assumptions. It's all within so it really doesn't matter what questions you ask and what you assume. You're looking for surety in an unsure world not realizing there's no such thing. The whole story is what you create and it is forever unfolding so there's no such thing as "the whole story". 

  14. Posted

    On 12/3/2024 at 3:40 PM, Medhansh said:

    Mumbai Daygame 3 day tour report. I went to Mumbai for approaching which is 150km from my current city, Pune.

    Total 10 approaches- 8 single sets, 2 double sets.

     

    Sticking points-

    1. Very timid and low loudness. Not bold enough and only enough loudness to barely reach the girl. Reason is timidness, shyness, anxiety and fear of other people listening to my approach. 

    2. Voice become very sheepish and feminine, usually my voice is heavier and deeper but in the approach I get a nice guy tone.

    3. Body language- tilt/ lean towards the girl, constantly looking towards her to get her reaction.

    4. Eye contact is not that strong, avoiding uncomfortable eye contact and sexual tension- trying to avoid confrontational scenario and want to keep the interaction sweet.

    5. Run out of things to say. After the initial opener and intro exchanges and basic questions like where are you from, what do you do, I don't have much to say. Need to work on observational statements, and push pull flirting teasing. 

    6. Fumbling, especially in English. Shows lack of boldness and confidence, assertiveness.

    7. Approach anxiety.

     

    Improvements- 

    1. While approach getting attention is easy. Even though voice modulation and loudness is poor, my actions like hand wave make me grab her attention fully.

    2. Automatic smile while delivering opener/compliment. Helps reduce fear in the girl. Also helps in giving a couple seconds gap between opener and my next line.

    3. Opened 2 double sets which I never have before.

    4. Walking sets I have learned to keep walking with them, it has become second nature. Earlier I used to give up if she kept walking.


    Major Sticking Points-

    1. Inability to carry conversation- approach goes: excuse me to get attention, then compliment, then intro exchanges. After that I go blank and convo starts drying.

    2. Approach anxiety. I could have done 40-50 approaches but only did 10. All other sets I didn't approach. 

    Too robotic. Notice you didn't have any problems communicating here. Don't say it's because this is anonymous and behind the screen because it doesn't matter. There are lots of people shy and reserved to even talk on the forum and just keep lurking even though it can be anonymous. 

    This is a very casual setting, and most communicate freely because we're not that self-conscious behind a screen and also considering our intentions, which varies, but it's still not to impress or get intimate with anyone. Just expression of ideas, thoughts and insights.

    When your intention is not pure or you're not sure of yourself or why you're even doing a thing, or you're not comfortable with how it makes you feel and you think you're going against your own principles and/or boundaries, you will tend to freeze up and approach the situation with more reluctance and go into your head more rather than just going with the flow. You think you need to be a certain way or say certain things (e.g compliment or smile), and now you don't see yourself as being genuine and just playing a role. You might think you have to be on eggshells to not mess up and a lot of energy is being used and going towards the mechanics of the situation, and that gets very tiring and can bring on feelings of frustration. Treating this as some kind of chemist lab with protocols and measurements will surely lead to someone not used to these things burning out and loosing the motivation to even continue on.

    Look back and see in your own life the people that you had no problems communicating with and were not shy around or tried to make an impression with, see how the relation flowed and communication was effortless, even with platonic females. That's the difference. You weren't necessarily looking to get something from those people and were merely interacting for the sake of interacting. The approach of not trying to get something or achieve something with your interactions with the opposite sex works best for introverts in the beginning until you get comfortable with the basics and also getting used to your own style of communicating and not just what you believe is expected of you. You can sense your own reluctance first before it gets projected outward; and now you're basically battling with these feelings and trying to use the outside to settle the waters, but that's working from the outside in which almost never works and you need to get comfortable in your own skin before you can even attempt to get comfortable with anyone you're trying to pick up.

  16. Posted

    1 hour ago, integral said:

    It's not just women everyone loves a story everyone loves romance. Just some men are pretty Clueless on how to go about it in an intelligent way specifically when they're young and inexperienced and emotionally out of control.

    Yes, this is so true and there are a lot of men who crave the softer side of dating, e.g. hugging, kissing and things of that nature. Women usually reserve these things for guys they really like or are in relationships with while men don't really care but only if they are physically attracted. 

  17. Posted · Edited by Princess Arabia

    57 minutes ago, LordFall said:

    but a very limited amount of us actually have a significant impact on reality. 

    The man cleaning the hotel toilet has a huge impact on society, it's just your limited mind can't see it. So does the liar, the thief and the drug addict. Your limited mind can't compute this. The Universe is already balanced and is a self-correcting code. What's happening is what "should" be happening or it would be some other way. All you're coming up with are stories and ideas and you have misunderstandings In your beliefs about what the world should be like. BTW, so does everyone else or most individuals. It's pretty obvious to me that this is the case, because life doesn't make mistakes and it is what it is. It really doesn't matter what I say either.

  19. Posted

    IMO, it's to take them together. I.e. taking fiber, drink lots of water accordingly. Calcium supplements are not effective if not taken with Magnesium. 2:1 ratio. Omega 3-6-9- is a good balance and UDO's oil supplies all 3. Potassium/Sodium is a little more tricky but Potassium removes Sodium from the body so if Sodium is high, Potassium may help in its reduction levels. When one or the other is higher or lower, it may cause an electrolyte imbalance - hyper(fill in the suffix for the different types of illnesses) and should be treated accordingly.

  20. Posted

    Men sometimes think women are confused because in their minds, they think they know what we want; and when they see something different from certain women they say we're confused. Not all women care for the same things. This is why it's best to get to know the person you're dealing with and know their likes and dislikes on a general basis before drawing conclusions about all women. 

  21. Posted

    27 minutes ago, kray said:

    Yea obviously, but all this for one guy 😂

    The same way you're minimizing this one guy's death is the same way the killer minimized that one guy's life. You didn't kill, but your train of thought is one that sees no value in one person's life that resulted in death. You are doing the same thing you're accusing the media of doing. They say it's not worth covering the death of ordinary citizens and you're saying it's not worth covering the death of one, high profile or not. I'm just trying to let you see the other side of the coin and that our own biases can sometimes be a result of our own biases.