Princess Arabia

There are 8 billion people in the world. Most men? You need to understand we don't see the world as it is, we see the world how we are and cannot experience anything other than our level of consciousness. I do it too, because I'm coming from a limited place, but at least I'm aware of it and I am open to other perspectives and less biased because I know my world is shaped around me from my own thoughts and beliefs, so I try not to be so concrete in my belief systems so I'm able to expand the mind and not get too caught up in the illusion of life.

Biases. Not consciously thinking. Programming. His beliefs are based on conditioning so he's going to be all over the place. Not grounded, and can come crashing down like a house of cards, when Reality hits him in the face with Infinte possibilities. Now the mind get's depressed, anxious and needs to be reprogrammed because his world views have been challenged and shown to not stand up through his direct experiences.

"because men and women are different, not equal", that's just a distinction the mind made. That's relatively true and now you're living from that place and now your perception is flawed and biased. What you are speaking of (including myself) are not Absolute Truths so it can be changed at any time and be perceived differently at any moment. "It's not a bad thing when men do it" is only a belief, coming from a certain thought pattern and societal programming. I understand you're coming from a place of what your mind believes and the assumptions you've made based off your experiences, but understand that there are people who think and feel differently and it's important to be aware of this if you don't want to function from a place of limited beliefs and conditioning so you can be come flexible and are able to experience life closer to actuality. Being open to everything and closed to nothing is when you start to become conscious of who you really are and not based from what society has programmed you with.

Consciousness cannot be pointed to because it is what's doing the pointing. You as consciousness is pointing to what's appearing out of consciousness. There's so much wrong with what you said it would take a whole video to try to explain the misconceptions, but the bottom line is, the subconscious is what's controlling the show. You don't need to use the conscious mind to walk, you do it automatically because it's already programmed within you, however, you need the conscious mind to think and reason. The subconscious doesn't think or reason and it is illogical. It accepts whatever it's been programmed with. Being unconscious because of lack of being physically conscious and unable to function consciously is different from operating from a subconscious level. Most of your daily activities and bodily functions are being operated from a subconscious level. You don't consciously make your heart beat, it's the subconscious that's doing that. Your decision making, beliefs and thought processes is due to your subconscious programming. Walking down the street closed-eyed is not an unconscious activity, it's just an activity. There are different stages and states to consciousness and you're only operating at any given moment from a certain level and nothing beyond that. Raise the level, and now you're operating from a different level. You cannot operate from a level that's higher than your current level.

Pshhh?? Lol. They got tired I guess. If you travelled for 4000 miles you'd be tired too.

I guess Einstein was incapable of crashing his car.

Thats a silly notion. Can you point to the conscious mind. Can you point at a thought. Can you point at an idea. Can you point at a concept. Can you point at an assumption. Can you point at anything abstract.

I wonder if they look at us the same way. ?

Cute!

Where did you get that from "There's no such thing as the subconscious mind".

Permanently destroying itself?

Why is it ok for men and not women. Thats rhetorical. Males made that standard for themselves, and that's ok because when women say broke men = lower (perceived) value, then it becomes equal, because if it's ok to judge women as lower perceived value by body count, then men need to be judged by something also, so there's a balance. But some men can't handle that, they call women shallow, gold diggers or picky when that's the case. So men are just as picky as women, just in different ways. What I would put truthfully is that most men are hypocrites when it comes to sexuality and cannot handle a highly sexual woman because of their insecurities, so they call women whores and sluts when it's OK for them to sleep around and don't see anything wrong with it because of some reasons they conjured up in their minds to justify their highly sexual nature. The problem with that is that women have woken up to this and now incels are born and are having a hard time getting laid because women got tired of being labelled for the same thing men are doing and worse. Can't have your cake and eat it too.

You're making my point even more. If he's the type to hit it and quit it because my body count is high, he's no better than me. Actually he's worse, because it shows he was just after one thing. Having a high body count doesn't mean someone was being dishonest, it just means you have a high body count. Hitting and quitting just for the sake of getting your rocks off with some girl you don't respect and not letting her know upfront that's what you're doing, doesn't say much about that character in that respect. My point is, asking someone their body count before committing to them seriously shouldn't be your main concern as the answer could make someone act irrationally and be judgemental about something that could be true or not true as one can lie about certain things and cannot be proven. I'm not saying one shouldn't be concerned about one's prior sexual habits, but if your mindset is focusing on things that cannot be proven and something you may never know for sure, and you are going to put a relationship on the line because of a number someone gives you, and your own doubts and fears then what else are you going to be doubting. This is important: If they know before hand, then don't hook up, if it bothers you. If they ask after hooking up, no guarantee for the truth. So, it's just a waste of time for that to be asked after the fact, Someone with that mindset is smart enough, in this respect, to understand this and move on to other important concerns which he will be directly impacted by without fantasies of her past without knowing for sure. That's what I mean by mindset. Not knowing for sure and doesn't base a relationship on his ideas about her. There's a difference.

I know, right. I'm sitting here reading the whole thing too. Lost in it all, saying to myself how magnificent God is to be so powerfully capable of doing this to itself. If you want proof that you're God, just read this thread because the egoic mind couldn't make this shit up on its own. This is how powerful God is. It's able to do whatever it wants and be whatever it wants in any given moment. It's will.

I wouldn't seriously be dating some guy whose concern was my "body count". I wouldn't seriously date guys with that type of mindset. Thats childish and immature and has no place where we would be going as a serious couple. Taking the time and initiative to get tests done to make sure we're both "clean" would be enough. Why else would he be concerned.

Guys lie all the time. I guess it's rubbing off, hehe. Stereotypes. Women get judged negatively by their amount of sex partners, while guys gets praised for it. That's why I only sleep with women, no judgement. But the hard core dykes still get jealous of men because of competition and insecurity because they have no, you know what. So there's still a problem there. So, you can't win. Men, women always a problem. Then if its 2 feminine women, we have to decide who plays the man, so it's a lose-lose situation. Thats why for me it's whoever, whatever, this way I'm prepared for anything. Of course I'm just kidding. Just feeling a bit silly.

For me it's 3. 3secs, 3mins, 3hrs, 3mth, 3yrs, 3 times, 3 chances.?

You'll just be tricking yourself. No guarantee of the truth.

Why not 4 or 6? What's up with the #5. What makes husband material? How many women should she consider for him, 20? This is so silly. Why isn't she spoiled after 1,2,3, or 4. Is that how you see sex with a man, as being spoiled. Why bother get married, you're only going to see her as damaged goods after you make the 6th. You might end up getting married to someone who slept with 50+ men unaware of it and enjoy having sex with her because she told you 1,2,3,4 or 5. So you see, that's just the mind playing tricks on you.

My life purpose is to change my name to The Renaissance Woman. How's that. Wait, let me Google it. Sure enough it's already taken. I'm sure someone else is probably doing your life purpose theme, but in their own unique way. Nobody has your fingerprint. Doesn't matter if you share it, if it's for you, it's for you, and noone else can do it like you.

Mom, The day that we say goodbye to you is coming.. Aug 4th. That's the day before you gave birth to Floyd. Even though you'll always be with us, I understand we as a family like to come together and officially say goodbye as something we call a funeral. I will have to travel for a bit to get to Florida to meet up with everyone; and even as I write this, I'm filling up with tears. You've showed me throughout the years what human strength really looks like; and I think if it wasn't because of that, I would have collapsed years ago from my petty little problems I thought was the end of the world. I used to compare them to the stuff I've seen you pull through and said to myself, "Really, get a grip". Well, there is nothing worse than losing a child, I heard, and all yours are still here. So you didn't have to experience that. Grandma passed not too long ago herself, and I know you were never the same after that because she was your rock. I will have to see you as something else other than my rock because, that is too much to handle mentally because my mind cannot handle losing its rock. Mom, you need to be my giant Boulder now, on that special day. I don't know how I'm going to manage seeing you like that for the last time. I don't know if I'll be able to handle it. I'm writing this to you to ask for some extra strength on that day. My mind wants to keep me safe and protected, and is projecting itself unto that day and is trying to conjure up ways to cope when it's not even here yet. Then I try to bring it back to comfort it, which only works for a short time. So I'm writing it out to release some of that anxiousness. Something I've never really had a problem with because things have always worked out for me and I've learnt to not worry about stuff too much, that came with practice and experience. I've never had to deal with this kind of a loss, and even though being Spiritual is helping, nothing compares to going through the experience directly. I'm going to need you to help me get through that special day. I'm going to really have to talk to the mind that day and try to comfort it; and even though it's not here now, it doesn't matter at this point, it just doesn't want to hear it. I let it do its thing, and I am learning to not focus on what it is saying about the upcoming event, and it doesn't last long, but it's stubborn. I'm ok for now because life has a lot of distractions and they come in handy in times like this. It's just when I think about the day that's coming, the mind starts to fantasize and saying all kinds of stuff that has nothing to do with what I'm currently experiencing. But I pinch myself to bring it back in the present moment and then it gets quiet because it doesn't know anything about that. I try to shut it up and curse it but then I remember how that doesn't help because that's what it wants - attention. So I'm learning to not even ignore it but to just see it for whatever it is, but in this case, it's more challenging. I'm allowing myself to feel what's coming up, when it does in spurts, but gosh, whew. I even start to curse God as to why it had to design life this way, then I start laughing when I feel it's energy flowing through my heart and an overwhelming sense of peace emerges. Anyway mom, bye for now and I hope you like the songs I dedicated to you. God is such a wonderful musician and artist, it even used you to design the wonderful clothing you used to make for people and the beautiful flower arrangements you so much loved to do. You were a gifted artist in your own unique way and I will remember how much YOU were my gift from God. Your little baby girl. P.S. Mom, I read something today that will help me in my thought process for our special day. I instantly knew it was a message from you. Thank you. I have been affirmatively acknowledging to the Universe everytime I've recognized it's messages to me so it knows I'm listening and they keep coming.

God doesn't want anything. God IS everything.

Thank you

Most guys are usually talking about themselves on dates, so it will probably be refreshing to her if you ask her questions about herself, without sounding like an interview and expand on that. I was shy growing up; and it wasn't until my latter years because of modelling and being an exotic dancer when I became more extroverted, which happened naturally because of experience. Now I can't shut up. Lol. I find when I go out, Spiritual stuff is a hit or miss and I try to feel them out first before going there too deep. It all depends. If they're catholic, I don't even bother. Since you don't drink, I suggest just imagine them naked, everybody around you naked and that'll do it, just don't get carried away and start to undress yourself, cause that small talk will turn into a huge conversation in court. Seriously though, confidence comes with practice; so, the more you go out, the better you'll get and just remember most people are also concerned with how they're coming across to you the same way you're concerned about coming across to them, so it kinda cancels out. Small talk can lead to "big talk", so don't shy away from that if that's what's appropriate at the time. Just use your discretion. As long as you're not a jerk, you'll be fine.

Momma and her baby girl will shine together. Forever.