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Have you ever had a mystical experience/s. Tell us briefly of any mystical experience you've had. Are you currently or have had any unexplained phenomena happened to you. Only if it has happened to you personally, no heresay or second-hand experiences, only first-hand, direct experiences. Only one or two; please don't go overboard if you have experienced many for the sake of brevity. Personally, I've lost items before in my bedroom and looked everywhere just to see it appeared in a spot where I looked before and was sure that I looked there before. Also, I used to have reoccurring dreams of plane crashes and three days later a plane would crash. I have witnesses because I started telling friends when I had the dream (which wasn't very often, maybe about three or four times a year) and they would confirm this by hearing about a plane crash three days later. I dreamt about a plane crash three days before the 1999 plane crash of John F Kennedy at Martha's Vineyard. Didn't know it would be him, but nonetheless. I stopped for years until recently about 2mths ago I dreamt one and 3days later there was a crash at Martha's Vineyard on July 15th. Would love to hear yours. Please, not too scary so I can sleep well tonight. ?

Yeah, but it's not like he's out killing people. My comment wasn't about someone not reaping what they sow. People receive what they sow automatically by default as that's the nature of Reality, we're reaping what we're sowing every day. What you're seeing today is what your planted in the past. Mentally. When you attain a certain level of Spiritual maturity, you recognize for yourself the reasons to quote "not be an asshole 24/7" because you realize you'd only be harming yourself. That's the reason. There's a difference between calling someone out for what they're doing and wishing to see them shot dead.

Never wish death upon anyone. Your mind hears you wishing death upon yourself. It knows no other but you.

Had to look that up. Brahmacharya. Never heard the term. How long should men practice this for to reap the benefits, and is it necessary to do this in order to reap the same benefits. Doesn't meditation practices also achieve this goal and do women also benefit from this (not that I'm interested in doing this, but just to know for educational purposes).

Your concerns are natural as the mind hates changes and wants to keep you safe. Some people are more adaptable to changes naturally and some have learnt how to make the switch more easily to maneuver without experiencing as much anxiety about such drastic life changing events. Keep in mind, say about a year or so ago, any changes you made that you were anxious about making and how today you have gotten through that said change and now the results seem like a part of you now that you don't think twice about integrating into your life. For example, if you were reluctant or felt nervous or anxious about going to a particular school for the first time (insert any major life- changing changes you made here), and how within a short period of time, after being used to that experience how it didn't make you feel anxious anymore. That's usually the case with most changes. The mind just has to get accustomed to the change. In the future, try not to have such fixed routines about minor things that won't matter much to not get the mind so used to being structured. Balance it out a bit. Start with insignificant things like maybe change up a particular route you take or changing up your food choices to a more varied variety as long as you're not changing to a more unhealthy way of eating. Being structured can be beneficial at times but can also make things difficult when it's time to make necessary changes. Just tell yourself that this feeling is only temporary and in no time you'll get adjusted. See yourself enjoying the change and visualize having exciting times with your college friends. Try not to get too attached to things in life as a general rule and learn to embrace the impermanence of the nature of Reality. You'll be fine.

Sometimes people avoid intimacy by substituting it with porn. Then they become addicted to it. Then they try to stop the addiction by resisting it and focusing on the addiction instead of switching to something more preferred. Giving attention to something only expands it. Trying to get rid of something by rejecting it only makes it persist. You have to accept it as a part of existence without judging it for it to not have any power over you and set the intention to make another choice if the urge arises.

Drinking too much water can also be dangerous. Anything can have a negative effect on the body if improperly used. What you know to be true is true for you, there are other people who are using pornography and masturbation to improve their lives. There are people who have wrecked their lives using these tools. If something was Absolutely bad it would be bad for everybody and vice versa. Porn and masturbation are not dangerous in and of themselves, it is the way they are being used.

I understand what your feeling. Not especially because I've been there, but I have a knack for feeling people's pain and emotions even through the computer. You are very genuine in your stance and you are passionate about Spirituality. That said, it is very important to not rely on one particular person on this journey. People are human and have their own biases and survival agendas. People are only here to guide you, not live up to the expectations you've placed on them. Everywhere we go we will see parts of Reality we don't like, and it is up to us to understand that when it comes to a group setting not everyone will share the same opinions we share or have the same ideas about Reality that we have. It is best to take what resonates with us from a variety of teachers and leave the rest as Reality is not set in stone and we can shape and form it into our own creations. Every advice I give on this forum I give to myself and I am also learning from how I see how I react to unsuspecting criticisms. I see people making the same mistakes i'm making and it is showing me how I can improve upon the way I interact with the outside world by reflecting upon myself from observing my reactions. I don't run from them, I face them with courage and go deep within to ponder on why I reacted the way I did and to make the adjustments necessary to see what reflection I wish to see from this mirror that I'm looking at as it is all me. I am very passionate in the way I interact with people and it can also cause me to overlook what is true from what my beliefs are, that are helping to shape my personal experiences. I try to stay grounded in the I AM presence within me and try to not let anything shake that apart because I'm aware of it's presence and how I am giving power to the illusory nature of the appearance of the outside world that only exists because of my attention and awareness of it. I recognize how I'm giving power to something that, without my light of awareness shining on it doesn't have any power over me unless I give it the power to affect me. Nothing can have power over me unless it has been given from above.

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The irony of this is, the males on here who I've seen showing resentfulness toward what I do for a living, are adamant followers of Andrew Pimp Tate. I guess it's because they think i should be a sex slave and work for men and give them all my earnings and cook and clean and be subservient, manipulated, lied to and be coerced into sex work. That's what they are indirectly contributing to when they follow him and treat him as if he's some Messiah. Mr. "Master Mind Controller" Iggy Piggy Wiggy, who follows Osho, is a prime example of how these men understand the power of the mind and uses that to control their followers. That's what cult leaders do. It always amazes me how many AT followers are against prostitution and demonize it saying you should go get a "regular" job, whatever that means, when their Messiah is pimping girls and using them as sex slaves. If you are going to deny that part and say he's been of value to you, that means you are still in agreement with how he was able to provide that value. This is not about his character or personality traits, it's about you knowing what he has done and how he has deceived many into doing his wishes and about his intentions. If you believed what you were doing was so great and was acting in with good intentions and had the others' best interest in mind, you wouldn't need coercion and manipulation in order to achieve your results.

Stop this nonsense, butters. Go play in some cartoon role and leave this conversation to real men who respect women and are not trying to make up for their insecurities by blaming their actions on biology and saying men are distorted if they don't look at a fat pair of tits. You sound so silly saying what you're saying with such conviction. You don't have to tell me what men are like because you're not the one dealing with men on a sexual, personal or intimate level. You're going off of how you are, and maybe what your piers have demonstrated in front of you not realizing men can sometimes talk shit to appear macho like, when the truth of the matter is they are not really what they seem to be.

At approx 37:00 marker in the second video on the blog,the guy interviewed that worked in the War Room admitted AT's organization to be a cult.

I'm watching the 2nd video from the blog. AT kept saying he's in charge of his culture. What do you think that means.

It is quite common, just like nude photography. Almost anything can become artful, depending how you view it. Once I had someone show me very artful pornography. It was very beautiful and artsy. Both male and female, very different from the typical porn stuff. If I could, I would share it here, but I'm sure it's not allowed.

I went to college, therefore I'm good at arguing I'm good at arguing, therefore I went to college If I did not go to college, I wouldn't be good at arguing If I'm good at arguing I will suck in college

This was a piece of cake. I'm good at arguing from all angles. It comes naturally. Don't put me in the courtroom, I'll slay all arguments.?

Oh ok..understand now...I was understanding what you initially said as, if you get benefit from a teaching it's a cult. I'm a bit slow.

Please don't say that, because it is not true. Not every man is like that. Plus I said every week. The natural male instinct is to provide and protect not to want to screw a different woman every week.

I don't understand your logic then. Saying how a cult works is saying you got value from. Don't people get value from others' teachings without it being a cult. Are you saying Actualized.org is a cult, because people have gotten value from your work.

Whoever the cap fits. Notice I said because he's horny and a different girl and wants to do that.

There's nothing outside of you, You are everything. The real you. You are God, you are Source. There's nothing outside of Consciousness. Oh yeah

Saying you benefitted from vs gotten value from....explain the difference

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Hi Mom, I think about you everyday. I wish sometimes you were still here so I could hug you again. I get sad sometimes that your grave is so far away and that I can't go visit every week or so, but I know you're still here. I feel your presence. It still feels a bit weird to me, this death thing, as if you were never really here, but I try not to dwell on that. I'm just glad you're ok now and at peace. Your little baby girl

It's not so much being cool but respected more because it's a prized possession that should be reserved for a few not many and if you're just gonna give away your prized possession to many, promiscuously, you might as well get paid for it and that is in a category called prostitution, not slutty. Yes, they'd rather get it for free but you won't be respected as much. It's not so much that the coochie is the prize but more so what comes with that, a woman's presence, her aura, her femininity, what it represents, what she brings out in a man. This is why so many women who lay up with "losers" get abused or cheated on because the men don't respect them. He'll take what he can get but if he was to ever get himself established and level up himself he would leave her in a heartbeat for another woman who he respects more and who didn't just settle for him when he was a "loser". They kind of secretly resent you for it. Men like to feel like they are worthy and are of some other value to a woman other than just sex. He needs to feel needed, not taken care of or provided for. It's inherent. I'm not saying men are not worthy or have prized possessions, it's in a different way, their masculinity, their ability to lead and take care of the family. I won't get into all the dynamics here and I don't know it all but women and men are valuable to each other, just in different ways.