Princess Arabia

It's OK. You posted in the right sub-forum, which includes family. So, you could still get good advice from some people here and some may have personal hands-on experience with this topic. You just didn't state what country you were in at first, so I presume we all thought it was an English-speaking country as its first language.

Lol

A threescore, maybe. He doesn't have to go Rogue to take me in but to have you come along, now that would be Rogue. Hehe

If you have or had pets, this would be interesting to watch.

I'm not an expert at this nor do I have kids, but as @Nabdsaid and from what I understand about kids, they are highly adaptable and pick up the slightest thing. I think if you just continue how you normally communicate, they will adapt and learn both languages with ease and without confusion. Kids are more conscious than you think but not in a logical way, and since they have less resistance to the nature of things they will adapt to it more easily than if you were trying to manipulate the situation with your logical mind. If you had to make a choice though, I would go with the main language of the country you are in, which I assume is English, but you didn't say where you live so that's just a guess.

I see your point, because this is not a lecture hall nor a place to write short novels; but if everyone was to make comments that were only a couple of sentences long, the forum wouldn't be diverse in that aspect. It's diverse in the kinds of people, topics and intellectual levels. It's also diverse in the way we communicate. Some longer some shorter posts. Knowing when to, or not, depending on what it takes to convey your point across is the difference between the two. He speaks with wisdom and would rather read his long posts than someone's short post that's not saying anything of value. That's also a bias of mine, but I understand that, and would not say to the person making the short post with no value, please make them longer and of value. Even me making this comment, opposing your view is a bias and could be seen and taken as a difference in opinion. So, all around there are differences, differences everywhere as well as similarities. Our ability to embrace the differences is how we begin to open our hearts and are able to appreciate the diversities amongst us as humans in all walks of life. My posts can sometimes be long too, and I'm aware of that, but sometimes they are short, also somewhere in-between. So, I can go both ways depending on what i'm trying to communicate. I know someone on here whose post almost never exceeds three or four words and barely makes it to a sentence, ALWAYS, and someone like, Water by the River, who can write a book sometimes. Whose more appropriate. Depending on whose reading. We are all somewhere in between and that's the beauty of diversity. If it was a written rule to always keep posts short with only a few sentences then, to me, that would be a different story. My intention for writing this is just to show that we all express ourselves in different ways at different times and that is part of our uniqueness.

I would have been in Las Vegas rubbing Leo's feet and having his babies. After taking all of your money, we would move to the mountains in a cave to have more babies and donate the cash to charity because that's how conscious we are.

As the saying goes, "Never argue with a stupid person because they'll drag you down to their level and beat you with experience". I say, never argue with an idiot because by the time they're done with you, you become the idiot. Ok guys, so never argue with me, because when i'm done with you, we'll both be idiots. How many had to read that again. See, I told you.

Huh?

We created that collectively amongst every other reason why nothing is a free for all.

This is why I stopped having casual sex. I don't want to become a slice of pizza. My body is too precious to be looked at like a slice of pizza. I'd rather get paid because not even pizza is free. Don't care what anyone says. Not saying my body is something special than anybody else's and I don't have a moral issue when it comes to these things but just to be having pizza and beer for the hell of it will require something other than for the thrill. Marriage is still an investment so I'm not worried about that and having a bf would have to be serious before any pizza is eaten. So if guys want to come to the pizza parlor and place an order along with some beer and French fries, then be prepared for the Time Share experience. Listening to most you guys talk about sex has strengthened my stance even more and this coming from you says a lot because you always give good advice and are respectable. So, it's not the respect level or treating women like sex objects i'm opposed to, it's how they view sex it's like a recreation habit, food for the stomach, anyhow, anywho, so, for me it's any how much. Here comes the haters. Don't care.

It's not the same for some men, especially young attractive ones. Some men thinks it's desperation to see hookers or only old fat, bald guys who can't get laid, so that would be a slap in his face to do that, and his self-esteem would plummet if that's the only kind of women he was able to attract. He's a sex addict so total up the cost. No, that's not an option for him and neither should it have to. It's not about sex has never been free, it's about feeling entitled to a woman's body that you're not invested in, in whichever way that investment entails. Then some men just throw them away and discard them like a piece of trash meat.

Aww, don't be like that. Remember the time you and i had a discussion about game and relationships. It very respectful even though we opposed on certain things. You explained to me what game was from your perspective and you asked me to explain mine. It was respectful because neither one of us attacked either's character. That's the difference. Someone_here can be very disrespectful in the way he communicates at times but attacking someone's character will definitely bring resentment and a need to defend. I know you're passionate about this topic because you mostly comment on it, and I do like your stance on gaming because it shows you're not just out to get laid from it, and don't treat women as objects just there to satisfy men's sexual cravings, so it's not about just not commenting, and I think we can have strong arguments in opposition, but forum member will probably feel a bit more intimidated by a mod's attack for fearing being banned for defending themselves against such attacks. That's my take on it.

Sure, I get it. Understand perfectly.

@PavPlease check out this post i made in August. Not sure how to post it to our last discussion.

I refuse to get into a debate with you. It would probably have been more productive if you weren't projecting your own insecurities unto me, especially saying people like you lied. People like who. I never said looks weren't important to some women but it's usually in a different way than how men see looks. Nobody has to start doing anything. You are your own authority. Nobody owes you any explanation as to how to get laid easier. You figure that out by yourself. One size doesn't fit all. I won't even bother to comment on the other rebuttals, since I'm just being judged by a mind that wants to box me into it's own definition of who it thinks i am and into believing that I see the world as the majority sees it. Plus you even said the same thing I said in regards to women judging men's personality by their looks. So you're just venting, which I'm not available for.

Evolution dictates all that. I will tell you a man will not feel needed if he is not providing, Not saying he will or won't, but men usually value themselves for their ability to provide for their families and the women are usually the nurturers, even if they are working.. There are actually some older men who still find their older wives attractive no matter how she looks and still loves her and will not cheat on her. All these statements were making are just limiting beliefs and we're just going off of our experiences. You'll be surprised what's out there outside our own little bubble of limited experiences, or even what we can create as creators even though we're not really creating anything but accessing from the field of infinite possibilities.

The power of letting go. You are everything, so when you stop needing, you will start to align with what is already yours. This is why I keep telling people to stop the complaining and start to see the beauty and abundance in life. It was yours to begin with, because it's all you. You're just learning how to receive it. You have let go of the lack mentality, you have stopped chasing women as much, it's how the Universe works. I saw this coming when you said you were concentrating on your business and leaving the woman thing behind for now. Now things are going to start to come to you, it always was coming to you, just not the things you wanted. It's about recognizing who and what you are. The more you turn to God, the more God turns to you, even though it is you. You just weren't ready.

Your question had a few parts to it, but let me say, physical attraction is just that, physical attraction. I would not be in a relationship with a man and be providing for him, no. The only way, is if we were already married and he was unable to work and the love was there before whatever the reason he couldn't work anymore and if I was able to take care of the household. That wouldn't be grounds for divorce but i wouldn't marry him under those conditions. There are plenty of men out there who are looking to provide for the women they love and/or want to marry and who are also attracted to them physically. Women usually love different than men. A woman will grow in love with you if she feels cared for even if you consider yourself not so attractive.

This just shows your ignorance. I have or am in the process of seeing the beauty of God's creation everywhere, My level of Awareness and States of Consciousness are not the same as they used to be so the lie would be for me to call people ugly. You are calling me out and sound so angry in the process. I don't have to pretend to not see ugliness in people to seem special. I am very open and vocal on this forum and don't have a problem exposing my true feelings about anything. You have never heard me call anyone ugly, except for in the term I used it to make a point so why are you telling me about how I view things. That's limiting because you don't know that, you're assuming. I do not like the word ugly anymore. I didn't say I don't see attractiveness in people, I just don't call people ugly. I never even used to before I became Spiritually inclined that much either. That's it. No more explanation on that. I've seen men choose females that weren't so attractive over really attractive ones because of their confidence levels and the energy they exude. They thought they were the shit and it showed. I didn't say they were lying to themselves, I said they thought they were attractive, while the so-called attractive one didn't. There is a lot of psychology that goes into attraction. No need to say my opinion is bullshit, it's just an opinion. A woman can look at a male and judge parts his personality from that alone, not saying she's right but that's really what she's doing. She can see through his insecurities or weaknesses just from his body language or even how he dresses,. You hear that on this forum alot also, how women can sense certain things. Men don't usually care about that at first, they usually go for the one they are physically attracted to at first, while the woman is looking for emotional attraction and doing it by how he looks. Why do you keep using the word lie. People believe different things, studies or not, Sounds like you had someone constantly lie to you and you're projecting that or vice versa. No need to call people liars for their opinions and expressions.

That's a belief system; but even if you believe that, you are just dooming yourself, because now you have to live up to that belief; and if you were to ever get married, you wouldn't value your wife after a while. You'd be surprised what people find valuable. One man's trash is another man's treasure.

"It's a contradiction." Hehe.

That's what I meant. Incompatible for you. Thanks for the correction. I try to use my words wisely and try to use them in the correct term but sometimes after watching so many lifetime movies, the wrong wife, the wrong car, the wrong husband, the wrong student etc, my brain gets used to a certain term. Hehe. Thanks. I agree.

The wrong type of woman would be the type of woman you don't want, but are attracting because of how you're vibrating. Sometimes you won't know that before being with them for a while, hence breakups or constant friction.

You can only feel devalued if you give yourself permission to feel devalued. I don't know if you're trying to devalue me (not saying you are or you're not, just trying to answer your question) but my take is just my take. Your hyper generalizing my take says nothing about me and my take, so no, I wouldn't feel devalued. My take can change as yours too, so I don't identify with my take. I don't take it personally.