Princess Arabia

Most women already sees a guy's ego as fragile. But it only worsens with the putting down of women to inflate yours or trying not to feel bad. It doesn't work. It's not about a "normal person just goes, well, .......but more about the best approach in dealing with the circumstances. Direct experiences teaches us more than a coach or guru can in certain situations, but saying what a normal.person would do and blowing it off and going back to the normal way of handling it while complaining about women and seeing it as a rejection won't advance you into becoming better at approaching and dealing with perceived rejections.

Well, many times guys don't reveal their true intentions at first either, so we've developed a sixth sense of detecting certain things using our bullshit detector. It's not about revealing the truth but more about reserving our true feelings because of having to always be on the look out for predators.

That's your P.O.V. Not every escort will sleep with anybody and there have been times when they have chosen not to be with a particular person for various reasons. Street hookers doing it for Crack or drugs might fall under that category of sleeping with anybody but I'm not referring to them.

I understand your point. Mine is more about not having any perspectives about the matter at hand and just to see it for what it is. No stories or attachments or even interpretations. Can you imagine how many different stories and interpretations it will take if men were to evaluate all their perceived rejections. This is why it gets tiring for some, or it becomes a chore or some men get angry at women. If it wasn't so much as a man's role like society put on you all to do, it wouldn't be such a tiring task. So to put less pressure on yourselves, I'm just suggesting to not take it personal nor add a bunch of perceived stories to the mix. Why do you think it's such a wide topic of discussion in the PUA community. Because its a challenge. To make it less challenging, try to stop the.personal analyzing so much. That's my point. Something that isn't required to be done as many times where the risk of getting "rejected" wouldn't need these.kinds of precautionary measures, but because you guys have made.it into a.culture and a role it needs to be done strategically and I'm suggesting to not add unnecessary meaning to the ones who didn't say yes.

How does astrology and moon cycles fall into the same category with menstruation blood as far as on a first approach in respect to having a conversation. Most women tolerate men and the stuff they talk about, so she might not say anything verbally, but she's thinking it.

You know what youre saying isnt true of all pretty women and you know youre just venting. That's why you name the thread "biases and bigotries". It's pent up energy that just needs to go somewhere, and this forum is the perfect place for you to vent. 10yrs from now you'll be married to a pretty attractive woman and in retrospect you'll look back and say to yourself, "I can't believe I was such an asshole".

It's very rare that women use logics when it comes to dating. Especially when they're younger. They usually go by how they feel. Men usually go first by what they see. Then what they think, then how they feel. Even though it's still all about feelings. How they feel by what they see, how they feel by what they think. It's all about feelings. If you can make someone feel good, that's usually a win win. Why do you think women love men who makes them laugh. It feels good to laugh. Laughing is therapy.

Don't agree, but you're entitled to yours. Everything is an appearance, so appearing to be a rejection can be interpreted in any way. All you're saying in your remark are just stories. Stories the mind is concocting. A belief. An assumption. You can feel and believe that if you like, but on a subconscious level we are all wired differently and perceive things differently depending on those beliefs. It's another assumption saying men will become lazy. Some may see it as a way to improve, some may see it as "next!". You're making assumptions. The point of my post is for men to not put stories behind that perceived rejection, take it for what it is and move on. Our minds can play tricks on us and lead us into self-sabotaging ourselves into believe things that isn't true and then we act upon those beliefs in negative ways which can lead us to self-destruct.

You're welcome. Thanks for reading.

You're probably right about that. Just like how people bow to certain things as a sign of respect. So I understand your point. Even extending your hand out to a woman first to shake it is considered a no no in certain cultures. She should initiate it first. But that's kinda outdated. So, depending on your culture, yes. But on a general scale, we need to be aware of how we physically touch people we just met and don't really know on a personal level. I personally don't see anything wrong with a tap on the shoulder, though. I do that with people all the time if I see where they dropped something or to bring their attention to something. There's a reason for common sense and using judgement.

No you can't touch her hair, arms, back and shoulders all you want, nor her face and hips, ALL YOU WANT. He's speaking of someone he just met and had a casual conversation with for the first time. If you're speaking of a gf.or someone you've slept with already, maybe yes, and that still depends on the circumstances. He mentioned her shoulder. That's fine. Any man touches my hair, hips or face that I just met without my concent, I will have a problem with. A tap on the shoulder.is a different story. We have to respect people's boundaries; and until we know who they are and what they're ok with on a.physical level, it's best to stay clear and use proper judgement. Of course, not everyone will take offense but it's not about "all you want".

Seriously?? Overthinking is a bitch. The egoic mind is good at self-sabotaging. Many guys can't even get to hold a nice conversation but you're worried about a touch on the shoulder. Think about it, can't you see how our minds can fucking destroy us if we let it. It tries to keep us safe but ends up limiting us instead. Save your thinking energy for real problems to solve and limit the amount of stories you place behind every experience. Just allow.

I really like this post. It's truly a profound insight. I especially like the phrase, "alignment to truth". Only thing, I don't think we have to work on our perceptions to become more conscious; I think perceptions begin to align more towards Truth automatically once we become more conscious. Overall nice read.

Suicidal, are we. Been making threads about it lately.

Yes, normal and weird is subjective, but common sense is Universal. The guy is talking about period blood to a normal girl on a first date. That's weird. There goes your definitions.

Thx

Lol. You're a mess.

You say "humans are a complex mix on a spectrum of conduct and thought". Maybe if you apply this understanding to whom you are criticizing, in this case, attractive women, you may view them in a different light and apply this same belief to the way you interpret their behavior while making judgements and crticizing them. When you realize that our Consciousness is programmed to only see things at a certain level and that we are only seeing and behaving in a way that is conducive to that, and the way we perceive things in our experience tells a lot more about us than the thing we are perceiving. This is why we can change our minds about something that we saw in a different way before because we now look at that same thing through a different lens than we previously did, while the thing we're looking at remains the same. We label people good and bad, not realizing that now we are creating that good VS bad distinction and we are looking at ourselves and judging our own behaviors as good and bad and then we project our meanings of good and bad unto others. It's a cycle, you see. This is what I mean when I say you see a part of yourself in them that you have rejected within yourself and now you're calling them bad in order for you to be at ease with your perceived bad traits. You point out other people who you think are bad as in Putin saying he is a bad person for this and that. That is your opinion as good and bad are relative depending on whose looking and perceiving. Is it OK to punish someone for killing while the punishment for that killing is death. We can go on and on about these debates. They are all coming from a lack of Awareness. I'm no better sometimes in the way I think or feel about certain things and I also have biases and judgements about certain things, but the difference with how I see this is I'm aware of that. I'm aware that they stem from.personal agenda and my own survival mechanism and how I've built my own walls against myself. I try to work on how I view things and perceive them and I try not to make absolute claims on anything and publicly voice those strong beliefs and opinions to others because if I do so then I'll just be reinforcing something I know to not be true and that will only hurt me in the long run. That's all.

Made this for breakfast this morning. Asparagus Omelet/Homefries w/Red Onions. Delish! Dinner: Stewed Chicken Legs w/Asparagus and Baked Rosemary Sweet Potato

You're just putting a label unto what you've observed and you call it laziness. This is Infinity. It includes everything. We're all not the same. You only see laziness because you've contrasted it with it's opposite. They are still working their ass of at doing nothing. That's the paradoxical nature of existence.

I guess that's a catpig.

Hard to say for me as I'm not that big into penises. All those figures you're quoting are just mumbo jumbo to my ears. If I'm feeling you as a man, size for me doesn't matter as long as its not too big, as in over 7". A man has never rocked my world sexually just for sex's sake. Him himself may have and the sex was just an added bonus. I cannot have great sex with somebody I'm not into without the sex. So if he has a 3", it wouldn't matter to me because I wouldn't be with him for his penis. That's the beauty of love and real attraction.

Not necessarily personal. After awhile when you start to see what's happening here, it becomes a recognition and then learning about our true essence and what we truly are it's just seen through. I have experienced that, yes, and the realization hits you and then it becomes freeing.

The worst thing ever for a man is to not know what to do with his micro penis. You think having a large penis is some God given gift? Think again. Straight hot dog? Lol. That doesn't sound enticing. Like it would just frustrate a nice wet pink juicy cervix. Let me stop. Good thing this thread is about porn. Hard to get yelled at in a porn thread and told to stay on topic after inciting some wet juicy talk.

I'm not sure what you mean with your response to me. Please explain.