Princess Arabia

This is just a guide: Taken from Sunny Sharma (Spiritual Coach) *Observe the feelings that arises within the body. Do not judge or interpret them. Observe them without an agenda. Let go of believing the thoughts that are associated with those feelings. They are not true. Do not act on them. Simply observe the situation, flow with it however it goes and trust the wisdom and clarity which starts to orchestrate your actions while you practice this.* Hope this helps as I've practiced this and it helped me in times of frustration, anger, nervousness and/or doubt. Keep practicing. It becomes easier in time. The most important thing is to not believe, dwell or react to the thoughts that arise in those situations and in a calm manner without the feelings of anxiety and even through those anxious feelings, be still and let the stillness and the silence guide you.

I wonder if I ran into you in Las Vegas somewhere and approached you like "Hey Leo, it's Princess Arabia, if you would be charismatic or silenced. What do you think.

Thank you and same to you.

This sounds familiar to something I've either read or listened to - verbatim. Not saying it is but very familiar sounding. Sound advice, though.

Going by each sentence: It's not about self-control but about Awareness. The outer, being only a reflection of the inner, in this case, can be misleading as in someone can be very unhealthy and be slim and depending on what one considers to be fat someone fat can be healthy because of bone structure and genetics. An unhealthy person need not have a bad character and vice versa. It's their identity that needs to be changed first then the personality will follow. No fixing needed only transformation and change. What is being survived is an identity. If one identifies as a fat person, or an unhealthy eater, it will be harder to change that because it would mean the death of that identity. Sometimes, the reason people find it hard to lose weight is because they look at it as "losing weight". The egoic mind doesn't like to identify with losing anything because it will only try to look for it again, thinking it lost something and that starts the cycle of losing and gaining, losing and gaining. But to give some credit to what you're trying to say, I find that really, really unhealthy eaters like no greens, very little fruits and veggies, not much water and tons of soda and always reaching for that burger and fries and pizza and ice-cream like that's their dominant way of eating, no exercise and just everything unhealthy tend to have a very very distorted mind and will make your life a living hell if dealt with them on a personal level....all because of their unhealthy diet and lifestyle alone. Fat or not. So I tend to be very wary of those people on a mental level and tread with caution. But that usually is fully developed at a later age after years and years of abuse. Younger folks, usually will not exhibit those traits as of yet on a visible scale even though it starts from then.

I would say "Come to me daddy", and whoop his ass and he would cry like a bitch. So there.

If Tate told you he was your father, you would believe him.

This one is really good.

Ooh, ooh, baby

Me too, and the same sex.

No you didn't, and I can see how my statement to you implied that, but it was meant to be just a generalized statement nit directly implicating that you said that. My apologies.

That Avatar would attract more gays than straights, especially transexuals. Don't see the gay community as disliking the opposite sex. They're not interested in sleeping with them, but they don't hate or dislike them. That Avatar would be a depiction of what it would be like to be that or look like that in a gay community and in the straight it would be what it would be like to be with that. Where it would especially be of interest? In the Trans community.

I love this question but Idk how to answer it. Infinity is Love. I don't think it's literally divided, it just appears that way. It's a dream. There's actually no separation, it just appears to be.

Oh..didn't realize that. Thanks for the clarification. Not that I hold what you said to be so, but at least I'm aware that there are notions out there or beliefs that there are different types of Solipsism. Thanks.

I still hold on to the notion that I, as Awareness, is all that exists as I have never experienced anything outside of it. Princess Arabia is not all there is but my true nature is. That's how I see it. I AM Awareness. Consciousness, God, the I AM, whatever you want to call it. Anyone thinking Solipsism has to do with the false egoic self doesn't understand what the term even means. I get the belief part and the isms part, but at the end of the day language is just a pointer, it's dualistic and it's limited.

Or change the name of the website to Solipsisize.neverending

Lmao.. What exists must always exist. Lol..lol..lol..

Exactly, sigh. You're not aware of it, but I am because I've seen it in myself and it's exactly what I'm workin on in myself at the moment, the worries and fears and ifs and maybes and should haves and should not haves and if that didn't happen and what ifs. Its not whats happening. Yes we have to prepare but in this case its not preparing its regretting.

Without keeping it up for too much longer, yes you said what I said, but indirectly. If you're worried about that you can't approach 2 women at the same time and the one you didn't see might have been your future wife..yes you are being anxious about what isn't happening and projecting fears unto the future. We are so used to how the mind functions that we don't recognize these things and how it's doing it. We can't see it. It has become the norm. Go back and read your comment and tell me if those maybels could's would's and if's and worrisome thoughts are stemming from being anxious about the future.

Where in my post was I condemning any form of bigotry. And also, thank you for the complement. Yes, my avatar is me. And just to mention, without sounding egotistical but I'm one of the nicest most kind and caring person you'll ever come across on earth and I say that because ive been told that many times. Yes, I have my ways, yes I can be nasty, yes I get upset, but who doesn't. I don't need your comment to know that I'm an attractive person because of my history. I used to model, been in Miss Jamaica Festival contests, Miss Jamaica Fashion Model contests, been an Exotic Dancer, stripper escort you name it, cant be ugly doing all that and I'm constantly being told I'm pretty, attractive or whatever, See that how you may and I don't care if you think I'm bragging or boasting because that's not my intention, its to make a point. I've also been around very attractive women who are some of the nicest people you've ever met (figure of speech, please), so your post is nothing but ranting and raving about particular experiences you've had, NOT WHAT IS TRUE.

Well, your post is about looks and I was just keeping the convo on that same trajectory.

Stop taking it as a loss because you didn't get laid. It was a win. You had fun. Why can't it just be where if you get laid, great, if not, that's fine too. Not saying its fine to not get laid but the attitude about it. That's when it happens when you're not out searching for it. Learn to consider it a win regardless because that mindset will get you laid more often.

Hold up a bit. Speed racing, are we. Chill! Maybe's, if's and could be's is exactly where anxiety and fearful thoughts arise from. Oh my! You must suffer from anxiety. Take it easy with those racing thoughts, be present more and this won't happen as often. You're worried about the one that got away while the one infront of you is being ignored. Now you see how we create these anxious situations for ourselves because we're constantly in the past and the future with our thoughts, then we wonder why we're fearful.

Well you said, "sad but true". Why is it sad, when it's the preference of the male species that women dont approach, whether directly or indirectly said.

But we're not supposed to approach men, remember. It's not ladylike. Females are trained to be a certain way and men indirectly agree with these rules by how they respond to women. Don't complain about unspoken rules that society makes up in regards to the dating scene. It's not feminine to approach guys. Don't you like feminine women.