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  1. Posted · Edited by Onemanwolfpac

    Use pandemic to help you decide for you. 

    1. Why be a accounting not CPA? It is a fraction of the money and the opportunity for promotion is lacking. The alternative of course could be night school to do your designation. You can alternatively shift more into entrepreneurship. 

    2. If business interests you, with your CPA, you can pivot into additional business roles. I was Dating one during pandemic. 

    Pandemic should be a eye opening experience for a series of things:

    A) step up savings

    B) Purpose

    C) Course correct where needed

    Similar to you, purpose is my driving force and when hindsight vision is 20:20, its easy to backwards rationalize. The careers i seen pandemic proof were largely STEM. Health care, first responders, paramedics, firemen, cops, accountants, and the tech field. 

    My advice is to stay in your lane with respect to your abilities, talents, and skill set. For business, start doing personal tax. Do your CPA and progress in your career or make it the side hustle till you acquire the strong client base. 

    Good luck. 

    Edit at 35, you gotta be an adult and strap on the big boy or big girl pants. A good start is to be financially stable. Likely, you can get your degree in night school or preferably online. The designation will be a slog but 10x your income over the next stage of your career til retirement. 

    Career change if you hate it but, it won't be a easy time. 

  2. Posted

    4 hours ago, Focus Shift said:

    @DivineSoda Very good point. What's also messed up is how workers pay more taxes than the owners of businesses. No one bails us out when we have financial problems. 

     

    What a Joke! GM was bailed out by Obama. GM then closes in America and keeps open China, Mexico, and other places. The small businesses were destroyed during covid. There's no bail out or rent fairy. 

  4. Posted

    2 hours ago, Epikur said:

    I guess whatever you do it will be very hard to find "nice" people who want to do the job. This job sucks. 

    No shit. Would you apply as a cop? Not a chance. 

    60k? Risk life and not seeing your family or kids? A gross divorce stat on police force. The Aubrey dude got killed but a police vid cam showed exactly how easily shit could pop off. 

    The biggest thing i notice on the forums is a lot of close mindedness and parroting of spiritual jargon. For all of it, zero acknowledgement of the realities involved. 

    I don't envy the cops jobs. I agree with Jocko and more training. 

  5. Posted

    3 hours ago, Preety_India said:

     

    You wouldn't say the same thing if you were at the receiving end of the cop's gun. 

    Be careful what you wish for about the police. Don't give any system so much power that taking lives becomes an everyday reality. It might become as normal as sipping coffee at Starbucks. 

    There can be practical ways to arrest people without dead bodies. 

    • Wearing bullet protection or bullet proof  tactical gear, all over 
    • Investing more into the police 
    • Extra police officers for resistant and difficult arrests 
    • Body cameras 
    • banning choke holds, etc. 
    • Proper recruiting and training for a year, extensive checks on mental health. 
    • Weeding out racism and increased cultural awareness training 
    • Not making arrests just for the sake of a promotion or a pat on the back 
    • Letting go or arresting later if the suspect does not have a severe criminal record 
    • Creating trust with citizens rather than fear and paranoia 
    • Not writing up false reports or unnecessary additional charges 
    • Disciplinary action when excessive force is used 
    • Reasonable actions. 
    • No drinking on or off the job. That increases mental incapacity 
    • Mental health evaluation each month while on the job 
    • Checking background history of suspect before making an arrest 
    • Less racial profiling and racial sensitivity rather than focus on stereotype. 

     

    Policing is not a video game turned into life. It's a serious and responsible duty, a very important job. It should be done properly and reform is absolutely important. 

    Weak argument. 

    He champions activist and kills a civilian and gets killed on the scenario. 

    He went from victim card to acknowledgement of the difficulty of being a cop. 

    I welcome you to try. 

  6. Posted

     

    Rev activist critical of police protests a shooting. Under the scenario, he shoots unarmed man. 

    Says after, "you must comply with police." 

    He gets killed on one scenario. He makes a single arrest. 33.333333% success rate. 

    67.77777777% dead or shoots unarmed civilian. 

     

    I would love if more activists would be brought in to do these scenarios. 

     

    I love the reality check after the scenario. Yes, old video but its highly important. I fully agree with Jocko on training, bjj, and more time drilling scenarios. 

     

    I pray things get better. ?

     

  7. Posted

    15 hours ago, Inder said:

    Hello everyone hope you doing well.

    So how many of you believe that COVID 19 exist, and all this deaths and cases are happening from COVID 19.

    Leo whats your take on this?.

    Any response would be appreciated.

     

    Update

    Before responding.

    Please read some of my comments mentioned down, so you can get more clear picture, Thanks.

    There was a morbidly obese body positivity attention seeker crying into her ig or youtube saying, her boss won't let her wear a mask. SHE IS A LIAR! It got debunked. She was fired. 

     

    Covid is real. It was a play to affect the economy and orange man bad rhetoric. It killed people but nowhere near the projections estimated. The closure of business was to affect the economy. A woman waa arrested for a few days for opening but riots cured covid? Serious not serious. 

    Its all a political game. The W was had by mankind. We should celebrate. Of course, we must prepare for the real pandemic and bio weapon. Not race baiting. 

  8. Posted

    Its not a popular opinion especially here or anywhere but i wont be shocked if there's four more years. I am trying to avoid hearing about it but its everywhere. To combat this, I have allocated time to my purpose and spiritual rejuvenation. More time healing. More mind, body, spirit over orange man bad rhetoric. I enjoyed the press Secretary checkmate on Jim the other day. 

    If Trump wins, there's more chaos. The masses will rampage and riot. If they win over the election, buddy goes back to being a billionaire. I don't see lose lose in the situation. 

    I like @Leo Gura and Eckhart Tolle content but I am not seeing spiritual awakening. I am seeing chaos and I am craving solitude. ?

    Sadly, there's no winning. Its like Batman vs the Joker. Its a chaotic and insanity that is feeding oneself. Group collective ego is rapid. I cannot fix it bit i can start on myself and free myself to the best of my ability. I think more good will come from individual change on a global level. 

  9. Posted

    16 minutes ago, IJB063 said:

    @Onemanwolfpac

    I’m not gonna play armchair psychologist but sexualising shame is not a good thing

    We live in age of feels before reals

    Amen

    and that spiritual rejuvenation starts with self respect and taking control of your sexual will

    I have hooked up with girls before and there was this sexualization to shame. Granted, it was before the transition in my own path on mind, body, and spirit. Girls wanting me to finish on their face, wanting to be disgraced or humiliated. I wont go into details about the specifics. I just thought that some requests were "weird" at the time. There's dirty talk and then, there's something more malevolent. Actions too. 

    i feel like the same for rape fantasy or fifty shades. Any sort of blending of sex and pain isn't healthy imho. I am not interested nor Turned on by any of this. I feel repulse and disgust. I am grossed out. 

    With apps and the abundance of sex openly promoted, its normalized and cranked up to darker elements. As for armchair psychology, I think its all nonsense as is the APA calling out masculine behaviour as bad. I would agree that there's a lot of trauma and a response to shame being sexualized is probably something unresolved. The same can be said for disconnection from relationships. Indifference even. 

  10. Posted

    On 10/02/2016 at 5:07 PM, Progress said:

    So I'm not sure if I should go to college. I plan to start a life coaching business and from that a large movement. Would college be worth it? It is quite expensive for an experience. Would college help me in my career? 

    No unless you study STEM. anything that ends in studies is a useless degree. Engineering, Tech, accounting could be useful. Alternatively, you can just start your business. 

  11. Posted

    On 12/06/2020 at 4:31 PM, Dlavjr said:

    How common is it to have multiple life purposes? I've been extremely set on pursuing music as my life purpose because it's my passion and I'm in love with the freedom and creativity of it, as well as the thrill of skill building. However, recently I've been pondering being a nutritionist, or personal trainer, or something along those lines in regards to health and fitness. Reason being is that it's personal to me, because I used to be overweight and I now take that stuff seriously and I love helping my friends get on diets and giving them exercise regimes. The problem is I'm pretty broke and I want to go to college for both. I'm already in the process of enrolling in a music degree because I want to learn how to compose professionally and master the theory, perhaps eventually become a professor, but now I'm second guessing myself. Should I just stay on the path I'm on and pursue health and fitness as a career later in life? I want both, but it's a matter of how I should go about it, or if I should focus on one thing at a time as to not put only half my attention/effort into each. 

    Pick a direction. Go. Later in life, it will dissolve as Deida says in way of the superior man. You restart the system from scratch. Pick a path and walk it. If you have too many destinations, you won't go anywhere. 

  12. Posted

    On 18/06/2020 at 8:27 AM, Askarov said:

    Hi all some days ago me and my lover were fighted and after that i did everything to save this relationship now things goes ok but the problem is now  i Realised  that i am so needy and my mind keep tells me you cannot live without her. Now we start talking each other everythings ok but i am not fulfilment and i feel fear of losing her. 
    So what should i do what kind of exercises can help this situation?

    Being beta like that is a great way to insinuate the other person can cuckoldry and do all kinds of harmful stuff but you will be waiting there to "help fix the relationship." Go Meditate. Go make friends. Go get muscles. Learn a language. 

  13. Posted

    3 hours ago, IJB063 said:

    @JessiChell

    Also, eroticising your own shame and disgust is disgusting 

    You shame and disgust is conscience 

    What you’re doing is avoiding and corrupting the very conscience and aspect of you that regulates you to be a better man and act in a better way

    She likely had a past trauma. Its disassociation. Its not routine sexualize shame. Power vs force calibrate shame at 20. That's the lowest of the low. To sexualize shame is sad and awful. 

    Its one of the things that pisses me off about the narrative like Sandberg telling girls to chase psychos. There's volcano lair-like bad guys out there and it won't end up going out well. Its just the norm to make poor decisions in our society, pandemic riot, trash shit because of my Feels. 

    A buddy and I were talking. I said something about the connection being severed with respect to marriage or monogamous exclusivity. He called it trauma. He knows more about therapy and psychology. 

    I think spiritual rejuvenation is so important. Its why I read things like ACIM, Path to God by Ram Dass and a variety of different sources. There's a lot of self study and work to be done. 

  14. Posted

    On 18/06/2020 at 9:27 PM, JessiChell said:

    @Onemanwolfpac I think our definition of love is different. 

    Agreed. You mention shame before. I don't know how to multi quote lol. The point you made on Shame and even the expectations of love returning is likely trauma. I was telling a buddy about unattached and dissociation to relationships coming or going. I don't recollect the exact conversation but he said its a form of trauma. 

     

  15. Posted

    Its so you don't nut in 3secs lololol. 

    Practice the sutras in a relationship. Deida talks about purpose, life path, and direction over beta thirst. Limp or weak man of the modern day. No backbone or spine. Soy boy. Its a profound read and one every man should read especially in the fatherless society we have today. Similar to anything in life, its all about action taking and follow through. 

  17. Posted

    On 18/06/2020 at 6:47 PM, Zak said:

    To start off, I legitimately did not know about this "simp" thing up until my brother called me as "a real definition of a simp".

    SIMP? for those who don't know what a simp is, here is the definition:

    SIMP, is an acronym for Sucker Idolizing Mediocre Pu**y. To get laid.

    I am using a social media app which connects me with other people, so I make calls a lot there, mostly girls to be fairly honest. I am talking with a bunch of girls from all around the world, spitting game and shit, talking in a witty humor. In real life, I live in a place where I can't go and do pick up, so that's where I do my game. I don't know, I really do like female companionship like all the time. I can literally live my entire life on a bed with two women. haha

    So, this Idea of me being a simp real hurt me just now, because I don't only want to chase pu**y. I want to be a dude who sticks to his life purpose. This definition of a SIMP real fits me (I think). I am scared if I only will chase women for the rest of my life. I have been chasing them for ages now. And I am a cute, witty guy. I do. get. women. But all I am saying is if I ever will get over of this lust of chasing women in me.

    Guys here, do you have this problem?

    Simp is the opposite of pimp. Nothing about chasing women is pimp. Fine line between pursuing and pulling versus thirsty beta. Get a grip. Get muscles. Get money. Get a life. 

    The biggest calling card of a simp is worshiping women. Focus on your spiritual path. Mind. Body, spirit. All the above takes priority over getting laid and i love to smash. 

    You can only serve one master. If you are chasing women, you aren't on your purpose. 

  19. Posted

    9 hours ago, Kiko said:

    Hey guys,

    I think its time to admit that i am not good with girls and dating. 

    Ive been lying to myself that has noting to do with me, but obviosly it has.

    Right now i am 26 years old, educated and smart guy (passioant about personal development and spirituality) with decent job, former football player. Altetic body 1,88 cm hegiht, not the most attractive male i guess but i consider myself good looking, consider myself with pretty good humor. I have a lot of friends (some of them rich) i dont lack social connections, people like me for company, i  dont struggle attracting friends. 

    I have very little experiance with girls(in terms of intimate relationship).

    Every new interaciton that i start with a girl even if she is interested in the begining is finishing very quicly, very often getting nowhere.

    Obviosly there is something in me that repels women.  

    I used to say to myself that its their fault,  but ive  met really cool and smart girls( no superficial ones, i dont like them) some of them not extremly atractive like 7, but still very cute and smart. Somehow they also end up not interested.

    Even girls which are obviously far away from me in terms of level, they also end up not interested. I have to be honest, with  some of them i would be embarassed to go out, this is how better than them i am.

    I really dont know what is wrong, 

    I have a lot of friends, people like me for company, i  dont struggle attracting friends. 

    I grew up with pretty bad social anxiety, and i still have to the certain extent. However that doesnt stop me to being cool around people and have friends.

    In high school i was liked by lots of girls, really they used to aproach me and text me very fucking time without even moving my finger. I didnt take advantage of any of those ofcourse because i was very shy with poor social skills.

    I REALLY REFLECT ON ME AND  TRY TO FIND WHAT IS WRONG WITH ALL OF THAT. Dont tell me may be you are too nice with girls. No i am not, not asshole aswell. 

    I will apreciate your comments on that. 

    I want to take full responasbility and not crying and blaming others like a liitle bitch!

    We live in a egotistical era. 

    Are you actually pursuing girls when out or are you talking about your tinder experience? 

  20. Posted

    42 minutes ago, JessiChell said:

    @Nak Khid I've done that my whole life though. I've poured love into helping others. It hasn't come back full circle. 

    The more peace I feel and in love with myself I've ever felt is when I turn inward. 

    But maybe I'm misunderstanding what you're saying, 

    43 minutes ago, JessiChell said:

    @Nak Khid

     

    Maybe it's because there's a expectation that it comes back around. 

     

    3 hours ago, JessiChell said:

    @Nak Khid So you say, "love in its highest form is caring." 

    Unconditional love would be, "caring no matter what." Right?

    Only you can love yourself unconditionally and most don't know how. Isn't that what inner work is about? Learning to love yourself no matter what?

    If we all knew how, and did it naturally, why are we here? On this forum? 

    I love myself more than I ever have loved others. I don't believe in unconditional love, marriage or forever for that matter. Its a delusion, ego, and a cute hallmark card. Its a narrative Hollywood sells.

    People eat it up. The idea of no consequence, simp, and love conquers all. Its nonsense imho. 

    There's prerequisites. Everything has a time limit. I enjoy the experience. I love myself enough to focus on mind, body, spirit. I feel aversion to the narrative sold in pur culture. 

    A classic example is sandbergs advice to women about pursuing playboy and seek out your equal later. Ya, ok bud. The advice for men is piss poor too and nothing short of cuckoldry. 

    There's boundaries, prereqs, expectations and a number of things that are incumbent on exclusivity. Again, i feel aversion to monogamy. If we were in the middle east, multiple wives would be normalised. 

    There's no such experience of mine for unconditional love but Hollywood keeps selling it. People keep chasing it. 

  22. Posted

    1 hour ago, WorldlySavage said:

    I think this is a very good example of an orange mentality... "I could be wrong but..."  (Insert excuse: i'm making money, I'm popular, I've got proof of my ideas, etc.)

    This guy is very orange... Some sort of Americanized aristocrat from Chile.  I think it's very important to understand these people and how they justify themselves and their predatory behavior while they also show a cursory interest in discovering actual truth while still remaining absolutely OBSESSED with what others think and various power dynamics and ultimately scam like behavior to unknowingly dominate others.

     

    What are your thoughts on this?  Realize that much of our world and much of ourselves even are stuck on ORANGE.   ESPECIALLY ME... ;)

    There's lots of predatory stuff online. There's subs on reddit on how to Sperm jack or so i am told. There's positive pregnancy kits sold online. There's a lot of predatory individuals. Its why I find parroting spiritual mumbo jumbo about everything is love and other jargon i find distasteful. Alfred in dark Knight tells Bruce that some men want to watch the world burn.

    • black celebrities cheering on riots from the white neighbourhood. 
    • Obama championing change + buys home in white community 
    • Rich white kids in antifa rioting. 

    Personally, I prefer to meditate, read path to God by Ram Dass, conversations with God, ACIM, and a variety of other things. And yet, I still like to party, trip, and hookup. 

    Imho chasing colors is just more ego. Similar to iq, it is across a spectrum so, in a variety of areas, you are higher in one area than another. I am probably orange in some respect to Dating and wanting to smash all the time. I am probably green from a holistic, nutritional aspect. 

    I am unattached to all of the above but I duel with aversion. Attached to my being unattached. 

  23. Posted

    5 hours ago, Consept said:

    I think if youre criticising the handling of it, and dont get me wrong there are things to criticise, how would you have dealt with it given the information that was given in February?  

    Trump for all his many faults blocked travel. He was called racist. WHO colluded and protected China. If it had been half as bad as projected, were all DEAD. If it was Smyth like Stephen King's The Stand, it would be over. 

    Organizations that colluded must be held accountable. If China closed up parts while allow travel globally; consequences must follow. 

    I am not paid to handle it. If I was, anybody with compromised immunity should have been isolated. The Chinese government must disclose and warn the world. Shutting down businesses or arresting a woman to survive wasn't a solution. 

     

    On a positive note, WE'RE LUCKY as a human race for a second chance. Instead of celebrating this as a W, we have race baiting and public riots globally during pandemic. This has left me to believe that it was all political orange man bad. Let small and family businesses to reclaim power. 

    We must be prepared for IF and when the real pandemic or bio weapon occurs. We may not be so lucky next time. The people should be celebrating a great victory. Instead, we have riots, people destroying their cities, murder, and race baiting. 

  24. Posted · Edited by Onemanwolfpac

    13 hours ago, diamondpenguin said:

    Nobody in america holds total power. So if there is a problem with the government all of us in the country are to blame for who we elect and what we do about things. The US is a group effort. 

    Nah. If you don't pay taxes, you are tossed on jail. Shifting the onus on the people when government a lot of the time is nothing short of legalised gangsters. The problem is that group identity removes the onus of the individual. 

    Victim card and government handouts is not a solution. 

    34 minutes ago, Scholar said:

    Just so you guys can realize how dangerous it can be for the cops:

    https://www.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/hb2lq1/drunk_driver_shoots_cops_then_drives_away/

    The response is cowardice. Criminals with a free pass to do anything. Stun guns a cop and shot dead before people burns down Wendys? 

    I feel bad for the cops right now. I linked the one who was paralyzed on Vegas. I think reform is necessary bit the default is victim card. Floyd was murdered. The guy stun gunning cops had a weapon and got put down. The news link i saw said they want the death penalty. 

    Government simping to mob mentality is pathetic. Order must be restored. 

  25. Posted

    On 16/06/2020 at 1:14 PM, NatureB said:

    An ideal response to the spread of COVID-19 in the U.S. would have been to hire thousands of medical workers to test for the virus and track it through contact tracking, create a national database to aide medical workers and hospitals, have a concerted response so that every state in the U.S. is taking the same precautions, ramp testing up to the amount needed (which I hear is 10% of the population - right now we have only tested 2% of the population). Having every state be on the same page would increase our sense of being all in this together as one country united, reduce pessimism, etc. 

    We would not have buoyed the unemployment by adding an additional $600 per week per person, because now people do not want to go back to work. We should have tried a UBI of $2,000 per month per adult until this crisis is over.

    Digging out of this mess will be long and hard. On the bright side, maybe we can increase the number of green infrastructure jobs and get a few million employed again. Our infrastructure sucks in the U.S. We still do not have a light rail in any one of our cities, not to mention between our cities.

     

    I get a lot of my info and ideas from Andrew Yang. If this is a topic that interests you, any of his podcast episodes are great. Yang Speaks is the name of it.

    IMO, it was the test pilot for UBI because people love to vote for free shit. Politicians love power. It is cyclical. People are reliant on government and i would go so far as to say, enslaved by governments. 

    JOe Rogan called out the bone head about getting "some" of our rights back if people comply. IF! People are spineless and cowardly in giving up rights and freedoms. 

    Covid is real. It was the damn 19th iteration. As in, we beat it 18x before. The way people resorted to being in the fetal position and grovelling to master government to come save them is telling. 

    Lazy people. Make more getting printed money than going into work. 

    UBI if and when AI and time travel takes. It promotes sloth. I saw a YouTuber post vlog going through garbage. It was all booze or fast food. 

    Imagine, savings. A emergency fund. A career in stem. Not running to government to save us. Not reliant nor tolerating the removal of freedom and livelihoods. 

    If anything is emphasised, our leaders are oblivious as are the masses reliant on to come save us. If covid was as bad, were all dead right now. Its nowhere as bad or protests wouldn't be allowed. 

    Yang and Bernie all caved to the powers to be. They fell in line. The masses do too.