Terell Kirby

Avoiding baggy clothing at all costs .. try to get fitted where you can. This is the most attractive style in a woman's eyes. Shoes are important, never walk around with busted shoes. Also, purchase the latest mens fashion magazines (I'm assuming you are a guy) as reference.

Wouldn’t this notion create duality though? Yea psychedelics can get you a variation of infinity but it’s still all infinity. From a God view, an experience on 5meo is no different from an experience on anything else. The content of existence may be different but context of existence is God’s imagination…all the time.

And some of us have realized this without taking a single psychedelic ..

I get your point though .. we never really know what our minds are capable of unless we make some profound distinction between our human incarnation and something that's profoundly different...and I get psychedelics help with that. Just acknowledging that there is a lot of progress that can be made while not on psychedelics .. I am sure you know this, but you seem to dismiss it a lot.

@Leo Gura you have some points, but some of us "sober" localizations of consciousness have indeed realized what we are .. In the end, from my universe, you are just some imagined person encouraging the use of 5meo DMT. I get this at a very fundamental level. FYI - I still plan on taking 5meo as you suggest lol. It sounds fun.

It would be very convenient if someone could map out the answers for you .. but the bleak aspect of awakening is that no one can validate it for you. It's beyond subjective, and you'll need to deeply trust yourself in this process. Be weary of people who come off as having all of the spiritual answers, and those who force some way of being down your throat.

Agree. God realization is the only thing one obtains on the path. For people on the forum that refuse to acknowledge this, I have a hard time understanding why someone would follow Leo’s teachings or even be on his platform. God realization is fundamental to his spiritual insights. Those who are God realized can easily see through those who are not.

Basic gratitude mindset that you can start right away: Your life may be shit, but at least you woke up today!

@Lyubov The only thing you should feel guilty about is not making an effort to find a better job.

This is the story you tell yourself. You let go of the story by deconstructing the idea itself .. this is what awakening entails.

Not taking care of your physical and mental health.

Consciousness can't be defined through fluffy words and terminology. Start by understanding that consciousness produces the language you are trying to use to define it. Meditate and contemplate in silence. When (and if) you discover the Truth, do not feel compelled to share it with anyone through your words.

You are projecting .. not all of Stage Orange is toxic.

I suggest you leave this to professionals who are in the psychology field, don't take on that burden .. it will most likely backfire and impact the relationship negatively. Encourage, not force, her to seek professional help .. such as therapy, counseling and/or coaching.

I used to deal with being forgetful and making mistakes a lot. Growing up, my parent made me feel bad about it all the time (I think it was a major contributor to my childhood trauma). It could be neurosis involved, but the important thing is to not take forgetfulness and mistakes too seriously (in terms of letting them define you). Humans are flawed beings, if any person criticizes another for making a mistake .. they are foolish. Mistakes are a part of the human experience. Learn to love yourself unconditionally.

When you die, you are born again .. to infinity So much that life and death become indistinguishable.

You may want to ask yourself if you are being self bias. You may see things a certain way, but that doesn't mean the other person does .. or should see it your way to please you. Fear of losing someone creates codependency in relationships. Looking for others to complete you leads to unhealthy ways in maintaining connection through guilt tripping and manipulation. You must be able to give to yourself what you expect others to give to you .. this is the process of bringing your whole self to a relationship.

The post seems all over the place. Enlightenment begins with a desire. Desire is fundamental to this path, transcending your desires only happens after using them to get you to God realization.

I don't have a natural inclination to murder people...so no for me.

Trying to change others will lead you to much frustration. You are not here to force change onto people. In this situation, focus on what you can actually control, which is your emotions. Instead of trying to change your friend, ask yourself if you can love him as he is. If not, it is best to move on and find more compatible friends.

Transcending fear doesn't mean it goes away .. through understanding it, you learn to love it .. therefore not needing it to be removed from your experience.

Headed out tonight to see how this works. I typically indulge in shots and cocktails to build a bit of liquid courage in approaching .. but just working with raw courage tonight lol. Wish me luck .. any tips / shared experiences would be great.

@SamC Thanks for the feedback. The night actually went way better than expected without alcohol (liquid courage). I was actually more social, and more coherent, attentative and focused during my conversations with groups of women. Eye contact game was even better. I was even more open to chatting it up with random guys who were also out on prowl .. we became friends to the point where we approach clusters of girls as a team. This was really awesome. Not to mention (perhaps the best point), I didn't feel like shit the next day lol. I plan on going out sober again really soon.

The statement "I deserve" is quite selfish. It implies wishful thinking. It's better to see it as a craving .. something you want in life. There is no problem having wants, as long as we know the work we must put in to obtain that which we want.