Happy Lizard

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    Cant we get semi-frequent success and dating content on the blog for the us who follow actualized content for personal success? I enjoy the philosophy and see it’s value as years pass, and if I’m motivated to understand these complex topics now, then I think my general appreciation of it will sky rocket if I can only meet some personal success criteria. I think a lot who follow actualized will agree with with me on this.

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    Just now, Leo Gura said:

    Of course society requires certain basic conformist building blocks to function. Language is one example. Laws against murder and rape is another.

    That is fine. That's not the problematic kind of conformity.

    Make sure you guys understand that I am NOT asking you to demonize basic social building blocks when I speak of conformity.

    I am half-expecting someone to take a shit on the dinner table and then say, "But Leo said to not be conformist!"

    I think English is a bad choice in the context of this argument. I meant to say I learned English as a second language and realized that I could have learned any other language and would have probably been able to see the world from a totally different perspective. But still there is a good case for why learning English is a great thing after all. Same as visiting some trendy places or buying some kind of shoes based on an expert recommendation, plus other things that you can temporarily confirm to until you realize another alternative.
    The problem with conformity is when it turns to blind conformity that is unquestionable and also because it weakens one's ability to think freely  and discover a better alternative or even the possibility of that existing. 

    What I'm ultimately saying is that if not enough context is given you sacrifice shifting the focus form the middle of the road way of thinking about these things, which is probably at the end what you meant to begin with.

  7. Posted · Edited by Happy Lizard

    @Leo Gura My idea is that there has to be a middle of the road kind of position to some of what can be labeled as conformity, for example using English as the most common language to communicate is conformity, but then you have to start somewhere to solve the problem before you can chose not to conform. Thats why I said what I think you are pointing at is more abstractly the function of how each thing in the list becomes a buzz that people follow blindly and then it becomes a given, not the validity of the thing itself.

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    @Leo Gura I can see where each of the example you gave about green health kinda makes sense, except for demonization of sugar, do you mean to point at the function of just how everything on the list became a buzz thing that people started to accept without any thinking? Because thats the common denominator between all the things you list that I can see. 

    conformity is thinking or taking action blindly based on buzz without reflecting on the belief in solitude, away form outside influences. That’s my contemplation of what conformity is.

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    On 11/7/2025 at 10:02 PM, Leo Gura said:

    If plenty of women sleep with a man that definitionally means he is attractive.

    Great? No.

    Many women do not sleep with unattractive men. This is a fantasy.

    Just because you don't find a man attractive based on your high consciousness values does not mean most women agree with you.

    When you say attractive you mean just physically attractive or personality charisma attractive etc as well? 
    Because this is confusing me when thinking about your content on dating and developing one’s game if it just boils down to “women sleep with hot men”. I don’t mean to say you were confusing, I just mean its not clear to me where the intersection is between what you say about dating and my experience and observation of women that you  mentioned in this post.

    I do agree that no woman choose a monk over a celebrity or good looking dude btw that’s obvious to me. 
     

     

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    I've been trying to get into understanding business (how to think, find ideas and start a business) however I can find no straightforward business books that teach you about starting and generating business ideas, most books assume you already have an idea or are half way through process. What about a book that educate about business or how to start ? 

    I have some of the books on Leo's booklist and have read the E myth book, yet these books assume you have at least tried your hands with one or two businesses already, are there any books you know of that talk about the fundamentals ?

  14. Posted · Edited by Happy Lizard

    @Leo Gura Great last quote about AI! I just feel like it’s so obvious but they keep throwing fuel to that fire hoping it will somehow become eternal. Even Matt Kahn out of all people is now thinking AI is conscious in his last book; It just came out, didn’t read it yet, but just the fact that they put an image of an AI model as an avatar on the book and called it one of the authors weirds me out 

  15. Posted · Edited by Happy Lizard

    I’m not a Marc Gaffni fan but I have listened to some of his talks about meaning and value, and I think it struck me as truth. However I will say that when Oct 7 happened and I saw how he dismissed Palestinian lives as if it’s not equal in value to Israelis I could tell that he was full of shit, at least when push comes to shove. 
     

    The issue with seeing the corruption of people is that it sortof start to become hard to listen to their better ideas. Still we all have to keep are wits about us and be careful to not fall for fakes.

  16. Posted · Edited by Happy Lizard

    @Leo Gura I don’t have enough knowledge on this topic to put a strong argument for it, but what if reaching the truth for women is different form men? For example I heard a spiritual teacher say that a male sits in a cave and can reach enlightenment while a women connects deeply with the world and thats what her path to enlightenment is, which is very hard and requires much more freedom than sitting in cave. 

  18. Posted · Edited by Happy Lizard

    10 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

    Your laziness is not my problem :P

    I got too much stuff to post and not enough days.

    Well to my defense, I don’t watch them all because I don’t want to be lazy and waste too much time watching videos form the blog. 

    But I can come back and watch them later I guess.

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    @Leo Gura Thanks for the note at the end of the Ivy leaguers blog post.

    Your style has had me react in a worried ways sometime like “oh shit the truth is so harsh/far away form reach” etc, which is counter to what you want form this way of communication. I suspect who you intend to read these comments are regular maybe middle class somewhat wealthy people that need a bit of a shock. Not to say I don’t, or I never need it, but it was a bit challenging for me to get to understand your style after many years of following your material.

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    On 4/18/2025 at 1:54 PM, Leo Gura said:

    The whole point is that that doesn't work.

    Actualized.org is different in kind from Christianity.

    Don't you think I understood the problems of religion and ideology when I created Actualized.org, and designed Actualized.org to side-step those problems?

    Actualized.org does not ask you to believe in any spiritual thing. It only asks you to question everything to the bone. You can deconstruct Actualized.org. That doesn't contradict Actualized.org. The only goal here is to free your mind until your mind goes infinite. Which is what religion ought to have always been, but never was.

    @Leo Gura imagine Wikipedia in 3015:

    Leonism is a religion centered around the figure of Leo Gura, a religious leader who reportedly threw a brick at a Wall Street building, claiming to be God, and was subsequently killed by one of his forum moderators.