Cireeric

Its often hard to see it in a position like this, but everything is in constant change. Your emotions wont last forever, its all temporally and you can go through it. You have so many experiences and years in front of you. I can guarantee you in five years from now you will had enough experiences worth living for. You will be thankful that youve gone through this hard times.

Because these prankster, the dude in this example mastered many social skills by his pranks. He goes up, just having positive vibes for himself, he doesnt need anything from the girl; he is non-needy. Also he is very relaxed in this social interactions and just has fun. He doesnt give a shit what the people around are thinking of him, thats very attractive.

I think of this in a little model I have in my head, im not sure how true it is. But I see it in 3 levels or stages: 1.) People are good socially, but not really conscious, dont really know what going on and its not build in a stable fundament. 2.) People get more aware, more introspective and cause of that can be a bit more self-conscious and it can be harder to socialize. 3.) People who are conscious of whats going on and also introspective aware of themselves and then master to socialize on a stable foundation. So continue your consciousness work and also go out and learn to socialize and eventually you will get to stage 3. But its also a lot about letting go, just seeing the social interactions as fun dont get too analytical about it.

Dont forget that in this forum, the man express themselves far more freely and are more likely to express their true agendas or feelings about things, whereas when you as a woman encounter man in person, they will signal higher virtues and try to hide their vulnerabilitys.

@fopylo Yes, sadly its very hard to change people and show them whats good for them, it must start with their own intention. Therapy can just begin when the client admits to himself: Some things I do are wrong and I have the power to change. They need to see the value for themselves and willing to improve themselves. We are lucky that we adopted the Mindset of Openmindedness and willingness to change and grow early, before its too late and we get stuck in our conditions and behaviors and worldviews.

Yes I can completely understand you. Since my own psychological health and understanding drastically improved in the last years I can see much clearer the dysfunctional patterns of my near friends and family and how it leads to their own suffering. It is very hard for me to now see how my own parents have problems in life and suffer. And the problem is when people werent open for this sort of stuff for such a long time its pretty hard to open to it. Because nobody wants to admit that they live for such a long time in an unhealthy way and that most of their suffering is created by themselves. Also I cant really tell my parents how to live a better life. I think the best you can do is try to give subtle tips here and there, motivate them to exercise, maybe cook some good food or look that they eat some healthy stuff.

So penis pills are like psychedelics for the cock ? Conscious penis pill business is coming

I think when someone really has problems with his sexual urges and desires and these hold him back, no problem try/practice NoFap. But in my opinion its not very spiritual to leave out one of the best and also deepest things in life.

After watching the last video I got this idea. You can start journaling on any habit/hobby/skill you want to improve after doing it, or in the evening as an exercise to go meta on it. I guess this can be very valuable. For example you learn the piano consistently and then you want to go meta for one month, so you decide to journal one month about it everyday. Im sure you can improve in any skill through this. Its an easy exercise to go meta and improve on anything: meditation, instrument, sex, psychedelics....

Tim Ferriss uploaded a video today, where he presents a few books:

I think it depends on what you measure. But yes, you can train to see the beauty in specific freatures of the person, even if they are not conventional attracive/beautiful. Every human being has certain aspects that are very beautiful that you can see. But im not sure if that really helps with being attracted to a partner long term.

Yeah I thought about this too. Maybe just because I didnt experienced a full awakening yet. But isnt it possible that this experience of infinity or No-Boundary is still just an experience that happens within the individual, and the human has just the capacity to enter into it but it still remains within the individual

Lol but when the girl craves him he got exactly what he want

So I guess you are from Germany? I bought it too here and I have a few experiences with it, full dose and microdosing. I cant really tell the difference between this and normal LSD and all the research suggests that too.

Leo said many times things like "You never were born" or "Your birth is imaginary". I didnt understand this till a few weeks ago, when I had maybe an glimpse of awakening, im not sure. How I understand it now is: You as Consciousness/God never were born, but you as ego/form got born. But that birth is in the absolute identification with consciousness just part of the dream the consciousness dreams up as a story for the ego to make sense of the experience. So wouldnt it be much easier for people to understand this if Leo would mention that you never were born in the Absolute sense as Consciousness/God. Or am I missing still someting out?

When I talk about Consciousness/God I am talking about the Observer/Stillness/ or I Amness which I can feel sometimes more and sometimes less and to which I get closer when meditating. When im talking about the ego, I talk about my identification with the very earthly person, storys, appearance etc. And yes the capital letters are quite arbitrary I didnt thought about it, it just came naturally with no conscious intent.

In this episode Andrew Huberman explains exactly how you trigger neuro-plasticity for learning. Very interesting!

@OriginsThis sounds interesting, I think I can imagine what you mean with this and maybe im already doing this a lot. I can get very hyped up by my creative thoughts and positive imagination. Where do you got your knowledge from in neurplasticity or neuroscience?

Lol this is hilarious

Yes its an very interesting topic. Nice choice to study this.

I was contemplating about Thoughts. In meditation guides they often talk about that thoughts just appearing in consciousness, but you cant control them. But I think there are 2 types of thoughts. 1.) The thought just happens to you/appears in consciousness randomly. 2.) You are thinking with intention. Could it be, that the first type of thought is coming from the ego/unconsciousness or unconscious patterns, and the second type of thoughts are coming from the Observer/Higher Self? Or is there no thought coming from the Higher Self and both coming from the ego mind, but one with intention and the other one just happens to you unconsciously? Im not sure about it.

Thats another interesting distiction you made, but I think thats another phenomena of thoughts than what I mean.

Leos advice sounds a bit toxic for me in this thread. There are many young guys who have erection problems especially because of watching too much porn. When the first years of sexual experiences are only porn it can get unhealthy and thats the case for most people today. Also it can cause more anxiety which you described due to unrealistic expectations. It can be the case that you have a few more experiences, getting slowly more comfortable with the other person and then start enjoying sex and get up easier in real sexual experiences.

What I experienced is that women can be often more sexually/aroused as the men, when they are in a deep relationship and have great intimacy with their partner. I saw and experienced many relationship where the women wanted more sex, whereas single men can be more horny than single women, because there is lesser need for intimacy and security for them to have sex. But im not sure about this theory.

@Strangeloop It can be just the anxiety and after you done it a few times you will get up/in easier. I think doggy is the easiest, if you have problems to get it in.