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@Kid A Did you find your girlfriend from online? I know you meant daygame. My point was: why didn’t you talk about something that isn’t boring? Also, your attitude toward normal conversation is what makes it boring. This was your problem, not native women. Do you have any limiting beliefs about attracting native women?

@Kid A Did you quit or are you still trying to improve? Anyway one should build an Instagram and be active there, posting stories, showing personality and frame. Do you think if you continued and approached like 2000 women a year you could get successful with native women also or do you hold on to this limiting belief you mentioned earlier? Always close to Instagram. No numbers, no snapchat. You can get those later if needed, but Instagram is 100x better to close with. What have you done in your personal life to improve your game, like looksmaxxing, career, gym? Do you have optimal clothing style, physical fitness, passions, hobbies, regular events with your friends where you can invite girls? I have done both night and daygame, more night game. You can improve alot gaming in clubs because it's more challenging environment. You don’t need to dance, you can lead and have the frame. You don’t have to approach in the dance floor. I think you and your wingmen have some kind of group psychosis type limiting belief about native woman. What are you saying or doing to get that response? You mentioned that most of your interactions where about boring stuff, did you ever think to talk about something interesting or make the "boring stuff" interesting.

800-900. What I learned from those approaches is that cold approaching doesn’t really work on «native» Norwegian women, especially not during daytime. All the dates I got from those approaches were with women who were foreigners to some degree. I bet it’s the same in the other Scandinavian countries as well. Very cool and interesting. My experience of Scandinavian countries is different. Good game works very well there, because men are naturally shy there and afraid to approach women. Even nines and tens complain that men don’t approach them. 1. What were your favourite ways to start the interaction? Any openers or topics in longer sets that worked best for you? I’d love to hear as many examples as you can share. 2. Did you feel you got better over time? Did your confidence or your style change? 3. Were your interactions usually long sets or mostly quick rejections? 4. And when things went well, did you usually close Instagram or phone numbers?

How many approaches have you done irl?

Are you serious? You really have no idea how to get better with women?

You haven’t actually tried anything. You haven’t approached thousands of women. You say nothing is working, even though you’ve barely approached women at all. This should give you hope, because it’s obvious and logical why you haven’t gotten results yet. Again, I ask: what is your strategy for overcoming your fear of approaching?

Yes of course! Right now I'm broke financially. But, I have plans to improve my lifestyle to align with high quality approaches, money for all the logistics, etc. That is my biggest bottleneck. Being broke is a stupid excuse. You don’t need to improve your lifestyle to talk to a woman. You don’t need to make "high quality approaches", make 1000 "bad quality" approaches and see what happens. How much money do you need for logistics and do you need to move? Last weekend I went to a club using public transportation, spent a total of 13,9€ that night, talked to everyone at the club, got a couple of number closes, and took a bus home. My friend used to tell women he was broke, and every time he pulled, the girl payed for the taxi. Keep your frame.

Do you want to get better with women? If yes, what is your strategy?

I think yes. It’s like I’m farther away from everything. For example the room looks bigger, toilet looks way smaller when I pee, like I am way taller or the toilet is smaller. When I close my eyes I feel like I am getting sucked into a void. Very scary when I was younger. It has happened around a thousand times, and I was sober, never taken psychedelics. And I’ve had like a thousand out-of-body experiences, too. with or without the visual thing.

You are making her too big of a deal. Go approach hundreds of other women: Daygame, clubs, online.

@iceprincess Your behaviour is annoying

Overthinking

Approximately how many approaches have you made? How many dates with new women have you been on? And how many girlfriends have you had?

My desires will change when I grow (Sometimes I get strong higher conscious desires but I need to solve my low level problems first before I start fully resonating with peace, meditation, yoga, helping others, oneness, truth, self-love and stuff like that), but at this exact moment I want: - I want to pay all my debt in the next 7 months and then start working on escaping the wage slavery - I want a visible sixpack abs (I will achieve this within 6 months) - I want to work on my social skills: vocabulary, speaking, image, body language, pickup, writing. - I want to experience all my sexual fantasies and maintain a roster of women. (100% honest and ethical) - I want to continue abstaining from: Nicotine, Video games, Alcohol, Caffeine, Drugs, Porn, Gambling, Junk food for the rest of my life I want to achieve all these low level goals and set new, more challenging goals

It has been almost a year since I made my first post in this journal. I learned that zero alcohol is better than moderation. I broke up with my girlfriend and learned a lot. We lived together for about half a year. I am learning to be more patient about adding new habits and things to abstain from. I have a solid gym routine. My goal is to achieve a shredded six-pack. I am still paying off my debt. This year, I have paid 10 000€ toward credit cards and other loans. My plan is to become completely debt-free, live minimally, and work toward my life purpose. New thing for me is that I am abstaining from junk food. Last weekend, I was at my grandma’s and refused to eat ice cream and cake. In theory, that is the hardest situation in which to resist junk food, but it was easy for me because I am 100% committed to not eat junk food for the rest of my life. My mindset is that I would rather fast than eat junk food, if for example I am in a situation where healthy options are not available. Almost 400 days without nicotine! Here is my current abstaining streaks: