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@bebotalk would you like the thread open or locked?

@Sugarcoat He is saying, I think that you also react to people sometimes in unkind ways. Which, we all do.

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@Sugarcoat Well, books have an effect on people, text messages do, ads do, videos do, The forum does have an effect on it’s users. It won’t change over night but what we are doing in this thread is collectively addressing this issue of our misperceptions. Time and consciousness will tell

@Sugarcoat True, We should all be strong in our truth and respect others. Can’t control bitterness of others

Yes they do —

Great post! This is what we need more of.

@NoSelfSelf @Leo Gura — It’s cool man. I don’t know what’s up with you right now, but give it time. I’m around to talk if you wanna speak respectfully.

I Will defend my sisters by educating my brothers. This is unacceptable.

@Schizophonia Well, I think you misunderstand the situation. No one is being saved. If people don’t get the ability to speak about their thoughts, and hear different perspectives they tend not to grow or change. I can say much the same to you, interacting with randoms on the internet. Sneaky double standards.

I am having a very pleasant weekend. Blue Dragon Qigong workshop, a great trip, good sex, good food, good Qigong, good books, some break thoughts over some resentments leading to forgiveness, and working on my course back end now to make my Qigong business flourish. ahh nice

@bebotalk What I am pointing to is that your reality isn’t THE reality and you have created a nightmare. You’re living in an augmented reality. If it leads you to harming women needlessly and causing suffering that’s totally up to you and your free will. Over the coming weeks reflect on the conversations had in this thread. Reflect on your hatred, on your pain and insecurity. That is all I am pointing to. What you do with it no one can control you. It’s your life, your mind and your relationships. — I will share some books here for men dealing with similar issues that I have found helpful. I want you guys to develop healthy strong and integrated psyches so you can build good lives and healthy relationships. I want us to do that together. This is also my wish for myself as I grow as a man. I see the best in my brothers and in myself.

@NoSelfSelf Stop acting like a jerk as well. You’re projecting nonesense on me.

@Princess Arabia It’s not all about you. You can’t tell people fuck you on the forum, you didn’t even get a warning. Stop playing victim. I am again, allowing this conversation to happen because a lot of men need it. I am also learning how these men think. If you come into a thread like this and start causing drama I will ask you stop interacting. This thread is by its very nature a conflict and I don’t need you acting out. I see you as a leader on the forum and expect to see that in you. You don’t need to engage in every thread and when you start swearing at other users you break forum guidelines as well. Instead of playing a victim double down to hold yourself to a higher standard. I want you to also self reflect on healthy engagement with others on the forum.

What you are doing is not self defence it’s bullshit.

I’d same the same to you. By recognizing your own bullshit and hypocrisy you can save yourself a lot of needless fighting and living in a nightmare. Take time to self reflect deeper on this matter. Is that really who you want to be? Do you want to be that small and petty that you get offended by pretty women? Or, would you like to pursue the path of a superior man, who leads and holds himself to higher standards. We all deal with bad thoughts on our path which is why I’m not demonizing you. I get it. But, your bigger than that.

Why sink below your own standards here? He gets offended and acts out… you get offended and act out. It’s all bullshit. I will close the thread if it gets out of hand. Conflict is healthy when we do it without taking things personally. The reason I am making this thread unhidden and open is because I think what bebotalk is dealing with many men are dealing with. He will not see what I see in him overnight. Don’t expect anyone to change and agree with you instantly. @bebotalk Has some unfortunate beliefs right now and the goal is to hear him, and help him reflect. @Princess Arabia Please do not post in this thread anymore.

You are right. What he is doing is not self defence. It’s actually self harm.

@Princess Arabia Having others reflect back to him other perspectives is important.

“When you feel distressed: 1. Try to become fully aware of the negative feeling 2. See that it is in you, not in the exterior conditions 3. Do not take it as part of your True Self” - Vernon Howard The Mystic Path To Cosmic Power