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What are you ha ha ha’ing? Are you laughing at me for being a fool?

@Breakingthewall I’m also learning yes. Be THE BRUTAL TRUTH. Wishful thinking makes a fool and a shitty life.

Be Conscious of it

@Dodecahedron Probably need to bite the bullet of that pain. Personally, I’m slowly getting back it o dating as I address my own trauma and attachment style. Which can be another important factor to accepting and embracing rejection.

Not sure if I said this but, don’t be one of those guys who verbally abuse women who say no or turn them down. That’s cringe af

Yes, I mean men practicing being horny when they would masturbate and practicing not getting satisfied. This may help when they are truly horny with girl, so they can maintain integrity. Somehow, men can learn to be in integrity when horny texting, or when alone with girls or girlfriends. For many men this is hard to do.

Perhaps, practice being horny by yourself and then rejecting yourself.

Think of it like this: 1. You may be a great guy at your fullest and she may not like you because of personal preferences. It’s not personal and not worth being upset about 2. If you are not that skillful with a woman who would like you had you have the skills, it’s really on you and you need to take each experience as a learning g experience and not the end all be all. Overall, don’t take it personally. Feel the feelings with grace. Don’t be one of those guys who verbally assaults women because they aren’t into them. Be cool,

@Vincent S it’s probably not black and white at all in practice

@michaelcycle00 Being nice, means people pleasing. Not being nice, means being authentic l, assertive and strong. It means holding your values. it does not mean being a dick or being aggressive

I find after awakening I’m still asleep

I think he has put out so much free content and most of us haven’t even began to fully comprehend it. It will take years. He is also working on his relationships I think.

Things fall apart. We gotta hold others accountable and need others to hold us accountable. We all have our limitations and biases. Sometimes we can't see where we are ignorant. It's a double whammy. I occasionally need to be moderated but I usually do pretty good. Sometimes I don't agree with the Mods, and I am pretty open about it with them. But, give it some time and I come around and theres usually a fix.

Hope I can hold myself accountable and avoid any issues.

My ear has rang for 3 years or something now. Get used to it. It's not likely to go anywhere. If you cure it, give us all a call. I've learned to accept it. It doesn't affect my sleep, and I forget about it while listening to music. For whatever reason, even though our body can go from single celled, to complex human without a single ring.. the body can't correct itself despite consciously recognizing its annoying. God? Is that your infinite creative ability? Thanks. Learn to love the unlovable. 1. Ear ringing 2. Not likely to be the musican of my dreams 3. Balding 4. Recovering from trauma Thats me. Thanks God.

@Vincent S Niceness to me to is akin to people pleasing. I cannot fully self actualize if I’m a nice person. I must be madly in love with YOU despite what you say and think about me. Despite the hell you put me through. You, God. You created me, and I’m going to love you despite the suffering you allow me.

God loves a challenge

@Spence94 Super worth it. I bought it and every day Monday to Friday I would go to a cafe 6-9 am before work and work on it. I had a lot of fun!

I see a bunch of children aged 0- 100 Egos caught in a dream I think it’s made me more loving than most people, more patient with myself and others and it’s fire charged my curiosity in psychology, healthy relationships, Qigong, sexuality, conflict resolution, shame, etc etc etc etc How do I completely liberate myself and become totally in love and invincible for eternity?

Oh, lesson to always read op post

@puporing simply dulls the nausea… don’t take that much lol

No quality post ?

Jeez why so much?

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Just keep trying until you get there