Ulax

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  1. @Molaric Imo, to be frank, I'd follow this advice more than the above pieces of advice if you're serious about overcoming it. Summary of actions steps from vid 1. Realising there's a problem and taking steps to address the addictive substance/behaviour. Keeping in mind that the addiction developed for a reason. 2. Whilst addressing the substance/behaviour we need to search for adaptive ways of stimulating the reward pathway. It may take time before your reward pathway can be activated without the addictive substance. 3. Addressing the underlying causes of the inner tension. This may entail schema therapy, psychotherapy or in some parts of the world psychedelic psychotherapy is being found to be effective.
  2. @Thought Art I disagree actually. I think the masculine penetrates reality and the feminine flows with reality. The masculine is more about control whilst the feminine is more about accepting imo.
  3. In your head, repeat the name, and over enunciate the first and last syllable of the name you want to remember. Max Huberman recommended it
  4. @Alta I think there is a difference when it comes to relationships compared to casual sex. Imo, masculine men are way more attractive to generally all women when it comes to causal sex. Its probably one of the beliefs I'm the most confident about in my life. With regards to relationships is more where i think the idea of opposite polarities attracting play out.
  5. @Thought Art I'd actually say the opposite, I'd expect a more masculine leading woman to want a more feminine leading man
  6. @Sucuk Ekmek I'd take immortality. But one which i could opt out of if i wanted to. So, i'd like a receipt for my immortality.
  7. @Thought Art Its kind of funny. Its like im gonna point out your gender terms are social constructs, and then replace them with gender terms that are also social constructs. Tbf tho I like that they have these new identities. Its a bit narcissitically done atm imo, i.e. you must subscribe to these new terms, but this new gender role stuff is in its infancy, so its understandable that the movement will be a bit insecure.
  8. Any identity is a social construct even these new woke ones
  9. @Danioover9000 I tried but i was blinded by the sun reflecting off of his bald head ;( I'm now blind in two eyes
  10. @Danioover9000 Damn I found a fan Yippee!
  11. @Danioover9000 I somewhat agree. I'm just trying to point out dogma for the benefit of the poster, as well as those who read the comment.
  12. @KH2 I think there's value to what you're saying here dude. However, I notice a pattern of absoluteism in the way you post. It seems to me you frequently jump from one ideology to another, and claim it is the best and claim its the way to go from everyone.
  13. @spiritual memes Lmao. *Andrew Tate in therapy* Therapist: Is the matrix in the room with us right now Andrew?
  14. @How to be wise From your posts it seems like you have changed quite significantly. You had a lot of success with Byron Katie's stuff no?
  15. @integral Think it depends upon where you are in terms of your own level of emotional mastery. As well as how the problems relate to issues in your own personal life.
  16. @Rasheed No, I don't think so. You would need proper reference experiences, imo. For example, MMA training.
  17. @Max_V I think it would depend on her attachment style. If she is not secure, she might react adversely. Also, I think it would depend on why you were being vulnerable. Are you sharing your vulnerabilities to build intimacy or are you trying to get her to fix you? I think non violent communication could be a useful way to learn to be vulnerable. That said, I lack direct experience in this area, so am drawing mostly from theory. ----- Edit: Also, imo, at some point, you have to ask yourself what do you want from a relationship?
  18. @How to be wise Seems like a real lack of integrity she's suffering from. I reckon she has an egoic agenda that is the backbone of her political career. Hence such a big switch.
  19. @Butters Perhaps a meditation practice could help. You could learn to watch and process through the urges that come up.
  20. @KH2 Makes sense to me dude. I have a part of me that Tate figures strongly pull on to.