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It happens because sex is a root primal, animalistic urge. It's essentially as necessary for men as water or food is. Not quite, but almost. Most living things in the animal kingdom rape, it's actually quite disturbingly common. However we have the capacity to transcend this and except others to follow suit. Being so important this need must be fulfilled. The problem and horrible result of rape is because those men that commit the act are low consciousness and unaware/ignorant of how, or just unwilling to fulfill the need in a healthy, legal, consensual way. They are simply fulfilling the need, regardless of cost. Must people won't admit it, but we are all capable of some pretty terrible things. If you're starving dangerously for food or water, and sense death is knocking at your door, you probably wouldn't think too much about killing someone for it. It's just survival.

He seems to be way off with that prediction in my opinion. We are barely starting to see Green take a stronger hold now in the West (let alone anywhere else in the world) and look at the massive resistance it's getting. It'll be another 30 years (ie a whole new generation born/baby boomers all being dead) until we see the shift into majority Green, let alone any sort of significant Yellow. Keep in mind the possibility we could all be being fantastically naïve about this. These are solid assumptions but don't take anything for granted. Climate change, resource strain, economic/class revolts could cause a war or an equal amount of destruction that it sets us back or keeps Green/Yellow from coming back for hundreds of years. Reality is a high stakes game.

Been like a year since I posted so here is the update me!

Well, what do you really want out of life? What is that exactly, be specific. Having lots of stuff and being really comfortable isn't what you actually want (even if you think you do), because no matter how much you get you'll just keep raising the bar for how much you need to be satisfied. This is why you have the phenomena of egregiously rich people who are depressed, suicidal, and unhappy. So that's not the answer. I mean what do you want your daily life to look like, what are you doing? Who are you with? Where are you? Does this cost a lot of money to more or less reach the place where those things are a daily reality for you? If so then yes, getting some money is important. If not, no. The important thing to remember is money is tertiary. It's never the most important thing. Resources are what you use FOR everything else in life, you don't use life for resources.

Whatever happens we'll have to learn to play nice or straight up capitulate to them, they will be the only game in town soon. Otherwise war is inevitable.

Judging, worrying, and trying to control how other people express their love and what kind of relationships they get into is a huge ego game, and an even bigger distraction from doing your own inner personal work. If someone wants multiple partners and it's all consensual, good on them! If someone is happy spending their life with the first person they meet, good on them! If someone wants a same sex relationship, good on them! Mind your own bloody business and work on your own happiness. Maybe society is deteriorating from polygamy, who cares? Maybe it's the inevitable evolution of things, and the result of a free society expressing itself? Regardless it's completely out of your control, panicking and resisting reality will only lead to suffering. Reality is literally perfect as it is and exactly as it should be. Accept it.

This is one of the drawbacks of the internet - information is so abundant and easily manipulated, and individuals have the freedom to create or pursue the depths of whatever rabbit-holes they like, crystallizing their own biases. People have always believed crazy things, but now the audiences are much more engaged and nobody has to bother listening to conflicting worldviews if they don't feel like it, unlike the past news. At least before the limited public media sphere made it harder to espouse such insanity without major backlash. All par for the course though, it's evolution, baby!

Maybe, it would be nice, but this work is vastly too abstract. There are so many complexities, tricks, and counter-intuitive pieces that it feels like an infinite spider web in the mind going in all possible directions. Nothing feels simplistic and "factual". Rather there are just lots of aha moments as things become less foggy and more clear.

Yes it's absolutely not a country. it's just quickly vaguely drawn borders on the map by the British and their hasty retreat from being a global empire after the second world war. Based on everything you mentioned, and the glaring state of things currently. It's pretty obvious things will never significantly better in the near, or even long term future. Even if all the political, economic, and social issues magically cured themselves, the area is going to get fucking ravaged by climate change. Look at a city right now like Basrah. It's already going through near unlivable temperatures of 50C through almost half the year. This is only going to get worse too, it's unstoppable. I'd do all you can to move somewhere and find a better life my friend. Be safe.

A little trick; make sure you have to pee somewhat before sex (but not too bad it's uncomfortable). You'll last a very long time.

Reduce your nutella toast to a little ritual. How about from now on you only eat nutella once every sunday morning. That way you get your fix and it's something to look forward to. Only eat it in the morning on that day as a treat and ONLY then.

Heavily.

Don't waste your time getting into Amazon FBA or any of that bullshit. It's massively oversaturated and it's the equivalent of scalping or running a pawn shop. You offer nothing of real value to society. Just buying and reselling goods and products other people made at a higher price. Go to trade school and learn a real skill. You're going to be grinding endless hours for little reward with Amazon now. That gold rush has passed already.

We are in a pandemic so yeah approaching strangers in close proximity isn't the wisest thing. Don't think with your dick. There will be plenty of chances in life to approach in the future.

I know it might be an area of your life you want to fix or improve on, but perhaps now with the pandemic in it's worst moments it isn't the time to be committing to such a course? On top of it pushing your finances to the edge as you mentioned, you might not even be able to get the most out of what you're paying. People are going out less, bars and clubs are closed in many places, and it's not as socially acceptable to get close to people in public. I'd exercise some patience until summer my friend. Maybe just satisfy yourself the best you can with online dating right now, and meet people irl from those so you can arrange Covid friendly dates.

That tells you what you need to know. You have not fully moved past this if these feelings are coming up after that long.

Contemplate and appreciate this for a moment; 80 years ago our grandparents were forced to drop their entire lives to go overseas and fight in a war and probably die horrifically for people they've never met, and they barely complained. The government now is simply asking people to wear a cloth mask and to take a flu shot so millions don't needlessly die, yet people are whining grotesquely that they are being crushed under an authoritarian boot. Think about the absurdity of the selfishness going on here. We truly are some spoiled brat generations.

The first thing is you can't be thinking the thought, "I'm a creep, this will be weird." If that is in your mind you are already fucked. Breathe and train yourself so you have control over what thoughts come into your mind.

Men and women can only be friends if the pressures in the social circumstances they're in dictates that they cannot or should not be in any kind kind of intimate relationship, hell even that sometimes doesn't stop people! Otherwise, no men and women cannot be platonic friends. In my personal life and experiences I've seen a near 90% failure rate in that if men and women are "just friends" long enough, eventually one of them caves and starts to get feelings for the other, whether reciprocated or not doesn't matter. It just takes one person to have those feelings to corrupt the integrity of the label we are using here. There are probably even more men/women friendships that look platonic on the outside but in the minds of one or the other sexes are some sort of desire or plan for future intimate possibilities. You have to keep in mind here that it's literally a fight against the very powerful force of our biology. Most people can't win that fight reliably enough which is understandable. I don't want to get anyone triggered here. I'm not saying it's impossible for men and women to be friends. I just think it's a lot rarer than we realize. Hell, I've had great girl friends before. But it might have been the social group we were in that made the potential of getting together unthinkable, or maybe they had feelings that they never expressed and I just didn't consider it because I wasn't into them. Hard to know. I'll just say generally no they can't, but there can be exceptions.

Don't let Leo fill your head with fantastical pre-requisites for dating dude. You don't need to live in a busting metropolis burning $2800 a month on rent just to be able meet women, that's fucking absurd LOL. You want to be moving somewhere you'd enjoy working and living first and foremost, it's of central importance actually. Moving somewhere just because of the dating/pick-up game is just pure stupidity, unless it's your literal job to be a dating/relationship coach. Any city with 75K-ish+ people will do. That's potentially thousands/tens of thousands of women to meet. There are women all over man. It's half our damn species. If you really want them they aren't hard to find no matter where you are and what your situation is.

Wow what a tremendous distraction that was! Excuse me while I go back to sitting in a dark room for 4 hours.

Because the idea of it offers something exciting in a modern life where we are relatively extremely safe.

Yiiiiiiiiiiiiiikes. Yea man, if she's still doing something like that at 28 this is not something that's going to be good long term. Judging from all the posts I've read from you, you can definitely do better than her mate. Don't let yourself sink on the crazy ship, jump off.

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It's a physical response yes, but not physical attraction. She isn't attracted to him (his body), she attracted to his social status.