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Non-profits DO care about profit and ARE extremely competitive amogst themselves. The distinction between charity and "normal business" is also not clear, because it's always about survival value. And it's always funded by someone. The only difference is they just don't hold onto their profit at the end of the year. Non-profits are usually weak compared to for-profit firms, unable to compete with them. And so why don't they reinvest more? Because having shareholders is more competitively valuable than reinvestment. Where is that initial capital boost going to come from? If it's comes from shareholders or banks, that's just a for-profit corporation. If it comes from donations or government grants, that's essentially just a non-profit. None of which get us anywhere new. No one is going to give your business free money, it's going to have to come from somewhere. And those that give it to you will expect something in return. No amount of utopian, alt-economics will change this.

@Davino you are essentially just describing non-profits. Those already exist, and they cannot outcompete the current capitalist system. If firms could just reinvest their surplus into the company, many of them would do that. The problem is they can't. They need capital from shareholders. Survival is the bottleneck. Not structure. Structure bends around survival.

@Lord Kadaver cut it off clean.

@Shermaningeorgia Heal your wounds with women. Your anger is obvious.

I wouldn't worry about measuring your results. Just focus on breaking down your nights deeply after you go out. You could journal, talk about it or just contemplate. Whatever way you like best to process. But spend a lot of time making sense of your interactions. You'll naturally adjust as you see your mistakes.

Happy holidays everyone.

@AION You can do things like ENM or swinging if you really feel like your sex drive is that high. But to be honest, I think you're fooling yourself a bit here. Dropping out of dating is not a solution to having a really high sex drive.

Exactly this. Just declaring yourself a solipsist does not mean you understand God or what solipsism is.

@Butters not "obedient". You don't need or want a slave. That will quickly become tyrannical.

Good SD Green take.

@Insightful27 you could look into Peter Ralston. World class martial artist and spiritual teacher that combines both.

Democrats have been smoking republicans in elections.

Very debatable. We'd need to narrow the claim rather than discussing all of "modern society". Modern society is a hodgepodge of sexual repression, liberalism and hedonism. Some people need liberation, some need constraints.

It's fine as far as helping people overcome sexual repression. But being too liberal about sex is not good. Sex requires constraints.

@Valach Good question. The most important thing is that you are not excessively needy, NOT that you actually date 10 women. Just knowing that you have the skills to go out and meet someone if you choose is usually enough. Get a reasonable amount of success with women under your belt and have a larger vision for your life. Don't get stuck thinking about any one woman until the actual time comes for commitment, keep going out. Obviously at some point if you want a LTR, you will have to be more emotionally invested. But this is not a problem as long as it doesn't cross a threshold. There's no easy answer to where that threshold is, you just have to use your head. If you're staying centered on your larger vision and the relationship is strong, that's a sign you've probably not crossed it.

"Not possible" is too strong. But yes, it will likely make it harder. You are going to be spending more time doing survival, since you will have more responsibilities.

The idea that knifes are as powerful as guns for mass killing is an excuse. If knifes were that powerful, we would have never evolved guns. Militaries and police use guns because they are superior killing tools. Guns outcompeted knives.

The fact that you know the exact number of approaches you've done tells me you're likely taking a hyper-logical approach. Are you having fun when you approach? Do you smile and laugh a lot? It's going to be harder for you than some other guys. Can you still meet someone? Yes. But be mindful of your expectations.

Then you got to find a solution to why cold approach isn't working for you. Forget about Tinder for a while and purely focus on that. Do you need different venues to go out? Do you need to move cities? More theory? Approach anxiety? A different style? Where is the biggest place you're struggling with cold approach?

@pablo_aka_god it sounds like you’re not catching serious momentum with cold approach. If you were doing well with cold approach, you would forget all about Tinder.

@Zenterus good stuff. There are definitely tradeoffs to being direct. And directness is definitely a spectrum, not a binary. Some situations require more directness, some less. You should be able to hit the gas and the brakes just as easily.

@CARDOZZO never had any luck with any of that. And I tried a lot. The closest thing I get to an OBE is an altered-dream state that happens on nights with poor sleep. The dreams are hyper-lucid and hyper-real in terms of imagery and emotions. Sometimes there are messages for me, where I feel like I'm tapped into a deeper level of my mind. I will often be flying, jumping huge distances or falling.

Lol. Belongs in the conformity examples mega-thread.

"...I made 5 professional, feature length films" he whispers as he closes his eyes and makes his ascent

@Artsy value is survival value. Just ask yourself: "what would help her survive?". That question will explain everything.