hamedsf

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  1. it's not about robing freedom, it's about energy consumption.

    if you go through the motions, it means that you consume much lesser energy and when you want to make a change in the system, you consume more energy to make that change happen. so changing something inside is out of habit and autopilot behavior so expect the feeling of being inconvenient while your doing something new because it's energy consumer until it takes fixed form as a new habit!

     

     


  2. Most of the time, masculinity is better choice to attract women so yeah, embrace that fucking power!

    And remember masculinity isn't forcing somebody or...

    Try to get the real sense of what true masculinity means... 

    For example, invulnerability and being emotionally strong, is one of the characteristics of masculinity...

     


  3. is it good or bad? 

    is it positive or negative?

    should I do this or not?

    are all the white and black or binary questions which could be imposed from others perspectives  while there are no absolute right perspective. it's related to individual's brain or EGO, remember there's no accounting for taste!! 

    if you like it and it's your passion to pursue findom or whatever you call it, do it full-heartedly! 

    speaking for myself,  I prefer playing the game of status and love to be an alpha male! 


  4. You can share your value free or sell it with money, it's totally up to you.

    if you're getting money in any value you provide to people, you shouldn't feel guilty about it, because it's yours after all.

    you can be a professional self-transcended but simultaneously managing a lucrative business

    you can have a business which has both free services and premium services.

    in case of LEO, he provides free valuable insights on Youtube and at the same time he has life purpose course, consultation service, booklist

    but at the end of the day, it's you who will decide what to do with his materials, because the journey of self-actualization is that you realize your own free will and you take the option which suits you the most!


  5. Remember, Addiction first happens in your brain. but sometimes quiting social media could be the only way to get rid of things. 

    our brain wants to socialize and if you ban every possibility of being social, your brain will find a way to socialize...

    but again, keeping awareness power while even doing trivial stuff will make you quit of that trivial automatically!

     


  6. This type of writing may seem like a command for Leo, but not at all, I request him to elaborate on more down-to-earth subjects. 

    eventhough, metaphysical subjects gives us pleasure while watching it and contemplating but we as humans need more practical stuff.

    I think material and immaterial subjects should keep their own balance 50/50 

    but at the end of the day, it's Leo who will decide what to do and anyways, Thanks for his advanced and marvelous works! 


  7. awkward? better to say, utterly magnificent! 

    Sex isn't the basic need or normal thing like drinking water or eating food, it's the explosion of cosmic energy!!!

    GOD fucks itself and it's amazing that from nothing, two things fucks each other!

    Love Sex is the shortcut for healing because as you're having sex with somebody, at that moment, you feel no boundary between you and that person and you feel that truth for a while.

    Enlightened people have the deepest and profound understanding of all people, and their sex would seem like enormous times better.

     


  8. Meditating on the rock? hahaha what a ridiculous idea! 

    you're meditating to focus on your inside and you impose yourself to the rock and you'll wind up focusing on the external thing instead of meditation!!

    meditation is a practice which should be comfortable and convenient to forget about the external things and turn inwards, therefore any position that suits you is the best!

    although we could say that meditation in and of itself could be painful for majority of people because they don't want to be in their inside, in the darkness. that's the real pain not the pain from the cushion or a rock! :PxD 


  9. 11 hours ago, Shin said:

     

    How to muster this energy if you ejaculate on the sheet several time a week though ? 9_9

    if you mean masturbation, I think it's spoiling the reward center of the brain.

    this energy could only be mastered by finding real partners and have sex with them, the reward in the brain will be the real reward. 

    I'll elaborate more and investigate further about this subject in the future.


  10. 5 hours ago, Buba said:

    If your priority is not being in the now, but be in the future to fulfill your desires, then you are hindering the transformation.

    attention should be in the present moment, nothing against it but even the future is the present moment when I'll fulfill my desires.  imagine you're in the freezing cold and you're dripping wet! it's really difficult to be present while you're feeling freezing cold outside and shivering ( but you try to be present meanwhile) , but you have the desire to go inside a cottage to warm yourself up with the blazing fire in the fire place. if you delay the process and not to go inside your cottage, the difficulty will grow to be present, but finally you step in the house and you feel comfy and find it much easy to be present.

     


  11. 51 minutes ago, Truth Addict said:

    @mindcentral

    The main difference between thinking and working is that thinking is energy-efficient. Meaning that it doesn't require a lot of energy in order to think.

    Now, see, that's a problem. Because that then allows the thoughts to overdrive themselves and get out of control, and the worst thing is that they usually become addictive, and therefore they enslave most of us. While physical tiredness is easily noticed and difficult to hide.

    Thoughts are like cancer. It starts with one cell, and then it divides itself chaotically into billions of other cells, which then sneakily start to suck all of your energy.

    With the little energy you have after long days of thinking, you are more likely to not be focused, and get irritated so easily. So, thoughts go unnoticed and things get out of control. That's why having a quiet mind is the way to happiness.

    It's way easier to watch/monitor/supervise 5 employees than a 100.

    NİCE EXPLANATİON! WELL DONE!


  12. people don't want to accept the fact that all perspectives are relative. right-wing, left-wing, republican, democrat and...

    they are amused by playing the argument game and they don't want to wake up to the fact that there's a possibility of spiral dynamics and also they can even evolve to more upper levels.

    if majority of people in the world would take a close interest in self-actualization, how would the world be like in that case? but how many people in the world actually know about self-actualization? the number of people who don't know about it are far more than the people who show a great interest in self-actualization. as a matter of fact, incomparable!

    accept the very fact that very minority of people will take the right path and the majority would be stuck in their own perspectives/beliefs/perceptions.

    accept that changing is difficult for the EGO, very few people are open to new things, it requires meta-cognition which is rare among common people!!

    don't even force the process, I think even two guys are enough to start off! 

    GOOD LUCK!


  13. the nature of reality is somehow indescribable, but we can have an insignificant understanding of what really occurs:

    you're GOD imagining "HER" and all the things that she sees before HER eyes, this forum, ME writing an answer to HER ( with Courtney username ) 

    the problem of understanding arises when you haven't fully experienced yourself without your body, and when I'm telling you, you are GOD, you think that your EGO is GOD, the one who thinks has the body and identity ( your EGO grasps the meaning and possesses the stage of GOD and thinks it's GOD )

    I don't say EGO isn't the part of GOD, everything is GOD, but when EGO occupies the understanding of GOD and what is really beyond it, it makes you bewildered and inhibits your wisdom to fully grasp it

    GOD has the power to lock itself down to many perspectives by creating innumerable EGOS, your EGO, my EGO and his EGO, her EGO and ... create a sense of self in every living being, you see the infinite power? it can experience separatenesstimes without number. haha

    at the end of the day, everybody should experience the reality directly by determined practices and explanations could go on and on without ending...

    P.S: i should warn you that these teaching shouldn't be mixed with nihilistic teachings at all!!!