hamedsf

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    I don't care how good you are with texting or even conversation in real life.
    if she's attracted, she'll help you in texting or conversation in real life. if not, even the most god-like conversationalist skill will not make her talk to you.  
    plus, don't waste your time online, go out and find girls in your community, social circle, or public places. 

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    conversation with girls ain't that hard. don't think that you need a system, method or technique to have a good conversation with women.

    like if you're talking with her for the first time superficial stuff is enough, like you can talk about the weather and then link it to her favorite season or month of the year or guess which season she looks like to be born in and then from there, you can stretch out and connect it to her favorite activities and you can ask her favorite hobbies or interesting fashion styles and as you can see you can bring up just one topic and you see there could be many branches and you can talk for hours. 

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    well, that's a very hard place to be in but remember you're not going to have a good time going completely cold turkey and in fact without those garbages. 

    depression feelings will kick in for sure but you gotta know that depression comes from a backlash of your ego system trying to take you back to the previous dysfunctional pattern. you might even feel depressed for a month or two but remember that's the path that you need to go down to have a functional life.

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    bear in mind that no fap will have its ups and downs and it might lower the quality of your productivity too. 

    sex is the most essential need for us human beings, especially for men to the point that if you don't do it for a while, it'll knock on the door of your mind constantly to make you do take action about it. that's the sneaky part of biological survival!

    so focus on getting laid for now or if your situation doesn't let you take bold actions, temporarily beat the meat but eventually you have to do something about it.

     

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    dating and attraction is like math, if a problem solved easily, it means that you've solved it in the wrong way. 

    of course, you can improve your talking and flirting skills with women on that site but NEVER EVER expect a date from there.

    she's one person and literally hundreds of  guys messaging her left and right, do you think she'd not get distracted when talking to you?

    you might feel that you're unattractive just because you can't get results with it. 

    hitting on a girl in your social circle or cold approaching is ultimately the best option if you improve your flirting skills on dating sites. 

     

  23. Posted

    look, all spiritual teachers are gonna contradict themselves because the law of this universe made out of contradictions and paradoxes.

    I don't mean to justify some shady teachers out there that contradict themselves and change their words on a daily basis. 

    but what I mean actually is that for all spiritual teachers it's natural to do so and don't forget to see things through and distinguish in what "context" the "caring" or another term is used.

    like for example, in meditation, you let go and basically you don't care about anything but as soon as you come out of meditation, you star to care to accomplish some tasks or provide help to your family.