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And she has the audacity to blame me for being mechanical and too technical all the while she can't do shit without her procedures and rule books. It is projection at best. A good therapist doesn't project and for that to be the case she has to be spiritual. This work is just way above her head which is sad because it is the blind leading the blind. At least I have the resources to save myself while others don't have that luxury.

I told her I fell in love with a girl and I told her that I actually found a part of myself in her. In other words I project my love onto her. After hearing that she told me I was a “little out there”. I have a good click with this therapist but she is not spiritual so she doesn’t understand where I come from. Do you think I should change my therapist? Often I have to censor myself because I’m afraid she won’t understand me. Trying to find a spiritual therapist is very difficult. I have already had 7-8 therapist and none were spiritual. Psychology and spirituality are close fields but it seems there aren’t many therapists that are into spirituality.

The ego is very clever. Thanks for pointing out this blind spot. This is exactly the case but I didn't see it. What do you want to know more about? I opened this thread on the value of close mindedness accompanied by open mindedness but people just aren't interested. I'm going to share far less on this forum. This forum isn't as enlightened as you think.

Unfortunately not a lot of people responded to this thread so I did my own introspection. My need to be understood comes from ego. Desires of the ego are endless. It is a hole without a bottom. I have tried to exhaust my ego needs. It can’t be exhausted. Trust me. Talking to people about it only builds the ego further. For example if you have addiction to chocolate. Just binging on it doesn’t make it go away. It just means you binged, doubled down, and strengthened it.

I'm only human. I only have so many fucks to give.

I advice yourself to get out of your house and put yourself in difficult situations to test your “love” ?

So whose fault is it in the eyes of Syrians? Are people blaming the government or the west? What about Arab countries? Why aren’t they helping Syria?

From my exp this is true.

Most people froze to death under the rubble. Seems like an awful slow death.

Conversation becomes very random with free association. Perhaps I’m doing it wrong. I don’t know. But from my exp it is kind of weird. I try to be more natural speaker. I don’t want to come off as forced. If I have to chose between a forced conversation and no conversation, I prefer the latter.

That is weird

I have trouble with this too now I think about it. I expect the girl to do 50% of the talking. The very hot girls don't put in this effort. It is more like 20%/80% to her/me talking. Is there a secret to maintaining a conversation or is it just pure experience? If I'm in a good mood, I don't have trouble with small talk. I guess big part of it is being in a good state, letting the field doing the work instead of the ego. But there is definitely a technical aspect to maintaining flow which I need to work on.

People respect different things so it is kind of weird these words are tossed around like they are some universal values. Relationships are based on value exchange and people value different things. With some people, acting nice will cause them to disrespect you because they see this as a weakness. Other people see niceness as a value and respect you. Popular people already have a bunch of respect from their surrounding so they value other things. They value you being edgy. What people value the most is authenticity. People don’t like fake people. So if you are an ass just own it. If you are a saint own it. But don’t pretend otherwise. In the same way we don’t like fake money, we don’t like fake people.

Some dudes on this forum need to take couple of boxing classes and need their face punched in to know what life is really about. The 5 MeO DMT has zonked them out to their mind.

It is a real pleasure to listen to him after a long meditation session. Such a soothing voice to listen to when you are blissed out. The man has no ego. Nothing to prove. No tantrums or hissy fits. Just LOC800 vibes and chill. What books do you recommend? He has some but some are vague. I don't want to read all of his books, perhaps 1-2..

A healthy male is somebody who is polarized to healthy female energy. He is made in the image of God. He is the medium between heaven and earth. An animal capable of destruction but has tamed his inner animal. Capable both in word and action. Capable of sacrifice for love at the expense of short term gratification.

@Nilsi Peterson is spot on about mythology and how both science and mythology is important. Brothers are trying to reinvent the wheel while a lot of answers can be found in mythology.

Pick up is sub communication. The words are just the cherry on top of the sub communication. Most important insight I had with dating is that girls mostly listen to your sub communication. By it she knows if you want to just dick her down and leave or if you like her and want more. Most of the time you don’t even have to provide a lot of good energy if you are oke looking. Just not begging for pussy and asking approval or something is more than enough to get your foot between the door.

Tate is not a fan of pickup. He said it multiple times. He says you should just introduce yourself and demonstrate value as a man.

MDMA is the best from my experience. Pound your heart chakra with that prana. Let your body to the work.

He is Christian as far as I know. His book maps of meaning explains his religious / spiritual / mythological views on life.

@Kid A Women were always selfish because they have to for them and their offspring to survive. They are the gate keepers. Peterson explains it very well in this video:

@Yog geometry means location in 3D space