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It is because of the esoteric knowledge that Jews have. The most important factor is that Jews have their own education and they don't allow non-Jews to enter these schools. These schools are very different than mainstream schools were they learn people to be sheeps. The Jews believe they are not sheeps, they are the chosen people. Especially the Kaballah is worth studying. It is a systematic approach to self development.

@Danioover9000 you might be right. I just came across Andrew Tate's program called "Iron mindset": it is very good actually. I'm surprised how good the program is. ? Andrew Tate was a guy with a difficult poor upbringing. Would he be Andrew Tate today if he was spoiled by his parents? I don't think so. Same with Leo: he had to endure too. Would we know Leo Gura today if his parents spoiled him? I'm just saying that I'm seeing a pattern. It is called FIGHTING spirit. Andrew Tate's program is gold if you lack this mindset.

Most people who are extraordinary grew up in difficult circumstances with a lot of pressure from their environments. Do you guys think that is the only way to be extraordinary? I think solving life problems successfully creates this inner diamond We all know that rich kids that got no pressure from their environment and got spoiled, have fucked up mindsets. In fact their parents spoil the future of the kids by removing all their life problems and protecting their children from real life circumstances. I always wondered if there is salvation for lazy rich kids who never had problems in their life in their youth and then be expected to be grown adults instead of grown ass children. Some rich kids (who become adults) fuck it up so hard that they go broke and end up in difficult life circumstances and because the lack of a powerful mindset and vision they either make or break in life. Most of the time they can’t handle life and end up as a looser or they commit suicide. I think there is a fair share of people who commit suicide are people who get spoiled or protected too much. You don’t need super rich parents to be spoiled. They don’t develop this inner diamond mindset and vision (that is crafted through overcoming life problems). They fail at becoming an adult and life becomes too hard for them to cope with reality. While people who had a hard knock life don’t have time to think about suicide; they ****’in busy surviving in life. In a sense it is better to have dysfunctional poor parents than have dysfunctional rich parents. Dysfunctional rich parents don’t expose their children to life problems and thus the children don’t have the chance to grow from them. In a sense they become grown ass children due to lack of mental and emotional development. I can clearly recognize this trait in people. My parents weren’t rich but I can recognize it somewhat in myself too. The question really is how do you unspoil yourself when you are spoiled? I knew some older female in her 50’ies and she came from a rich family. She acted like she was 12. I had deep conversations with her and I felt bad for her how her parents spoiled her future for her by spoiling her. She had problems in her personal and professional sphere. All the therapy in the world couldn’t help her. Getting something while you don’t deserve it is really the kiss of death.

@flowboy Great point. @something_else old habits are difficult to change but it is possible. Upbringing is basically which habits you get from your parents. If you get good habits you are lucky, if you get bad habits: good luck changing them. The more older you get the more difficult. Perhaps psychedelics can do some good but it can equally make things worse too.

So I took this girl out for a coffee date. I know her from the local gym. I just wanted to get to know her and coffee is perfect for the first time. So we are sitting in the restaurant and after having finished the coffee she wants alcoholic drinks. I only wanted to pay for coffee and now she wants alcoholic drinks too? I didn’t know how to deal with this situation. I just succumbed to her wishes but I’m not happy with it because I’m paying. How could I have dealt with it? I’m asking for the next time. It is not about being cheap or small price I paid. It is about my boundaries and feelings. I didn’t pull her although logistics were perfect. She had a businesss meeting and I was kind of bumped because I couldn’t establish my boundaries. It is difficult for me to hide my feelings.

Diamonds are very small and one of the toughest materials in the world. It is not comparable to iron lol.

In general, men don't care about women being sluts until they want to marry her.

I started meditation very young but I stopped doing it after a while. It is my biggest mistake.

@Harsh Bagdia thanks, that helped. I now understand how stupid my question was but it is so typical for me since I disregard direct experience for being in my head and mentally masturbating about it. I'm doing more meditation and I'm already getting a feeling for what you said. My problem is concentration which is an important component of understanding consciousness. I might have ADD or autism which makes it more difficult.

I’m curious now too lol

@kray some countries just need therapy on a collective scale but you can’t really force that on people. They will want to have it themselves. If the collective damage is done too much people will settle for their faith.

Is it culture? Or generational trauma they are trying to suppress? And can I be lead to a period? The Soviet times were hard but how was it before that? Could it all be followed back to the mongol invasion? Because some Russian soldiers (that I have seen on video) are portraying the same behavior of the mongol army.

I eat tofu once in a while and this wants to make me stop. Damn, can’t a brother eat anything anymore?

I saw some videos of Russian soldiers. It is very sad. Most people on twitter make fun of them but my heart broke.

So what can?

@FlyingLotus thanks for the summary ?

That irrelevant to the mating hierarchy.

It will give you false success and screw you up. Don't cheat the mating hierarchy.

What is the name of the program?

This video connects with this thread https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hLDr5t5Ilnw

Tate has some other programs too. I listened to some snippet and it is gold. If you are a "good guy" with no fighting spirit, his work is the way to go.

Get into sexual transmutation.

I'm seeing so much progress since this. Raising my consciousness through meditation and focusing on the heart rather than the head (establishing brain-heart connection) changed stuff within myself. Self-(Love) is really the magic elixir.

I decided to start a journal on my pickup journey. I started this journey about 5 weeks ago. With night game I had some experience but with day game I was totally new. In this 5 weeks I went from being fearful from just saying "hi, what is up?" to having whole conversations. My approach anxiety decreased considerably but I still do have some. Especially when talking to real hotties (9/10's). Talking to 7/8's is no problem.

It is true that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Adversity is good if it doesn't bring chronic wounds to the soul. With psychedelics it can actually be fixed. But if you never used your adversity muscles it is even worse but it could be my bias.