StarStruck

This forum has a huge stage green bias. I’m not going to play along with that. I gravitate at stage yellow but I have some gaps at the lower stages that I’m working at.

Fair enough. Even if they gossip I don’t engage. It is called contemplation. You are acting like you figured it all out. ?

We all need a brother like Andrew Tate.. Can't have him around and not conquer life

Consistency over perfection. Just do it. “He who has a why to live for can bear almost any how.” ― Friedrich Nietzsche.

Most guys on this forum lack a healthy SD orange so I'm considered towards these guys on the forum. I sense a lot of feminized SD green vibes so it makes sense they go out with the girls to gossip and shit.

I contemplated this topic and I discovered that I’m a little bitter towards women. I got ignored by some of my dates. The women that I want want confident men. And the women that want me are too old or not attractive enough for me. Or they have a bf. So understandably I got a little bitter towards women. From my point of view they don’t accept me who I’m and they don’t have compassion towards my emotional baggage. Now I can be bitter about or get better. Im trying to get better but I’m only human and my feelings were hurt by women. And these were very feminine and nice women who prefer fuckboys over me. It is what it is. Andrew Tate is right about self development because it is guys like him who have it for the choosing. He is right on that if you don’t develop yourself as a man, you are invisible to 80% of the women. And even sweet girls will treat you as trash.

I’m learning from Andrew Tate but he is not my role model. I don’t copy him 1 on 1. He has some great points on this topic though. Why court a woman and shit if she isn’t putting out. I’m ok with relationships with woman but I’m not ok with courting.

Great points. The only reason I meet up with my female friends is because of the points you summed up beautifully. But somehow it bugs me that they expect me to lead so much in the relationship. Most of the time I pay and I don’t even get the fuck. ?

Male-male dynamic is different

If you are not confident, you tend to second guess and not make mistakes. You should do the exact opposite: allow yourself to make mistakes. Failures and successes is both feedback. If you care too much it is contra-productive. Act like an unapologetic swine for a weekend and you will learn more from it than all the advice you get from this forum. And guess what? Girls will love you for it.

When it is time to sleep, you should be somewhat physically exhausted. Consider buying weight-adjustable dumb bells because jumping jacks won't cut it. This is how I manage to endure no-fap. If I don't spend my energy I would explode. Physical activity is key for me to stay clean. Also be careful what you are visualizing during the day and when laying in bed. Have an empty head (by doing meditation). If you fantasize sexual stuff, it is not weird that you have a hard time. Sins start in thought, so nib it in the bud. In my view no-fap has two components Cultivating a clean mindset through meditation and concentration on your vision Cultivating a clean body through exercise, healthy food

@Julian gabriel a lot of rappers and their kind are shit talkers and if you listen to them, you are going to inherent some of their arrogance and egotism.. You give Kanye as an example. How did being a shit talker ended up for him? The answer you are seeking is in the example you gave. Look at Taylor Swift, Michael Jackson, Madonna, Snoop Dogg, Beatles, Usher and other successful artists. What is the common denominator? Arrogance or humbleness? Confidence and arrogance are two different things. Misplaced confidence can end up as your Achilles’ heel.

Kanye West is the laughing stock of the world.

I just get horny and OCD on cannabis so I stay away from it. It is not for me.

As humans we serve somebody, what about God?

For me it was Star Wars Episode 1. I was very young and it was the first movie that left me bedazzled. That movie showed me that grandiosity of the universe and even had hints of spirituality in it.

Feminine girls like on 3:29 drive me crazy "yeAahhh" pfff

Somebody who is smarter or capable in another way, doesn’t need to prove it or constantly ruminate about it. He simple knows and doesn’t need to state it. If somebody constantly has to state “I’m the smartest”, “I’m the most enlightened person”, etc, you know he is full of something. The person who is the top dog in anything is simple silent and confident in his being.

Everything is Ain Soph Aur.

There is not 1 Jezus paradigm thought. The catholic one is very different than the gnostic one for example.

If you really feel like it you should do it. You will learn from it.

All feedback neither positive or negative should be welcomed. One should become neutral in this sense towards the feedback. I became like this when my highest value was learning, having right to my labor but not being entitled towards the fruits of my labor. From my experience. Most girls are not that bright and they really don’t know what they want in a man. So one shouldn’t listen to what she says but what she responds to and what is resonating. And that is not a reactive man but one who is grounded in his own reality. How closer you are towards reality how easier things will become.

Nice. Remember: it is important that you visualize the rewards! Feel how it will feel when you are there.

@ThePoint essentially it is about forming new habits. You have to be clear about it. So I want you to write this down in your own words: trigger: sexual urge to watch porn new habit (reaction to the trigger): formulate how many push-ups and jumping jacks you are going to do, and do it: no excuses reward: imagine about the health, wealth and girlfriend you will achieve if you continue the new habit.

What is a good source to learn it from?