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Leo for Dem Prez 2024!! Conscious Politics ftw!!! If Kanye can just declare one fine day that he wants to run for Prez even though he knows nothing about politics, why can't someone who is passionate about politics run? Leo ftw!! This forum will support you!!!

Fight Club. One of my favorites. V for Vendetta too.

@Forestluv I'm noticing something interesting here - The Stage Blue conservatives want to uphold some value (say Freedom of speech) and act according to that ideology. While, Stage Green progressives will be more pragmatic and survivalistic (in a collective sense) when it comes to applying those values in practice. The progressives will be more solution-oriented towards broader societal problems and choose which values to uphold like that, while the conservatives will be clear about what they stand for and uphold that. The potential trap for consersvatives here is a lack of broader perspective and a blind faith in their pet ideology, upholding their values without considering the broader context. However, the potential trap for progressives is an interesting one - a lack of loyalty to their true values and instead, being too pragmatic and survivalistic. This is classically demonstrated with the Trump supporter vs progressive head-to-head!

About gaslighting - the way to handle that is to gain your reality back, or getting a better grasp on the reality. The way to do that would be to inquire more into the reality of that situation, into the nature of reality itself, etc. You may have to bite the bullet and consider what they're saying with an open mind, in order to then discover the actual truth of the situation and why they're giving you the advice they're giving you. Also, look into enmeshment trauma. Stage Blue parents will try to fit their child into a mould they have for them as opposed to respecting their child's unique individuality/sense of self. The moralization, or the unfounded confidence that they are absolutely right about what they're saying comes from being stuck at Blue. The way for you to handle this would be to take more personal responsibility, move up to Orange yourself relative to those specific situations and break out of the Stage Blue control structures.

I didn't mean in a slutty way. My bad for not being clear about this. Don't objectify yourself! If you're prone to doing that, work on personal safety and boundaries with men first.

If you look at it from the perspective of wanting to attract a man, being sexualized is a good thing! You want a man to look at you and say 'I want to check her out.' I'd suggest you release your resistance to that and take in the experience of being desired by men. I understand that objectification is a problem. If you're using the word 'sexualized' in that sense, that's a safety issue which is completely understandable. I'd suggest you do shadow-work around safety, boundaries and having men respect your boundaries. If you're able to trust men to respect your boundaries, the male attention you get won't feel so unsafe. It'll feel nice to be desired by them! Maybe embodying your femininity and having more feminine power, being more deliberate with your feminine expression would also help. This may include doing makeup and wearing dresses according to your authentic feminine expression as opposed to following norms. You'll have more control over what it is about you that men pay attention to, you'll be able to deliberately bring them in that way. This will do good things for you in dating, especially when it comes to pulling in the right guy.

@soos_mite_ah There's one potential trap that shy girls could fall into - coming across as a mom. That is actually the opposite of hot or sexy. If you were raised to be this 'good girl', you may have issues coming across as hot. 'Good girls' have been raised to be a good mom, so they will have this motherly energy of 'I'll take care of you'. From what I know, coming across as a mom is a control strategy that women use to try to get a guy to commit to them. The problem with this is that guys who will be attracted to you will not be the ones who will approach you, they'll be shy nice-guys themselves! That's why you won't get approached. The strong, self-respecting men don't want a mom, they want a hot girl to bang. They're the ones who will make the approach. Then, once the relationship progresses, you can offer him your love and he'll receive it. I'm aware I may be coming across as harsh right now. I'd suggest you practice surrendering and letting go of control, working on trust issues with men. Maybe daddy issues. As you surrender more and enter more of a receptive space, high-quality men will find that attractive. You can let them handle the rest then!

Of course there's more to the relationship than sex! Having said that, sex is what differentiates a platonic friendship from a romantic relationship, right? It's pretty darn important and if you're having jealousy problems, even more so.

I know what I'm talking about. All emotional needs a woman has from you can be met through sex, or flirting, or in the sexual context. From protection, to being desired for who she is, to being led by you, to safety, to whatever. The trick is to create a sexual experience for her that's emotionally fulfilling. I know, it sounds too good to be true, but I do know it's possible. Haven't actualized it yet, but I'm on track doing it. There is no end to how good you can get in bed! Sex is literally limitless. It is primarily a man's game in hetero relationships. There's dimensions to it that are relatively unexplored and can be very healing.

If you're an average guy, yes. The average guy doesn't need a lot from a woman. If the sex is good, you go out once a week, you'll be happy! That's all the average guy/girl wants from a relationship. If you want an emotionally safe and connected relationship though, that's a different story. Then, you won't be happy with the average person. Then, you yourself won't be an average person! There's a reason why emotionally connected relationships aren't the norm - Most people don't really care about it.

Yeah but the point is to take responsibility for her sexual satisfaction, so you're taking away her reasons to cheat on you. You're more secure in the relationship and you won't be so jealous anymore. You will have more confidence with women in general. Even if this specific one does cheat on you, the next time you'll find a higher-quality woman! You'll be able to keep her next time.

Politics has turned into a new entertainment now. There's a big problem with this. When you watch a movie, or you watch an entertainment, you want to see a bloody battle on the screen. It is entertaining to see the hero and the Bond-villain have a knife-fight! (This is something very few people will articulate but it's true ) What happens when you start to see politics that way and you start to market it that way? What happens is that people start getting entertained when they see some battle on TV, like the US bombing another country, or a Presidential race. This is catastrophic. It means that people will start to favor Stage Red leaders more because they're entertaining and because they'll be disruptive, they'll do something crazy, they'll give them some blood on TV! What's worse, is that they'll start to see Stage Yellow leaders such as Obama as boring, lukewarm, consensus-driven, non-polarizing, non-controversial people when in reality, you need consensus and integration of perspectives to have a peaceful and functional democracy. You need the boring person to be your President so that he does the work that needs to be done and brings your democracy to a state of order and functionality. This is the problem with a Stage Orange demographic. It is very emotionally difficult for a Stage Orange person to see this, appreciate this and vote responsibly.

Just do what you have to in order to survive. It will make you stronger, it will not fuck you up. If you can be an alpha male/top dog in a competitive environment, that doesn't hurt! I'd suggest you just do that for now. Once you do that and you do achieve success, or you do get a certain degree of confidence, or you do become the top dog as you want to, then you have the power to change that environment. Then, you can decide to either change your environment and leave, go to a more peaceful environment, or lead the growth of your environment into a more peaceful and co-operative one. If you see that this environment isn't receptive to your attempts at changing it, you can leave that environment and practice setting up relationships where there's the win-win, or where it's not just every man for himself, it's more co-operative where everyone's working towards a common goal, everyone's genuinely on each other's side. That's how you solve the issue of distrust and create relationships where people trust each other.

I have spent a couple hundred bucks on dating apps. They are an utter waste of time. Don't even try! Most dating apps/coaches have an audience/user-base of desperate and lonely people. The problem with this is that the success-rate of them will be slim to nothing. They don't make money by offering real value, they make money by scamming the desperate and lonely. I'm sorry, that's just what I think. Dating products are a scam, at least in today's world. Most people are clueless about relationships. There's only one real way forward, that is to do inner work and work on your own life. Step into your life purpose and express yourself authentically in the world. That's the only real way a relationship can be sustained. This stuff will be important to sustain the relationship, even if you happen to meet a woman by accident.

@Heaven If your sex is good, you'll be fine. Satisfy her sexually. Get good in bed.

I notice this logical inconsistency in the way people deal with conspiracy theories. On one hand, you say that 'Oh well, they're just ridiculous nonsense, they're just some fringe nutcases' and you laugh at them. On the other hand, you try to actively suppress them and say they're toxic, they're damaging, they're the devil basically. Question 1 - Why the fear if they're false? Do you not believe that the truth ultimately wins? Do you not believe that if you're right and they're wrong, they will die out themselves? Question 2 - How do you plan to face your fear of them? If you don't go down the rabbit hole and investigate with an open mind, they will just continue to be this etherial unknown that will haunt you, right? Why hold on to the uncertainty of whether they're true or false? How does the uncertainty help you? Before you tell me they're irrelevant, they're absolutely not irrelevant. If they were irrelevant, you wouldn't fear them.

Going through all of this trouble to suppress them reeks of fear.

I've noticed this interesting phenomenon that happens with Stage Orange materialists - they tend to be nihilistic. There's this big trend where people generally have this 'Meh' attitude or 'I don't give a fuck' attitude towards everything. It's like nothing motivates them, nothing excites them, they tend to take everything for granted and this plunges them into nihilism where they start to believe that everything is pointless and meaningless. They are in their rational mind, chasing material pleasure and material success. In the later stages of Orange, when hedonism doesn't work because of hedonic adaptation, they start to see that pleasure is meaningless. Then, they start to look for meaning in survival. They'll come up with all sorts of weird stories, like 'Humanity will die in 200 years. We must save humanity from this threat!!!' and look for meaning there. What they don't realize is that there is nothing meaningful about survival. Survival is not an exciting and interesting process, it is a very dumb, brute, mechanical, boring, grindy process. There's nothing interesting, exciting, creative about survival because the ego is an illusion. (which they don't see yet) The issue here is that they think they don't feel any emotions, when this isn't the case. The primary emotion they feel is apathy. There will be some serious monsters under those floorboards. When you see those, then you move up the spiral into Green. Then life starts to become meaningful all of a sudden because you discover that other people exist! Has Leo made a video on this? The 'I don't give a fuck' attitude that's very popular these days deserves a video of it's own.

I've faced this. Personally, what helped me was to integrate Blue and Orange and to integrate more with the environment I found myself in. As someone who is more conscious than your environment, you have much more of a shot at doing this than someone who is lesser conscious than their environment!

The reason I ask this question is - Say I say something along the lines of 'The sun doesn't exist' and I build a logically cohesive ideology around it. What would you do? You'd laugh at me, you'd let me say whatever craziness I want to and you'd move on. No matter how logically cohesive. I focus on making it logically cohesive to successfully brainwash the dumbest people who have no critical thinking skills. Will I succeed? Absolutely not. Even the stupidest people will see through that. What if I pointed at Michael Phelps and said 'That's a bad swimmer'. You'd do the same. You'd laugh at me and you'd move on. Note here that I'm saying something negative about another person in this case. It's absurdly false and it's negative. If you think conspiracy theories are so absurdly false, why is it then that you give them importance and you try so hard to stop them? Wouldn't you just laugh at them and ignore them? Say you're a corporation and someone says something absurdly false and negative about you. If you set your ego aside, what would your first rational reaction to that be? To ignore it. If you're fighting it, my question to you, then, would be 'What are you hiding? If you have nothing to hide, why are you trying to suppress them?'

Since you've brought up conspiracy theories - Out of curiosity, why is the mainstream so scared of conspiracy theories? They can just stay on the fringes, right? Why is everyone trying to hard to suppress them?

I'm not 100% yellow-turquoise. I don't know for sure, but I don't think it's possible. Yellow and turquoise are about being, while Tier-1 is about action and doing in the world. If you notice all the collectives in the world right now, none of them are at Tier-2. All of them are at Tier-1. This is because in order for a collective to come together, there must be some sort of collective material objective or goal! Human beings are 3D oriented materialistic creatures and if we don't have a collective material goal, our individual materialistic agendas will take us away from each other and the collective will dissolve. What you can work on though is having a core of Yellow/Turquoise and play the Tier-1 game of survival and action from that space.

@RedLine As you grow and mature through life, different facets of life come up. You may be stuck at the lower stages in those areas, while you may have grown pretty far in other areas in your earlier life. I think for the people you're mentioning, they're at a different position in life today than they were in their teens and twenties. Now, as they have kids and they see that they're the role-models for future generations and it's their responsibility to teach the future generations, they probably want to be able to give their kids as much individual liberty as possible. They may not be wanting to indoctrinate their kids into Stage Green SJW ideology. Going up to Green takes a lot of personal responsibility and ideally you don't want to be indoctrinated into an SJW culture, rather you want to evolve up the spiral to take collective responsibility later in life. This is why they will focus on personal responsibility and creating a society that empowers the individual. This is probably even higher than Green, where they're integrating lower stages and going into Spiral wizardry. Maybe they're not at Green currently, maybe they're at Tier-2, i.e. Yellow and Turquoise. At Tier-2, you'll be able to understand your audience better and you'll be able to tell them what they need to hear with greater precision and accuracy, especially with your own personal maturity coming into play.

This is where I'll disagree with you. Currently, it is about survival only. But it could be about more than that. It could be about maximizing consciousness, love and truth.

The truth is too complicated and nuanced to articulate in beliefs. This is why I'm not pushing any beliefs, I'd rather show people what they're missing. What I see is a clear agenda to beat Donald Trump. This is a survival agenda. You want to beat Donald Trump, that is why you support this agenda. It also serves you to deny it! It's all good and fine to want to beat him and in this way, but let's call it what it is!