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Yeah but the point is to take responsibility for her sexual satisfaction, so you're taking away her reasons to cheat on you. You're more secure in the relationship and you won't be so jealous anymore. You will have more confidence with women in general. Even if this specific one does cheat on you, the next time you'll find a higher-quality woman! You'll be able to keep her next time.

Politics has turned into a new entertainment now. There's a big problem with this. When you watch a movie, or you watch an entertainment, you want to see a bloody battle on the screen. It is entertaining to see the hero and the Bond-villain have a knife-fight! (This is something very few people will articulate but it's true ) What happens when you start to see politics that way and you start to market it that way? What happens is that people start getting entertained when they see some battle on TV, like the US bombing another country, or a Presidential race. This is catastrophic. It means that people will start to favor Stage Red leaders more because they're entertaining and because they'll be disruptive, they'll do something crazy, they'll give them some blood on TV! What's worse, is that they'll start to see Stage Yellow leaders such as Obama as boring, lukewarm, consensus-driven, non-polarizing, non-controversial people when in reality, you need consensus and integration of perspectives to have a peaceful and functional democracy. You need the boring person to be your President so that he does the work that needs to be done and brings your democracy to a state of order and functionality. This is the problem with a Stage Orange demographic. It is very emotionally difficult for a Stage Orange person to see this, appreciate this and vote responsibly.

Just do what you have to in order to survive. It will make you stronger, it will not fuck you up. If you can be an alpha male/top dog in a competitive environment, that doesn't hurt! I'd suggest you just do that for now. Once you do that and you do achieve success, or you do get a certain degree of confidence, or you do become the top dog as you want to, then you have the power to change that environment. Then, you can decide to either change your environment and leave, go to a more peaceful environment, or lead the growth of your environment into a more peaceful and co-operative one. If you see that this environment isn't receptive to your attempts at changing it, you can leave that environment and practice setting up relationships where there's the win-win, or where it's not just every man for himself, it's more co-operative where everyone's working towards a common goal, everyone's genuinely on each other's side. That's how you solve the issue of distrust and create relationships where people trust each other.

I have spent a couple hundred bucks on dating apps. They are an utter waste of time. Don't even try! Most dating apps/coaches have an audience/user-base of desperate and lonely people. The problem with this is that the success-rate of them will be slim to nothing. They don't make money by offering real value, they make money by scamming the desperate and lonely. I'm sorry, that's just what I think. Dating products are a scam, at least in today's world. Most people are clueless about relationships. There's only one real way forward, that is to do inner work and work on your own life. Step into your life purpose and express yourself authentically in the world. That's the only real way a relationship can be sustained. This stuff will be important to sustain the relationship, even if you happen to meet a woman by accident.

@Heaven If your sex is good, you'll be fine. Satisfy her sexually. Get good in bed.

I notice this logical inconsistency in the way people deal with conspiracy theories. On one hand, you say that 'Oh well, they're just ridiculous nonsense, they're just some fringe nutcases' and you laugh at them. On the other hand, you try to actively suppress them and say they're toxic, they're damaging, they're the devil basically. Question 1 - Why the fear if they're false? Do you not believe that the truth ultimately wins? Do you not believe that if you're right and they're wrong, they will die out themselves? Question 2 - How do you plan to face your fear of them? If you don't go down the rabbit hole and investigate with an open mind, they will just continue to be this etherial unknown that will haunt you, right? Why hold on to the uncertainty of whether they're true or false? How does the uncertainty help you? Before you tell me they're irrelevant, they're absolutely not irrelevant. If they were irrelevant, you wouldn't fear them.

Going through all of this trouble to suppress them reeks of fear.

I've noticed this interesting phenomenon that happens with Stage Orange materialists - they tend to be nihilistic. There's this big trend where people generally have this 'Meh' attitude or 'I don't give a fuck' attitude towards everything. It's like nothing motivates them, nothing excites them, they tend to take everything for granted and this plunges them into nihilism where they start to believe that everything is pointless and meaningless. They are in their rational mind, chasing material pleasure and material success. In the later stages of Orange, when hedonism doesn't work because of hedonic adaptation, they start to see that pleasure is meaningless. Then, they start to look for meaning in survival. They'll come up with all sorts of weird stories, like 'Humanity will die in 200 years. We must save humanity from this threat!!!' and look for meaning there. What they don't realize is that there is nothing meaningful about survival. Survival is not an exciting and interesting process, it is a very dumb, brute, mechanical, boring, grindy process. There's nothing interesting, exciting, creative about survival because the ego is an illusion. (which they don't see yet) The issue here is that they think they don't feel any emotions, when this isn't the case. The primary emotion they feel is apathy. There will be some serious monsters under those floorboards. When you see those, then you move up the spiral into Green. Then life starts to become meaningful all of a sudden because you discover that other people exist! Has Leo made a video on this? The 'I don't give a fuck' attitude that's very popular these days deserves a video of it's own.

I've faced this. Personally, what helped me was to integrate Blue and Orange and to integrate more with the environment I found myself in. As someone who is more conscious than your environment, you have much more of a shot at doing this than someone who is lesser conscious than their environment!

The reason I ask this question is - Say I say something along the lines of 'The sun doesn't exist' and I build a logically cohesive ideology around it. What would you do? You'd laugh at me, you'd let me say whatever craziness I want to and you'd move on. No matter how logically cohesive. I focus on making it logically cohesive to successfully brainwash the dumbest people who have no critical thinking skills. Will I succeed? Absolutely not. Even the stupidest people will see through that. What if I pointed at Michael Phelps and said 'That's a bad swimmer'. You'd do the same. You'd laugh at me and you'd move on. Note here that I'm saying something negative about another person in this case. It's absurdly false and it's negative. If you think conspiracy theories are so absurdly false, why is it then that you give them importance and you try so hard to stop them? Wouldn't you just laugh at them and ignore them? Say you're a corporation and someone says something absurdly false and negative about you. If you set your ego aside, what would your first rational reaction to that be? To ignore it. If you're fighting it, my question to you, then, would be 'What are you hiding? If you have nothing to hide, why are you trying to suppress them?'

Since you've brought up conspiracy theories - Out of curiosity, why is the mainstream so scared of conspiracy theories? They can just stay on the fringes, right? Why is everyone trying to hard to suppress them?

I'm not 100% yellow-turquoise. I don't know for sure, but I don't think it's possible. Yellow and turquoise are about being, while Tier-1 is about action and doing in the world. If you notice all the collectives in the world right now, none of them are at Tier-2. All of them are at Tier-1. This is because in order for a collective to come together, there must be some sort of collective material objective or goal! Human beings are 3D oriented materialistic creatures and if we don't have a collective material goal, our individual materialistic agendas will take us away from each other and the collective will dissolve. What you can work on though is having a core of Yellow/Turquoise and play the Tier-1 game of survival and action from that space.

@RedLine As you grow and mature through life, different facets of life come up. You may be stuck at the lower stages in those areas, while you may have grown pretty far in other areas in your earlier life. I think for the people you're mentioning, they're at a different position in life today than they were in their teens and twenties. Now, as they have kids and they see that they're the role-models for future generations and it's their responsibility to teach the future generations, they probably want to be able to give their kids as much individual liberty as possible. They may not be wanting to indoctrinate their kids into Stage Green SJW ideology. Going up to Green takes a lot of personal responsibility and ideally you don't want to be indoctrinated into an SJW culture, rather you want to evolve up the spiral to take collective responsibility later in life. This is why they will focus on personal responsibility and creating a society that empowers the individual. This is probably even higher than Green, where they're integrating lower stages and going into Spiral wizardry. Maybe they're not at Green currently, maybe they're at Tier-2, i.e. Yellow and Turquoise. At Tier-2, you'll be able to understand your audience better and you'll be able to tell them what they need to hear with greater precision and accuracy, especially with your own personal maturity coming into play.

This is where I'll disagree with you. Currently, it is about survival only. But it could be about more than that. It could be about maximizing consciousness, love and truth.

The truth is too complicated and nuanced to articulate in beliefs. This is why I'm not pushing any beliefs, I'd rather show people what they're missing. What I see is a clear agenda to beat Donald Trump. This is a survival agenda. You want to beat Donald Trump, that is why you support this agenda. It also serves you to deny it! It's all good and fine to want to beat him and in this way, but let's call it what it is!

Damn! Look at how sure people are that there is no agenda. It's obvious to me that there is. You don't see it because it fits with your survival!

Yeah well, if you like Trump, you almost have to be a secret voter because you are the biggest enemy of the mainstream! Especially if you aren't a raving Q-Anonner but you just like Trump, you would keep quiet about your political preferences. If you are a Q-Anonner, you can tell them about it and be a part of that group. I have a feeling that this community in general grossly over-estimates the level of development of people. Leo has gotten a lot better at understanding how low their level of development is, but I still think he over-estimates it. Almost nobody studies policy! Myself included. I've never really studied any policies. My whole point of engaging in these discussions is to study collective ego behavior, which is my pet project. I mean, it's a good thing to give people the benefit of the doubt. It is respectful and appropriate, especially when you don't know for sure.

Another thing about this is that people have to desperately hold on to the belief that they have the truth and that they are right. If they don't, they would have to admit to themselves how susceptible to manipulation they actually are. People like to believe that they're right and they have it all figured out!

This whole thread is a classic example of enforcement of norms by way of ridicule! We don't have anything to back our narrative. How do we enforce it? By hand-waving away conspiracy theorists by ridiculing them!

This one is just classic though. What's interesting to me is to see conspiracy theorists laugh at the mainstream, call the mainstream paranoid about COVID! Only time will tell which side is more paranoid.

@unborn_chicken Well observed. People like to assume they're right when they're not really sure. The defensiveness is to protect themselves from gaslighting and getting swayed to the extremes, which backfires miserably.

I'm talking about the fundamental normal attitudes of people in society. I distinctly remember in 2016, the reason people voted for him. The reason I saw was that they wanted drama. They were sick of the politically correct establishment politicians who were very slick and slippery, who knew how to control crowds in a neat and orderly fashion. This hasn't changed in 2020. I can still feel like there is this pent up ball of energy that's just waiting to explode. It's like people are sick of order and they want to see some fireworks, some action! I'm talking about there being structural problems in the very mechanisms of maintaining order in general. (I'm in a really psychic mood today)

@Preety_India My mind is open to what you're saying. The reason I suspect him being a feature is that we've seen 4 full years of the Trump show without him getting impeached. It just keeps going!! The level of immunity of this guy in the system baffles me.

My point is that there's no way in hell this guy could become the President of the United States of America with a clean and functional system. You can bash him and try to beat him all you want, but if the system stays dysfunctional, there'll be another Trump in the next 4 years. It's not this guy himself who is the real problem, it's the system that enables him. If the systemic issues get resolved, Trump will be impeached tomorrow. You can say that conspiracy theorists take it to the other extreme, but 4 years of Trump must be a sign that the system is rotten to the core.

I've watched 26 minutes of it. He starts talking about 'healthy fruits and vegetables making it worse' somewhere around 25 minutes. What Leo was talking about sounded more like emotional starvation. I've experienced the exact same thing. When I looked into it (with the help of this absolute genius Teal Swan), it turned out to be unresolved childhood trauma and relationship issues. I was lonely and I needed to find a way to a connected relationship. Especially when he said he felt like it was a 'cascade of toxic chemicals' which drained him, that's what it reminded me of. He said that fruits and vegetables made it worse, right? I'll tell you what I think happened there - when you eat fruits and vegetables, your life becomes more organic and natural. Which means, you have lost resources to cope with your existing emotional dysfunctions. When you eat meat, dairy, junk and processed foods, one of the reasons it's so appealing is that it gives you the ability to cope with emotional dysfunctions. This is why you can stay in your rational mind (which is not natural for humans) and be a work-machine like you do! Maybe Leo actually just needed some rest and he needed to stop pushing himself so hard. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Cjo9YwMkTg This is an interesting perspective on chronic fatigue! I hope this helps.