BlessedLion

Damn, the East Coast is finna pop off!

Definitely. I agree as well. I have no idea what that experience is like. I guess my main point is like I said to @Miguel1 and also how @Emerald emphasized- the danger is taking on the ideology and thinking this is “just how it is” I feel like more and more men are falling into this ideology when in truth they have more options than they think, but taking on an ideology like this can guarantee you’ll stay stuck. But I can agree my perspective is biased. I don’t think it’s a healthy ideology though

Fair enough, I get it. I just think it’s really rare in life to justifiably call it quits and give up - and blackpill gives people an excuse, a community, to throw in the towel, label themselves the “undesirables”, and just watch porn and feel sorry for themselves. It’s too easy, and I think most people slip into this ideology when they have far more options. Plenty of people have gone from 0 to Hero (loser in high school, no girls) then make a name for themselves later in life and become very attractive. My point is, if they just went down the blackpill world when they were at 0 maybe they would have never tried and conquered. But yes it’s tough, and those are developmental years for sure. Side note - I agree about the intimacy, I feel I’ve also burned that for the most part and now see my sexual energy as a powerful engine that drives me forward to pursue other things.

Fine, let’s take that (very questionable) statement to be true. Okay, so I’m a literal troll who every single woman finds disgusting. Does that define my worth? Why the obsession with Women? Are there more things to life than sex? Plenty of people live powerful full lives without much attention from the opposite sex -Monks who work towards awakening -The creator of Pokémon (autistic dude who probably didn’t get any female attention) -Nikola Tesla -Pretty sure DaVinci was celibate There are other things to do in life. Maybe the problem is our hyper sexualized society and focus on dating as the be all end all of defining value. Dont get me wrong, if women were no longer attracted to me in any way I’d be upset, probably suicidal for a while, but I don’t think I’d allow it to send me into some kind of black hole hell

Hey - watch that anti semitism! Poor little Israel is just defending itself, that’s why they have to starve and shoot innocent children and women. Poor Israel, they deserve all the US sympathy , support, money and uhhh dignity

Headlines: Richest man in the world accuses his ex lover, the President of the United States, of being a pedophile *Aliens rip bong* “God damn this shit is entertaining”

How do you meet and date women? Do they just come knocking at your door in a line waiting to be anointed? There has to be some element of pursuit, especially as a man.

There you go. Working towards something higher and doing your best is success in its most real definition. Use what you’ve got and do your best with it. Will you become a millionaire Einstein Ladies man? Not likely- but that’s not what true success is. Success is doing your personal best, enjoying the ride, and being proud of yourself. You got this bro 🔥

Absolutely! There you go, thanks for being open minded about it too. Interestingly it’s when we stop caring and have fun, life seems to flow more All the best, you are loved! ❤️🙏

Good point. I also feel this is overlooked. Only caveat is when they got married he was fully committing to Vylana which he went back on by doing this. Rich or poor, high status or not, that’s a shitty thing to do and will hurt anyone involved. Their flavor of spirituality is to feel good and they love to use it to fuel and justify their desires. Pretty straightforward survival mechanism. I love how all this is framed as “sacrifice for Dharma.”

No problem I actually appreciate your vulnerability and honesty/realness. Maybe I’m wired different, but I gave up on fitting into the tribe a while ago, it longer fulfills me- I find human interactions quite shallow. Sure we all want to be liked/accepted but I don’t think it needs to define us. The most important relationship we have is with ourselves. So yeah, throw on some music, grab a nice coffee and draw- for your own sake. Anyway, just my advice, I feel I could be quite happy living a life of solitude. But if you want to be social I’m sure you can find the right people, typically spiritual communities look beyond just height, personality, etc and value you as a human

What brings you joy beyond dating results? Do you depend your happiness on people and how they react to you? Is there anything you can get passionate about that has no dependency on other people and what they think?

Yes. I wish everyone could just feel love and peace. Beyond dating, getting laid, making money- because even these are false metrics of worth and success. I truly feel for people in tough situations, but you can never give up hope- your why. I believe beginning to work towards a vision and purpose is far more powerful than any therapy or group talk- people need to connect to their why

Yeah. After reconsidering it I’m probably being a bit too harsh. I just don’t like the idea of slipping into a victim mentality and using that as a reason to not improve one’s situation. I don’t think the majority of black pillers have some really horrible trauma or life situation, it’s just easy to give up hope or be a victim after being rejected a few times. But some people have been dealt really tough cards and it’s near impossible to get out of that.

What a synchronized event, I’m literally prepping a video for this exact topic. Here is the prelude to it TLDR: First you must acknowledge the power of sexual energy. It is a much stronger force than we give credit to. That post-nut clarity? There are deep evolutionary reasons for it. The goal is not to to get rid of this energy, it is a GIFT! We must learn to pivot it and turn it into an engine the powers our steamboat to greatness. Your sexual energy is like Niagara Falls, and all your nofap, meditation, and celibacy vows are like trying to put a rock in front of Niagara Falls to stop it. Good luck. Instead, make Niagara Falls work for you. Direct Niagara Falls towards your vision. Allow the sexual energy to flow you through you like a super power- because it is. Once you get over that “drive” to release, you have harnessed your sexual energy and become an unstoppable force with literally “the power of nature” behind you. Fuck “post nut clarity”, go with “full nut clarity”

Depends completely on the man or woman. For an incel black pill dude, she is the prize For a undeveloped gold digger, a rich guy is the prize This is way too black & white thinking Ideally the 2 balance each other out and provide their own value and strengths The feminine provides Nurture, Energy, Life, Fun, Beauty the masculine provides Structure, Leadership, Groundedness, Protection Yet no one here will listen, the mysogony and ignorance will continue You think God is stupid? That these 2 poles don’t balance each other out?

Sounds exactly like my path with dating/sex. Except replace Miami with Bali, Rio, Mazunte- but yeah. I’ve always done better than most of my peers in terms of dating and getting laid. And I even feel that pursuing consciousness and my life purpose has likely led to me giving up thousands of potential sex filled nights, but hey, that’s just the sacrifice of doing something meaningful. Wasn’t without its shadow and tough times but I can look back at some of the women I’ve dated with gratitude, most guys only dream of getting attention from girls that attractive. I don’t understand Black Pill, I find it quite pathetic and unnecessary. I’ve had my share of trauma and decided to not let it define me, create what I wanted to and put my own nuts on the chopping board in terms of rejection and healing. For every dime I’ve dated or slept with, there are 50-100 no’s. So while I understand they have trauma and hard upbringings, I don’t think it warrants giving up and being a nihilistic victim. They are creating their own hell. Plenty of people have overcome much worse and created powerful and happy lives, I don’t buy their victim hood. Especially if they have functioning bodies, health, and minds. I hope they can realize that in life, because one thing is for sure, no one comes to save you - you have to pull your own ass out of the mud.

You can’t make this shit up. Congrats guys, we officially live in the movie Idiocracy

It’s really simple, buy Bitcoin (as much as possible), put it in a cold storage wallet, and don’t look at it. Step 5 - Profit! Seriously, this is a once in a lifetime opportunity, in a few years we will be mind blown that BTC was less than a million per coin. Dont fuck with Alts they’re silly. Is 40-50% return not enough ? Stack Sats and Stay Humble. It’s simple

Trust your intuition That guy gives me the worst vibes. Had to skip the parts where he spoke

Agreed. It’s funny because both groups (Aubrey & These Guys) are deluding themselves in different ways and drenched in bias, rigidity, and dogma. Aubrey is too ( You have to follow your dharma, etc)

Leo, love the latest blog on development and its cost in terms of social survival. Ive found this to be the case as I develop my mind and understanding of reality. It’s not that I CANT particularly socialize or fit in, in fact I find that people seem to find me quite interesting and enjoyable to be around, (as well as strange and weird in my own way I’m sure) - but it’s more that I don’t see much of the value in being around them. I try to see everything as God and not judge it, but most of normal society is simply playing a different game than I am, with infinite distractions, numbing agents, and delusion. It’s like being around toddlers, but also people have their own touch of God and beauty in their own way. But I also do find people who are developed at high green or beyond and it’s nice to be around them I also see many people who are highly developed and well integrated with friend circles and community (Ken Wilber, Ralston, Sahaja ) I don’t think development has to equal social isolation, you can integrate the two. Not everyone has to understand what you do to be friends with them. For example I can love, hang out with, and enjoy time with my dog, it’s safe to say I’m more developed than him but it doesn’t take away from us bonding “What are all the reasons that extraordinary levels of cognitive development are so rare?” Lack of information on how to do it Extreme Time Comittment Deeply challenging to look at yourself and pick yourself apart Risks Delayed Gratification Energy demanding The death of all things you used to enjoy Inability to fit in with certain people you used to Less sex Less ability to delude yourself to lie and act like a devil Higher responsibility of yourself and how you create your reality- no more blaming or scapegoating Uncomfortable You kind of need to be free to do it. You can’t do it as a wage slave, deep family ties, poor country, poor education. This alone eliminates 99% of people.

Yeah, agreed. They almost sound jealous “He just wants to fuck young hot women and we REAL men have overridden that unnatural tendency (that we all have btw) I def love my wife and never even think about or look at other women, ever. ” 😂😂😂

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