BlessedLion

Hm, the divide here is deep. I think it’s healthy to take a break from this place every once in a while

I’d love more content on God, Enlightenment, Types of awakenings and all the distinctions in between. Possibly something deep in how the mind functions and how to use it better. Anything sex, relationships Life in solitude, monk mode

This is so lame though. “The work never ends” “they point out blind spots” When do you just get to relax? I never understand this about couples, especially in spirituality, it’s like this never ending project where they are aiming to be perfect. Working on their triggers, childhood traumas, shadow, etc. It’s a massive trap imo

I’m super happy in monk mode and people think it’s unhealthy. They can’t seem to understand how I can be so happy in solitude and think I’m lonely

Best spots/countries?

I’m actually finding it much more effective and relaxed to make a good impression the first night, end it with a kiss, then go on a proper date the next. Then usually that leads to sex and it’s more relaxed. The whole one night stand is unnecessarily going fast.

I probably have some children in Brazil

I find the void quite peaceful. It’s just empty restful silence. Your true nature

It’s nice to feel appreciated by women from places like Brazil because they actually appreciate you as a man. Way less stressful in certain ways

Pretty sure Tyler is a US based woman so has a bitterness and bias towards us talking about this. The truth is there’s a much better and more attractive option and it ain’t in the US. This is no different than doing pick up in a club, it’s just pick up in other countries. The women love it too and get to experience something new so what’s the harm? Sex tourism is specifically paying for sex in countries where prostitutes are cheaper, which also is fine if people want to do it. As long as no one is getting hurt.

I have been living not working for like a year now and I’m definitely never bored nor do I miss work. But I consider going back because I miss the thrill of saving and investing money to eventually buy a badass house and live with even more passive income. But that’s kinda just a hamster wheel. I feel I could live “poor” in a place as long as I’m by nature and have good food and people around me. Btw. Poor doesn’t mean scraping by it means living on like 1K/2K/ Mo in South America, which, there is pretty high end. I don’t want to spend my youth working, when I can optimize my avatar and live in a restful state.

Why would you want this tho?

Yesterday I met a woman who just got divorced because the guy cheated. They have a 3 year old child now who will live with separated parents, and now any other kids they might have had will not exist and what could’ve been a beautiful family will not exist because he thought it wasn’t a big deal. So yeah….

Obviously if you learn Spanish that’s a huge plus and an even bigger plus if you go to an actual university there. I didn’t even know that was possible. Which university?

You guys sound like my kinda dudes ? I left the US 6 years to work and live remote. My job was paying stacks so I lived like royalty in Colombia, we rented a penthouse that overlooked the whole city and it was less than 1K each. Nuts! So yes, 1K/Mo you can live well, but if you can spend 2K just do that and live in a badass pad. I’m curious which part of Colombia you lived @acidgoofy? Because I was in Medellin and felt like the locals were kinda annoyed by the gringos, probably because there’s so many. Most of the women I hooked up with in Colombia were European/Canadian and American ironically. Because I just didn’t get much interaction with the locals, but maybe it’s changed or you were in a different spot. But yes, the locals are very warm and friendly regardless, very nice and cool people. I’ve actually never been to Argentina directly, every other country in SA, yes, but Argentina I haven’t yet. I make my claim based on the Argentinian women I’ve been with in other countries, so maybe they are different. But I’ve observed them to be the most beautiful , behind Brazilians of course, in South America. I heard they have a bit of a feminist culture there but it’s probably nothing compared to the cringe that is now the US dating scene. They still have the feminine masculine polarity. Im probably a bit biased here, because I struck out in Colombia and have done well with Argentine women.

Someone did 5MEO and killed themselves?

Not sure where you’re from but an American I go t a Brazilian visa so I can do 3 month stints then I just leave and go back. Portuguese is tough but if you go to the cities like Rio and São Paulo many women there know at least some English and even if they don’t I created relationships and sex buddies with women who spoke no English. It’s so much more about the energy there. if you’re between Colombia or Argentina I’d say go to Argentina. The women are hotter and more open to foreigners. Brazil is the best by miles though imo.

Be honest about it. Cheating is a spineless act. Just be honest that you’re attracted to other people and maybe your girl will be open to a three sum open relationship or taking a break. If not, then break up, but don’t fuck her over by being a snake. Plus it will eat you up. Guilt sucks

Passport Bros… fuck now there’s a term for it? This isn’t good I guess I’ve been a passport bro for 6 years now and I’ve completely lost interest in American women as a result of it. Once you taste the deep feminine and light hearted energy of Brazilian, Argentinian, and Russian women, i can’t even justify going for American chicks. I pretty much solely date Latina women now because they are so passionate, feminine, and fucking incredibly sexy. Brazilians are just another breed completely, I really hope these passport bros don’t start going to Brazil, please don’t ruin Brazil, it’s my happy place and being a gringo there you are rare and just clean up. I hooked up with Brazilian models, 19, 20 year old babes, non stop and they were down for everything in bed and just had the hottest energy and vibe. There was no bullshit or ass kissing or weird feminine masculine dynamic, like in the US or Canada. Ya. I’ve been passport bro-ing hard, that Shit turned me into a man

The best music to trip to https://youtu.be/2PoOHgsrDx4

Bob Marley Slightly Stoopid Porangui

Thanks for your authenticity and honesty in this sharing. Resonates

Calm down guys, like all of you have never used spirituality to feel better about your lives and suffering, give me a break. You know what OP if it works for you, keep doing it. Don’t let anyone tell you how to play the game of life

It still boggles me that people can sit around and bitch about Leo’s work after the decade of heart and soul he’s put into it. If you don’t see it as massive value, then you stupid. It’s helped clarify so many things for me. Still, there’s a time when you must put the teacher down and go. Go! Come to your own conclusions. The biggest thing I’ve learned from teachers is to go within and question/deconstruct. Until there’s nothing left.

One thing that helped me greatly in this arena was unfusing my relationship with Leo. Although it feels personal since I’ve been watching his stuff for years, it’s not. He’s reporting to a camera that goes out to from his pov his followers, same with any teacher. I read Ralston and realized he’s just writing this to a general audience. It’s not personal at all. When in the video or book they say “you” they don’t actually mean YOU. I know this sounds obvious but there’s a subtlety here I’m pointing out that people don’t pick up. And they imagine this relationship that doesn’t exist. Some people grow dependent on teachers in this manner and spend a ton of energy trying to make them wrong or glorify them, like Scholar is doing. Either way it’s a distraction. And they create imaginary conversations either agreeing disagreeing asking questions wondering what they would think of or if they would approve. It’s delusion. See it for what it is. Just sit alone, breathe contemplate and not know. There is only one Truth and it exists. There’s def a point where you must go your own way and deprogram your own mind and you are totally alone in that battle. Not know. Kill the Buddha.