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Eat a bag of red/yellow/green bell pepper and a carb before listening to spike does serotonin levels. lol
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@DIDego In my experience if im not in direct physical contact or doing regular activities with someone at least once a weak the friendship will not last. There needs to be a lot of engagement and mutual interest. - Physical Activity buddies, (gym, sports, chess tournaments, martial arts, wrestling, Pokémon cards...) - Online Activity buddies, (playing video games together, online chess, programming apps...) The reason people want friends and are lonely is because they are not 100% engaged in living life and are seeking people who are engaged to carry them. So instead get to the point where your so busy with business/passions/activities that there is no room for loneliness and by doing activities everyday friends will come naturally, a network will form.
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There isn't enough intimacy in the way you engage with people. Connect at a deeper level and they will stick around.
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Play Mode
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here's a hint, when interacting with a child or a dog you're going to tailor what you say to match their needs. In a sense you're dumbing yourself down but really you're being smart. It's a more sophisticated way of communication that's adaptive and less egoic. you're gonna give the dog and the child a platform for them to express themselves and give and receive what they're able to give and receive. taking this into a club environment girls just wanna have fun, so be a person they can have fun with.
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Acting dumb = Your authentic self in a play mode.
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See that they are a regular average person that is simply compatible with you (for the mean time).
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Its possible hes leading a lot of does girls on with out realizing hes doing so, but they likely friend zone him quick enough, so i wouldn't worry about it. A friend of mine is the same way, they just get dopamine from it and small talk is as necessary as oxygen to them. Hes getting his needs met, to limit him is probably a mistake. Just got to accept that hes getting his dopamine hit from it and you dont.
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This is not me, relatively speaking lol
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The trick to blinding memorizing everything to pass a test is to create flashcards of questions and answers based on all your notes for a subject. Then run does flashcards into a spaced repetition algorithm until you get 100% recall score for everything. This works because its the equivalent of creating a practice test based on all your notes and then practicing on that test everyday.
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@Kubia The first relationship is a INTP + ESTJ pairing, its the most common marriage mistake. Avoid. Down the line if you break up and have kids, you'll be left with a person your stuck dealing with for the rest of your life and ESTJs tend to have strong double standards and "my way or the high way" approach to separated parenting. Dive deeper into girl 1 to see what her values are and how she would raise a child for example, see the clear differences and try to predict down the line all the topics you'll disagree on. Its likely your values don't match and she values stuff you don't care about and the issue will be that she will push strongly to get her way, while the INTP tends to just give up with peoples bullshit.
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How will society/government look like when AI replaces all jobs? We will have to evolve beyond the need for an economy or how we think of economy will be nothing like it is today. Economy will be a tool that creates and distributes resources by AI for the collective.
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Develop empathy and understanding, the gentle men is derived from that. Its not an act.
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We need to funnel all our wealth the most wise people on the planet, not warren buffet.
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Makes sense, but i think the title is pointing to people will provide no value to the current economic system.
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Its been over 5 years now that I've stopped brushing my teeth and I've noticed no difference, i do have a good tongue and finger cleaning habit right after every meal to get it all off the teeth. Is brushing teeth a myth we have been thought by the social matrix? There is likely some truth to keeping teeth clean but maybe its been marketed and over exaggerated. Water mouth rinsing + tongue and finger scrapping habits after a meal is probably all someone needs. Good mouth maintenance habits are entirely not thought or spoken of and are replaced with "brushing teeth" paradigm. Thoughts?
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integral replied to Carl-Richard's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Time skipped to Mr.Girl Felt Violated Story, 9 minute segment. Frustration with tier 1 inability to step outside of its own shoes and fully take on another persons perspective. But he communicated it with little strategy to help her understand him. He just stood his ground inflexibly with violent communication habits. Sounds like a green move to me. -
For a lot of guys this would cause trauma, even if they consented to it.
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These personality type models are tools to help you create your own internal models and distinctions of people. Personality types cannot be learned by reading it from a book, it’s learned by applying the tool. Just like you can’t learn much about piano from a book. It’s learned from practice and experience. The map is not the territory because you are the territory, you’re constructing it on the fly.