hyruga

because your fear is trying to protect you so it frames situations as negative to stop you from doing it eg bungee jumping.

Yeah it is called 'Unconsciousness' after you die. It also exists when you are alive.

Why don't anyone say it? How did you guys find actualized.org? How did you guys found actualized.org? How did you guys founded actualized.org? These are three different questions.

The truth is human beings are emotional creatures so both men and women are very emotional. just that women tend to be MORE emotional while men tend to rationalise more. Read 'men are from mars, women are from venus' and 'The 5 love languages' to learn more.

Kids have wild dreams. Most adults are more pragmatic.

You must fear death. Not fearing death is unhealthy.

Day 3 Go no Ex no Call/text no Medi yes Deto no Day 4 Go no Ex yes Call no/text yes Medi yes Deto yes

You have to read tons and tons of books. You see some gurus...they have read over 500 books or even 1000 books and they become incredibly strong in their subject matter. Since their foundations is super strong, they can easily link different topics together or create something new out of the blue. Hence creativity ensued. Don't just read short articles or summaries because those are too short for the concepts to be internalized in you. You have to read the stories and examples yourself.

Yes so you do not just watch videos. Change your deep rooted beliefs.

Just check out the reviews and ratings on goodreads. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/25492.The_Art_of_Being?ac=1&from_search=true&qid=aaHy8vgjtF&rank=1 Usually I don't check out books with ratings below 3.8 (unless there's only a few ratings)

so how do we live our advice? pursue what you want

Look at McGregor fight against Khabib, he has little belief left after 2 years away from MMA. McGregor didn't even kick much because he's only concentrating on boxing after his fight with Mayweather. No wonder McGregor lost despite saying loa works for him previously.

Self help may not be so helpful sometimes as it takes too much time to read. But as someone has said, reading book is still better use of your time than playing online games or watching tv.

Check out

Why care so much whether it's turquoise or awakened?

https://www.amazon.sg/Decisive-Make-Better-Choices-Life/dp/0307956393

I normally record my notes down under book title or video title or person eg Jordan Peterson and post them on online notes. I also update on blogs. The thing is you have to trust yourself that you already exhibit some of the principles that you learnt. If you wish to recap, you simple relook at your notes again. You must understand your ego will want you to create a powerful note taking system. It will distract you and take away your time from doing other things. Do not get neurotic about notes. Info is everywhere.

Disagree. How can it be luck when you force yourself to.be deeply aware and think deeply. We can agree to disagree. Hardwork can bring you luck but it's not all luck. Like take for example, LeBron James scored lots of goals. It's all luck for him! He just happened to be at the right place right time, no skills no thinking involved?

haha it's not ALL about luck I believe. A great amount of awareness and deep introspection is probably needed. anyway, I am not enlightened and i also do not seek enlightenment or liberation because it's not my goal at all.

The road less travelled is great. Or you can read the purpose driven life. There aren't many books on discipline. Most books touch on willpower or perseverance but those are stage orange types.

Haha even if one becomes monk, one also may not find liberation or enlightenment because he is too attached to the outcome or too attached to their current world. Also, a monk rests in the monastery all day. Not sure how they can be liberated compared to the one who sky dive or the one who got a snake bite but survived.

You are living in lack and not abundance when you don't want your friends to succeed. Are they even your friends anymore?

It's up to you. First it's your baseline character...are you a helpful or kind person? Do you donate money to beggars regularly or do you never bat an eyelid? Different values, beliefs, cultures are also influencing your character as you grow older. So end of the day, you decide what kind of things you want to help people with and then you go out and help people.