hyruga

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  1. Yeah light is all there is. Does it boost your ego when you post with such large fonts?
  2. If you really want to look at values and understand more about values, beliefs and purposes, then a very powerful coach would be Tony Robbins. Trust me he really knows his stuff and he already knows all these back in the 80s. He's the world's first life coach and is also one of the most successful coaches ever. People always judge him as being orange in spiral dynamics or that he's only a motivational speaker but pls only judge him after you feed a million people which he did.
  3. Read 'So Good they can't ignore you'. Eventually, you become so good that other people really cannot ignore you!
  4. Step 1: Focus on an issue you would like to feel better about. Step 2: Ask yourself one of the following questions: Could I let this feeling go? Could I allow this feeling to be here? Could I welcome these feelings? Step 3: Ask yourself the basic question: Would I? Am I willing to let go? Step 4: Ask yourself this simpler question: When?
  5. Check out Discover the Power with you. Great book that teaches you more on the Bible and Jesus.
  6. Check out 'Becoming Supernatural' by Dr Joe Dipenza. One of his most latest and dense-packed books!
  7. That's why you should read 'The Way of Men' (Not the superior men) because in the book, the author, Jack Donovan indicates what does it mean to be a real man.
  8. Bro, you have xy chromosomes.
  9. To be honest, I don't really like his 'Power vs Force'. But i believe this is his first book in the series and the rest of the books in the series will probably get better and better. In Power vs Force, he give power a positive connotation and force a negative one which I thought was unnecessary. Also, I do not fully agree with his scale of consciousness. For example, I believe Love can be higher rank than Joy. When you give love, you give a lot of joy as well. Is the reverse always true? Also, Courage is a strength, far stronger than Neutrality imo regardless of how it is rationalised. Can everything be explained through logic?
  10. It all depends on how you define your 'success'. And how fulfilled you are after achieving the success you wanted. For example, someone's goal could be 1 million dollars and he is easily contented and he is very happy and fulfilled when he succeeded. Another person's goal could also be 1 millions dollars but even achieving so, he is constantly worried about where to get the next money. Or he is angry he cannot repeat his success. He is not fulfilled in that sense.
  11. Because they have the wrong purposes. So for example, if you have a purpose of making 1 million dollars. After 30+ years, you finally achieve it. Do you think you will be happy with 1 million? Life is more than money. So people need to find another purpose. Of course, in the case of some people or celebrities, they have some health issues or depression they have to deal with as well. In such cases, they have to seek help from professionals.
  12. Leilani, Go YouTube and type 'God pls help me'. There are lots of resources available. Look for help. If you need anything, pls pm me.
  13. Hi, this is a Chinese song which I like very much. She's not the best singer around but this song pointed out that we must fight. People are still fighting for their ideals. Ignite your fire. Grow. Open your arms and spread your wings!
  14. Life is complex and you have to adapt to life. For example, it's raining. Do you go out and get yourself drenched or do you carry an umbrella? Yes you adapt to life. And yet, you can also let life adapt to you.
  15. You can read the book by Steven Pressfield. He talks about overcoming resistance!
  16. because orange = materialistic by definition. haha just joking. Read the books on spiral dynamics and you will know? I cannot comment because I didn't read.
  17. Hi, I would like Leo to do a video on how to fight and destroy the ego. I am a salesperson and sometimes, I am still very self conscious of what others think of me and the way I talk. Sometimes, I will be afraid to make phone calls. This is despite reading books and watching plenty of self help videos. So would like to know your perspectives and strategies to cope with the ego. Thanks.
  18. There's a book called Food Fix which talks about the dangers of our food. It doesn't really tell you what to eat but it teaches you what not to eat. For example, farmed salmon vs salmon.
  19. well, this forum and videos help to accelerate my learning. I also have a greater understanding of the ego.
  20. Safety isn't the first level. Survival needs (air, food, water and shelter) is the most basic level.
  21. Depends on what is self actualization and how the person actually defines it.
  22. Tony Robbins mentioned he read 700+ books in his younger time. He shut himself in a library and went on to become a successful life coach. 1 book a week is certainly enough but why limit yourself as he always said? If you are free, you can always read more books on certain days so that your time is free up for next week/month. And you can certainly read 2-5 books per week. And of course carry out the actions too!