allislove

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  1. Bought it today, thanks for the recommendation. Check out YT Music also. Enjoying "Your Mix" now
  2. @Member Hate/Evil is seen only through the clinging to a perspective. If there is no clinging to any perspective everything is seen as it is, Love.
  3. Exist?? Is there non-existence? Does a pink elephant exist? Time?? Is there a time without appearance/forms/objects? I wouldn't try to put logical on it – this transcends logic. Everything = Nothing = you = God = Love
  4. RIP ?❤️
  5. @Space Quite some time ago when I was in university in the first years of study I tried NoFap for half a year or more. I think it was around 10 years ago. As you described, in the beginning, it was really cool. You feel confident, your voice is stronger, you feel good. After around 4-5 months I started to realize that I am becoming not interested in sex at all. Like, usually when I talk to a beautiful girl there was an impulse to fuck her, at least in my imagination, but now it's gone. I talked to a beautiful girl just like her friend. That was quite scary for me. I asked the question: 'Do I really want to be a "vegetable"?'. After this experiential realization, I tried different approaches regarding masturbation. Now I can say that I have built a healthy relationship with masturbation. I know that body needs it and I don't want to suppress anything. I am not blaming myself for masturbation anymore. I don't see this as a problem at all. So, I masturbate once a day, once a week, once a month, depending on the current situation. If I have a regular sexual partner the desire to masturbate fades completely, naturally.
  6. Love it ?
  7. So true, welcome to the forum ?
  8. @mandyjw congrats on 1k subscribers ??? Nice videos ?
  9. @beastcookie very interesting, thanks for sharing.
  10. @beastcookie How have you felt the next morning after the RASA? Have you noticed the difference in your feelings? Like you are a little bit high so to speak, or not really? Just curious
  11. Maybe a small dose of 5-MeO-DMT smoking? I see a big potential for this substance, even a microdose. Just a thought.
  12. I worked in a company that was founded by the guy who founded Wikipedia, but that company was a profit-oriented. There was a power-user of Wikipedia in my team. I think, he was top 5 in his country. He enjoyed rivaling with other power-users, having meetups of power-users, etc.
  13. A novel can be more profound than the usual spiritual book. It's also about what you enjoy. If you enjoy reading a novel, if it relaxes you, if it makes you happier – do it :))
  14. I agree with @Corpus, I'd check what it is by smoking. 10mg freebase is a breakthrough in my experience.
  15. @Poop Imagine that from early childhood you wear sunglasses. You wear them for so long that you are not aware of them at all. The glasses with time passing by becoming dirtier and dirtier. So, it's hard to see as it is. By over-thinking about the past or over-thinking about the future of your relationship you just add more dirt to the glasses. Clarity never arises while thinking about the past or future. Clarity regarding your relationship or anything else is always now. I enjoy riding a mountain bike in the forest. What do you enjoy? Try to do what you enjoy more often, be easy on yourself, let go of the thoughts that don't feel good to you, believe in yourself. By doing so you are clearing your sunglasses. At some point, you even may drop them altogether. The clarity is always when you are relaxed. The clarity is always when you are fully present in the moment. That's why it's important to "bring" yourself into now by doing what you enjoy. When you are happy, go to your partner, listen, focus on deep breathing, give love. A relationship is all about having fun, enjoying time together. Godspeed.
  16. @Poop the first step is to decide on your part what you want. Ask the question: "Do I want to enjoy my life together with this person?". If the answer is "Hell, yes!" then continue the relationship. Focus on yourself, don't try to fix something. Relax, do what you enjoy more often. No need to figure out how to get something, only figure out what you want. Listening by focusing on a deep breath is a good practice to create a space for a person, to open the person for a deep conversation.
  17. Who are you? Don't try to answer it logically, go do the spiritual practices, relax
  18. Really enjoyed this guided meditation
  19. @4201 a psychedelic is an amazing tool. Eventually, you realize that psychedelic is literally you :)) All "problems" are just beliefs that are not true. A thought arises, there is a choice to believe this thought (to react) or let it go. In the same way, as you have let go of the "I should be ashamed of myself" belief you can let go of any belief which doesn't feel good to you.