Javfly33

There is a lot going on against pornography lately. Now, I´m not saying is healthy to waste your time and energies watching sexual content on a regular basis, is clear some people are using (abusing it) and is becoming an habit on its own where to waste time and manage anxiety. But is not addiction, is just that you are using that to avoiding face boringness, anxiety, etc. Is not like pornography has physical dependence as drugs. BUT ANYWAYS, im not even taking about that. I´m talking about that some want to quit porn because of psychological reasons. This psychological reasons are that for this people porn or fantasies are producing a certain karmic tension for them. Because their ego has certain repressed tendencies and shadows, and sex is that place where those tendencies and repressed shadows are felt, and arise without barriers. This is scary for the mind and it sees as 'bad'. Because they think this tension is something bad. No, is that you are getting close to the nucleus of karmic content of your ego. The more you feel against a certain porn taste or fetish, the more your ego doesn't want to observe something. The moment you won´t repress the karmic content that being revealed to the surface, then you will see porn is not bad, is actually a mirror that is reflecting information about your system, something very deep. You don´t have to be against it or raise it to the heavens, you just have to be completely neutral and watch what is being revealed. In other words: just completely let go. Doesn´t matter how daunting it is for your mind to let go, do it. So basically in summary, if you want to quit porn because it 'promotes' certain porn taste or fetishes and you feel this things are 'bad', you actually got it backwards.

Was meditating and the neighbours kids were arguing about some shit with their parents. I couldn´t avoid perceiving the Love that emanated of each of their voices, even though they were arguing. The bliss of GOD. At that point was fully conscious there was no difference between my cousins and those kids, or my parents and those parents. Clear perception that their voices are literally Consciousness. Consciousness (or God) is 'all over the place'. There is no such a thing as 'my consciouness'. (Biggest bullshit I ever came up with. )

It doesn´t need a how. Is pure intelligence.

Right, I understand you know. In my experience you only need to focus and work on building regular habits, attitudes and actions that go against the "ghosting patters". For example, one of my clear ghosting patters in using drugs, I don´t have a physical dependency in the sense I need a drug to be funcional, like your brother might need, but I can clearly see from time to time I use drugs to numb and create a fake comfort chemical atmosphere. This type of pattern slows down progress and reduces clarity on where one is in life. But mind picks up this ghosting patterns because mind Is usually about homeostasis, comfort, cyclical nature. Is not about expansion and transformation. Is something 'natural' for the mind. What I have done that has improved my relationship with this 'ghosting patters' is that instead of judging them and try to avoid them, reject them, completely Focus my attention, focus, and energy on the things that are anti-ghosting, in my case, last year which I was trying to improve my social circle, going out 3 days a week for a full year. While this year ghosting patters where there but I accept them as rain in the sky, what I made sure is to focus on going out, and even though there were ghosting patters through the whole year while doing this, there was a certain transformation and expansion going on. Another example would be this current year, where I am focusing and going deep in Yoga practice. Is another example of anti-ghosting actions because it not only improves awareness and clarity of mind it kinda automatically has made easier to let go certain addictive or compulsive tendencies such as using drugs. So even though the mind still feels the desire to scratch the itch with the ghosting pattern, I don´t pay it much attention. I just keep myself focused. In other words, focus on Consciousness instead of compulsiveness, whatever turns out that to be in your situation. And compulsiveness and avoidance patters will slowly being to fall or be reduced on their own. If you focus on trying to reduce or eliminate the compulsive or cyclical patters you are just feeding more on to them. Where your focus is, is where your life will grow. Hope that helps-

Yes, the buddhists already said it: Empty your cup.

Correct, with 'what' I don´t mean a label or word.

Yes, but what IS being? What is consciousness? You have to grasp what really is. Grasping Directly what is the phenomena of consciousness/being, is Enlightment.

yes, is abandoning all anchors the ego uses to keep itself alive. One must be careful, because things as Reality is God' or Reality is Love', might be another anchor-concept the ego is constructing to try to make this empty experience 'something'. (Since 'God' or 'Love' usually has some meaning attached to it). And we are kind of doomed (not in a bad way, but this are the rules of our game), to not totally let go of all concepts. Why? Because you can not hold a physical body without having a concept of a so called Reality. If one stays too much as pure empty luminary nothing, one will be dissolved because the concepts will no longer have any stregth in the system. Which is why Yoguis not only have been discovered to do mahasamadhi, but actually people have entered to the caves to discover the body is not even there. Body has also dissolved. That´s the seriousness of concepts and the construction of ego. The ability of you holding a physical biological body is anchored to a concept. If you stop holding the illusion you can 'kill yourself' out of pure truth. Ha! What a video game. And to think I believed this shit for a moment

Is the only thing that exists actually 🤣

Hell, at least is free.

1) I´m not sure what you mean by 'ghosting pattern'. I think is good to entertain oneself with things that one enjoys. 2) Run if you can and don´t look back.

Brahman is Empty.

Is because what has been seen has to be seen more times? Is because what has been seen would be 'too good' or 'too crazy' to be real? Is because mind-body fundamentally is not raised to be able to embody the truth, so it has to get used to it 'slowly' until it finally opens itself up? I am curious about the mechanism of the mind/ego to protect itself and maintain is paradigm, even after being 'crushed' dozens if not hundreds of times. Probably the fact is if you are 30 years old and you started having awakenings at 25, you have there 25 years of old conditioning which has to be dissolved, and is not just a few trips or meditation experiences, the Non Dual must become the True Reality. There Is no other way I think.

Right, nothing left to the point there´s not even God left. 😂 Consciousness is not God. Consciousness is literally an Empty Phenomena. The no-thing that exists. Consciousness is, literally, Nothing. God does not exists. Let´s end this bullshit about God once and for all.

if that God´s only fans?

Empty Being. The End of the so called hallucination that there is some-thing happening.

Very simple. If she doesn't reply is because she doesn't want to reply. Factors may vary. Sometimes a reply is not needed. I Talk all the time with friends where the conversations ends in such a way i dont see the point in replying. And they are best friends. Now...is another thing if you have ask her to hang out and she doesn't reply. If that is the case obviously there is no interest or interest at that moment is not much.

Yes😊🙏

It depends, if there is a 'you' (1) that is aware of 'something' (2), then you are not in Oneness, you are in duality (2 thoughts: 'me' and 'that thing that im One with'). Enlightment = Experience of One. (Because of not finding 'Oneself', Nothing remains).

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Can you stop shitting in other people´s topics just for the sake of it? There is freedom of speech on a forum of course, but your attitude is just disrespect. Is rude and sad what you are doing. By the way, you never replied to me how much sadhana have you done, really curious since a lot of times you point it out the importance of it as well of 'ground work'. Enlighten us.

That´s what media does. They create problems out of thin air.

interesting.

Lol. Brilliant message. Topic closed. hahahaha.

There is another option, to surrender your-(self) completely so you realize others are a dream but are also real and are happening within your infinite consciousness.