Javfly33

very good, totally agree 👌

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😂 Exactly. As I said in other topics, the mind is very tricky in that aspect. When you say I want to fuck my cousin is easy to see that that is very basic, animalistic ,mind, selfishness. But things as I am God or Oneness mental paradigms, they can feel as absolute, trascendental, awakening etc... They can feel as they are "different", at the end of the day is still mind tricks. Conceptual laberinth. Tricky to see it. Yeap. It does seem like that.

So the million dollar question would be, is @Inliytened1and @Razard86 in an actual consciousness/energetic state of Aloleness or are you guys holding that as ideas ? (not saying those ideas aren't true, BUT the fact is are ideas!) That's the million dollar question. Just answer that and we will shut up. (Btw, obviously when doing mechanical things like operating machinery, driving, doing a mechanical job, etc... You will not be in Absolute Aloleness state, but my question is if once you stop doing that activity, your defuault state of consciousness is that one of Solipsism).

That's a good point and I don't hear it around here almost never. I agree with inlightened says, but the thing is theorically or conceptually saying that One is Alone or that others are You/Aren't Real, doesn't change much. And that's why sometimes I just say "Ok, you are God. So what? In what does change your experience?". That's why I'm so repetitive with being focus on actual state of being. Being in an state of Oneness DO change a lot our experience. Being in an state of boundaries or mental mechanism *while holding ideas of Oneness or Aloleness, make you feel like you are Awake, but actually you are in the "pit" or the hellhole of the mind as anyone else.

@deamordeamar where you expect to make those 5000 to 7000 coding??? I almost spill my coffee when I read that. I guess getting a remote job from USA? Because if not you absolutely won't do that anywhere with 4 year experience. Don't trust statistics from the internet, they are boosted I never understand why. I'm making 24K with almost 2 year experience, and my country has above salary average than Romania. Just to give you a heads up. But my country is pretty shitty in salary, you obviously could do more by getting remote jobs from top paying countries like Germany or UK. Still, no where near those 5000-7000. Also, If you are not that passionate about coding, forget again about making big bucks of it... You can get paid well but only if you are significantly better than the majority. Unless you think you have the skill to land a remote Job from USA changing your career to coding for the money, when you already are making 2000€ in a comfortable position, is really reeeally dumb imo...but to each their own. I absolutely wouldn't do it, I would stay in your current job and create a business or find a job that actually makes money and is actually enjoyable/makes you passionate

you could say solipsism means the external world becomes also the internal world 🌝

@LastThursday Yes, 'my' experience only exists because there is a consciousness identifying with a body, thus the posibility of saying 'My perceptions' can happen. I think inligtened means that the difference between 'my' experience and 'your' experience is not real. And that means solipsism because it means there is only One Consciousnes/One energy 'alone' with itself.

You only see that as a contradiction because you haven't dissolved the boundaries that your mind is creating between your body @Someone here and the body of @Bazooka Jesus Is very simple actually. Just realize the boundaries are being created IN THE MIND! Why you give so much importance to a survival tool that is all about creating differences and boundaries? Which is precisely why all spiritual techniques are designed to stopping the mind mechanism. Stop the mechanism and there will not be more 'contradictions'.

good summary

thanks, I´ll keep researching. But my experience is that all external tools are ultimately pointless. The root solution only can come from within

Trust me, if therapists could solve things like this the world wouldn't need Ayahuasca, gurus, or what else Although the funny thing is that Ayahuasca or gurus neither can solve it. Nobody knows, is unknown territory this stuff. At this point my best bet is that more suffering and being conscious of this pain will slowly get it out of my body, but who knows

I agree, all of this are suppositions but it does look it goes in that direction if I had to bet too

mainstream Therapists understand human mind, love and consciousness the same way Ants understand quantum physics No offense to them though, they just understand the same as any other mortal: close to nothing. We are lost in the maze.

Yeah, that wasn't useful 😂 my hairdresser listens to me more than any "mental health" professional ever did 🙄

Emotions are more complex stuff. I´m talking about basic body sensations. Obviously you can have body sensations that can be registered as pain or negative, but that doesn't mean you will suffer them. If there is distance of awareness between You and thoughts, and You and Body, then whatever happens in body doesn't change your stability. You can register the information of your knee hurting, but that doesn't necessarily have to mean that you have to start making yourself suffering. This is not a belief system. I´ll give you a personal example, As someone who has gone through opiate withdrawal for countless of times, this is the perfect example of how physical suffering resides in the mind. After going it through so many times, I have verified that body discomfort does not necessarily have to mean mental suffering. You can just accept the body sensations or physical uncomfort/aching/pain, and suddenly is just that: sensations. The moment the mind starts to contextualise and create a 'story' about those sensations, that's when suffering starts. And as personal experience, you can see how how much the mind creates this stories, how much harder you can make yourself the withdrawal, or how much you can't even feel it, as I said: Body sensations (which includes 'pain sensations') is just information of the body for you. Is only when you see them as bad, dangerous, fear (innate fear about your body being in danger), etc... when suffering starts.

How to accomplish this? Almost everyfucking day I get the extremely sweet taste of that non dual wave of love, or merging and losing sense of the boundary of the body with the surroundings. But once I get up of the meditation this state rapidly fades and I'm back to "Maya". Is clearly a mastery of energies. When I sit in a certain way and do certain positions with my hands, eyes, etc ...the body becomes vibrant, and bam, pure flowing, pure Non dual Wave...I'm out of the macabre game of the mind, in the cloud of Love, in heaven, safe, completely gone. Is so frustrating to experience this a couple of minutes a day and then not being able to be there the rest of the day, can society come up for a strategy for this and stop making more fucking iPhones and Teslas as that is a meter for human development? 🤦😂

A lot of us have been there. Good spiritual progress and little with women. We find out our spiritual progress don't necessarily help in attracting women. In fact some of us start to suspect that consciousness development sometimes mean being LESS raw attractiveness because scaling up the ladder of consciousness means abandoning, putting to the side or giving less importance to survival like aspects such as bold confidence that are one of the aspects the feminine looks in the masculine. Sometimes I wonder and think and I find myself getting very very very sad. Because all of this masculine energy work is meaning for me abandoning that which fiila my soul which is profound and ecstatic states of being , it feels more congruent to me which are more balanced masculine femenine kind of energy. In the back of my mind I feel doing this work is deeply deeply deeply hurting. Is making my consciousness entangle myself in the superior/Inferior survival matrix. But at the other hand I just can't handle mentally to let go of being super attractive and burn all the karma and desire related to having successful and good relationships and sex with women. So is difficult to say. On one hand it feels os the worst mistake one can do, in other maybe is precisely maybe what it needs to be done. Nobody knows. If one is getting free or enslaving oneself even more. Time will tell I guess. But it turns out to be a bad decision it will be too late. I guess If is a bad decision I'll just reincarnate again.

No, you can have your body tired or hungry and not produce discomfort. Discomfort happens in the mind, pain is inevitable because is an information of the body, but suffering is of the mind.

we can not take you seriously with that avatar profile mate

Here's the thing, I have no problem with bisexuality, in fact even though I do not feel raw desire for men like I do for women, if I had the choice of being a woman for a day (not as an identity, but actually having a woman's body), I would totally go have sex with a man and experience that. I think I would enjoy. Also as a fantasy I´m usually able to produce in me excitement if I imagine myself being a woman and I imagine being fucked by a man. So if you think I´m being homophobic with this topic, this is the proof I´m not, because I´m not opposing myself of the idea of feeling attraction or excitement towards men being a man. What I oppose myself is with people that only can have desire for one genre and that genre is literally the one that is opposed to the biological normal one. I don't have a problem you being a man and liking men. But WHY you stop there?? Why you limit your love and appreciation and exclude women?? (of course the same goes with lesbians). In my view, people that are 'only gay' have a certain block they need to release, or something like that. Here's the thing. If you are heterosexual, and you are not bisexual, that's fine, because you are just playing by natures game, and for some reason, you haven't yet explored your feminine side and you haven't tapped into the possibility of feeling attraction for men too. Ok, fine, you just haven't explored. But being gay and jumping into the conclusion for life that the other genre is not "desirable"... What ? Why? What is happening there? Why 'this' and not 'that'? Male gays rejecting women and female gays rejecting men. Obviously there's a block there for constantly thinking the other genre doesn't deserve your appreciation or desire. Clearly something weird is going on there.

What you mean when you say you are 'this life'? @Breakingthewall

No, I'm after stop suffering Oneness or love is not an exotic state, is a state outside the mind. This is not about morality, is about you being Consciousness and being able to step outside the mind when you are not using it. You have a hand. You can use this hand to pick up a glass of water and then you can put it down when you want when you are done drinking. If suddenly you can't stop picking up the glass constantly, we would say you have a problem, isn't it? In the same way humans can not drop the mind. This is sickness. And the fact that people defend the sickness and see any intent to get out of the sickness as "hedonistic chasing states" or something like that, is really sad, and makes me think most people are not serious about freedom.

@The0Self The thing is if I´m just true to myself I would not go to the gym or approach women or potenciate masculine traits. I´m basically going down the ladder of consciousness in order to be attractive to women, which is freaking insane if you think about it. The thing is it seems Being empathetic and compassionate decreases attraction from women. Higher aspects of human makes you less attractive to the female Even Leo has said this sometimes.

ok thanks, I hope I soon can get to a daily practice again. You are right addictions probably slow down the process a lot.