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Man you keep reading my mind haha. Too neat What you said there. If only had known that i would have saved 2 or 3 years. But at the other Hand now i have a solid ground of spirituality at a Young age so thats always nice.

@EnlightenmentBlog @Podie45 ? Truth man. I'm happy to see your development. Additionally, remember that all of our life story, the character that we have been playing that has social anxiety, it's an act we have been playing over and over. We have been identified with that character Because we thought that that character was not a simple acting character who was born out of pure conditioning, genetics and family education, but because we thought that that was US. When you realize you are not the character you can start letting go certain behaviours such as people pleasing Because you know it's NOT YOU, it was just AN ACT. Our character developed a certain survival strategy and identity and we have maintining that, but we have realized is not that good survival strategy and also it doesn't make us happy. So we are FREE to choose to act in any way we want. We are free and we can build the future we want for us ??

@cookiemonster thanks thats a brilliant description of the terms. I never liked the terms anyway But i thought It was practical for the topic

@JJfromSwitzerland i have approached bro. Just 10 times or so in the past. Yeah its exhausting as fuck you are very right. Im just going to make an exception this weekend just because i'm very motivated hhaha Will let you guys know how It went

Isn't the contrary tho'? You can feel pain and don't suffer about it. I remember sadghuru writing something about this in of his books.

Exactly Lol

Except when you are in deep suffering. In those moments some people seriously contemplate it because they have tried to get out of that state and it keeps repeating. Therefore in a deep state of frustration they contemplate resourcing to the only way they now it would solve it.

I think I can do 40-50 each week. That's doable. With some breaks here and there that should put me at around ~1500 approaches a year. Which guiding myself from Leo advice, in a couple of years of doing this I would have done 3000 approaches which combined with self development should make that I have mastered pick up and stage red completely ? I'll start with 50 this weekend. I'm ready for to crush my ego baby!

I just become conscious that I am never going to reach my idea of Enlightment. Because the one who wants to get enlightened is the illusory self. And Enlightment would be to stop being the illusory self As a self all of my life depends on the illusion of being me! Trying to become Enlightened is like trying to be dead while alive. It's totally contrary to the survival mechanism. For God, it's possible to awaken in this lifetime (and it has done already some times), but God comes and goes. It awakens to then sleep again. But for the human avatar which has constructed a self, for that Enlightment is not possible, Because precisely Enlightment is contrary to it. It's precisely the opposite. So stop trying to get enlightened it's impossible. I have surrender that I will never posses God state of consciousness. Because I as an ego I am literally ego/illusion state of consciousness. If I want God state, I have to stop.being me. But by that point, I don't gain anything because I already "gone" by that point. So the ego can't ever possess Enlightment. Can't win this prize. Seek Truth and God. But don't pursue anything Spiritual for your possession because that wanting is precisely the problem. Just my thoughts, thank you for reading.

And that is still attachment to other people not suffering ?

Or he just got tired of material reality ? Don't understand why people are so dogmatic with suicide. He maybe was happy and have achieved enough emotional freedom and non-attachment. We will never know . Pd: of course I'm not doing apology of suicide. I'm just we don't was happening through his mind

Cool, so going once a week I can expect to get those results in 3-4 years instead of one. Ok good to know. That where you go do what you see.

Sorry but I with my little experience doing pick up your advice doesn't seem realistic. To approach you must warm up. You can't just approach 2 or 3 girls each day when going to buy groceries. No man you are just ln that "state" all the time. Not to say Iive in a town. I do all errands and work here. That's good to know thanks for the tip lol that way I will be better prepared for rejection

Had a deep sober awakening. I deeply inpected the "I" thought. And found out: The "I" thought, as a belief, IS ME. But... The "I" thought, as an actuality, is... Just a thought. Duh! So the ego is a thought. ? You can let go of the ego easily, if you realize it's just a thought you keep believing to not be a thought. It goes like this: When you don't inspect: "I" thought arises => reaction => 'Oh, that's me!' (BELIEF) When you do inspect: "I" thought arises => inspection => 'Oh, it's s thought that points to nowhere (it points to a belief of a me) ' (ACTUAL OBSERVATION) Blessings brothers ?? We shall be free of our own ignorance of our own creation ?

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Yeah, but it's just like Enlightment. You already "there", but you need to go the self development work to get there. It's not the result, is the path.

@JonasVE12 brilliant as always man ??. You have described like you were in the situation , that's how right you got it haha. Yeah in situations that I am differently energetically, I don't get this feeling of being walked over it. I really want to change.

So...lately I've been more aware of everything...and it turns out, when I talk with older people than me, if we are having a conversation that we are disagreeing , sometimes I get "fucked" by them. Not literally Obvious LOL. But in the sense that they are talking and I feel like I want to tell them "Woah, No, I fucking disagree with that, and you are not right". And I just say things such as... "yeah...but... " , "Well you are right but that doesn't mean that..." And overall I feel an impeding emotion of not being able to STEP UP FOR MYSELF and being "attacked" and "put in my place". I have thought about this and I think it's because I don't set hard limits at the beginning of the conversation. Probably if I would be more aware and respect my limits I would stop them in the first line with something such as "First of all, please talk to me in a educated manner, I feel you are using an agreesive tone and I don't owe you nothing". Do you empathize with me in this topic? Does this thing happen to you too sometimes in conversations?

I've been doing "instrospection" for the last 2 years. It hasn't gotten me much. I've come to the conclusion that My root psychological wasn't one particular traumatic event in childhood, but a set of variables and events mixed with maybe a particular genetics and a particular way of being raised. So, basically, it's not that I'm going to sort out "what root problem was the cause" and then from that moment I will behave exactly like I want. I think it's time for ACTION. I think it's the only way for me to trascend this.

There is probably a video of RSD Tyler for this?

Exactly. Infinite Love is the Truth ?

You guys have said it here a lot of times. Things as: "Work on the lower stages of the spiral" "Go get some money and sex and burn that karma until you get tired of it" People here in this forum has said to me a lot of times and I never wanted to listen. Because for me, the whole point about spirituality was actually trascending this stuff WHILE you are attached to it. Like...that would be the surrender of the lower self. But yesterday I became Conscious that I need to do a bigger surrender. Or else I won't grow. I won't advance. I need to surrender the fact that I need to engage in my materialistic desires, even though it hurts my ego so much to not be able to trascend them. For my ego, is a kind of humiliation having to go through the effort and struggle of doing pick up and healing my wounds and also gaining confidence overall in life to pursue my business goals and etc. I would have liked to be able to meditate and trascend all that shit. Avoiding all of that pain. But I've come to the conclusion, no, I need to surrender...and pursue that shit. I've come to the conclusion that after all...fuck it, I'm God. I'm creating all of this stuff. If I am creating that I am not ready to trascend material attachments, that's 'cause , as God, I want for my lower self to engage in all of these things. Probably to explore reality, for the love of it. So I'm going to do it. I am done with rejecting my desires. If I am God it's allright because that means I exactly want this for my human self. So it's NOT an humiliation of God to force me to engage in personal development, Because I myself want this for myself, as God.

Yes it's definitely part of the design. That's exactly what I'm saying

@Leo Gura But you are referring to the Infinite mind. There are others, but they are Your mind. But they still exist.

@AtheisticNonduality Im not from usa. I Guess Walmart is a special weird supermarket where only ugly or old people go? Haha