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Now this can light up my day any day

What are you waiting for? You have been trying so hard to get a girl to say yes to hang out with you for a cup of coffee. Now leave that. Go buy yourself some Hollywood looks and girls will be swarming around you like bees. Who knew! Remember that supermarket. You can go there again with a nice pair of sunglasses. This time hopefully they won't call security on you after seeing your smoking hot look. God I find this thread so funny.

That's great. Wouldn't you want to see where it goes?

So my ex is trying to reach me again this morning and being very persuasive. Maybe he wants to wish me for my birthday. I don't know. I don't want his calls. He had stressed me out the last time he tried to contact me to the point of mental harassment. I have tried blocking him. But it seems he found another way of contacting me. Frankly I'm so fed up with this mess. I told him many many times that our relationship is over and I'm done with him but he doesn't care to accept. He told me to unblock him today. That's a load of bullcrap. I don't want to deal with this guy. Every time I let this guy talk to me, it's always the same bullshit, the same drama, the same begging and passive aggressive behavior, the same manipulation. I'm so tired of this. Hopefully this time he will get it that I no longer want him and it's over forever.

Now go get a facial. You gotta match your profile to the T. Get plastic surgery too. Or else all your experimenting and effort will go in vain. At least you don't need to cry anymore that you aren't getting a girl. There is that 10% ready to get rolling with you.. Go get ready and meet them and tell us how it goes. We need the final results of this grand experiment. Make sure it becomes a success. That way all pick up businesses can shut down once and for all and lot of men will be spared the unnecessary expenses plus this will save them a whole lot of rejection, disappointment and trouble. They will finally know the ultimate secret. Let's get the cat out of the bag!!

too many adjectives. Just say sexy man!!

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Remove text formatting How to start implementation day all over again? Refer to the pre-planner. 3 page Reference chart Create sequence notes, activity codes and activity blocks. Start right away Keep the timer as a reminder for the reward system Reward points to be given Reward charms chart to be drawn. The tracking system will be represented by a sequence of codes in line in the order in which they were finished after a couple bunch of codes are done. Like example... T1, A4. S7. S4. R4. B2... Etc Create a pie chart in the end for future reference and record keeping.

How to start implementation day all over again? Refer to the pre-planner. 3 page Reference chart Create sequence notes, activity codes and activity blocks. Start right away Keep the timer as a reminder for the reward system Reward points to be given Reward charms chart to be drawn. The tracking system will be represented by a sequence of codes in line in the order in which they were finished after a couple bunch of codes are done. Like example... T1, A4. S7. S4. R4. B2... Etc Create a pie chart in the end for future reference and record keeping.

Recap Pre planning Pie chart Tracking system... Sequence of codes Reward points Reward charms Implementation Days No Social Contact Challenge Activity codes reward charms jar Charms chart Activity blocks Sequence notes Activity classifications as Engaging/Useful or Random Milestone Photo album and Milestone Jar

February 25 Tuesday Day 23 of the no contact challenge. Day 9 of Implementation Days. February 2020

There is so much hypocrisy in this post that it's just unbelievable and frankly very upsetting. Didn't I just saw a bunch of threads in this section where so many guys keep rating women as a 2 or 4 or 6,sometimes even decimals, 7.5 and 9 out of 10 or 10 out of 10 and all of this rating simply based on looks because these men haven't met the girl but they use that rating to decide whether to approach the girl or not. By this logic most men would not even care to give a second look to a woman who they think is a 4. Because they want someone 7 and above. And keep in mind that this is before meeting the person, just judging from far based on appearance. So she could have a great personality but still get skipped only because she didn't come with a genetic lottery, she didn't come with the LOOKS. And how many times have I seen men hanging out with their 9 out of 10 woman and she has a shitty personality and yet it is okay with them because they can parade her like a prize aka trophy girl. So her personality doesn't matter to them as long as her looks are charming. And you guys still expect for women to simply swallow this cruel rating system and sulk and not even complain about it because it's REALITY and Truth and FACTS DON'T Lie and LIFE IS UNFAIR and just accept it and all these phrases are thrown at women and they are just supposed to suck it up and accept it because men decided it has to be this way and men will be men and so on and on. So many divorce happen because the man found someone prettier and younger and decided to dump his aging wife for her and somehow the wife is supposed to swallow the bitter pill because it's the nature of men or whatever and if she complains than she is jealous. So now you are baffled when women do the same to men? You are now surprised and upset and shocked when the tables are reversed. It's suddenly very cruel and awful and you want to sulk and whine about it meanwhile it happens to women all the time but it's not unfair, it's just men being men and wanting things their way. What a load of hypocrisy. Just like women have to deal with realities of life, learn to deal with it. You're right about that. I would choose a good looking man anytime. And why not? If men do it all the time, why shouldn't I? Feel the sulk. I can tell women are far less concerned about a man's looks at least not as much as men are. A woman can still compromise on the looks of a guy if he is really a good man to her. So give credit to women for accepting ugly men. Men are downright obsessed to the point of nausea. The billion dollar beauty and makeup industry doesn't exist for nothing We live in a superficial shallow society where looks are given preference over character and personality and values more than half of the time. Tell me if this is not true. Men would look past a woman who is intelligent, flirty or smart, funny because she doesn't fit the right look. She is not a 10. So she loses out. I'm glad you did that experiment. You are still on the better side as a man because I can tell you men don't have too harsh.. That's because even men in prison get women. Guess what, I spotted a beautiful woman yesterday with a really really ugly looking guy and I thought she could do better. There are loads of good looking women who just don't use their brains and fall for any loser guy out of emotions, they use their heart instead of the head. So men are still luckier because if you can manipulate with a smooth talk you can really get a good woman despite your loser looks. Yea we take you. Be glad. So quit the whining. Women have it 100 times worse. We get judged far worse and much more harshly and it's cruel but it's reality.

Just be real. Just be yourself Pray pray pray... There's nothing else. Prayers might help it. Make it happen. February 3 was the dp date last time

Money best spent is on books. Time best spent is on health. Of course you can travel but at least let the Coronavirus thing die down first. For me having a relationship with an American man helped me understand American culture better. My recommendation for travel would not be a country because I did travel to a lot of countries over the last few years but it didn't help much because you can't really stay there for a long time because of the expense of both traveling and accommodations. This actually is a hindrance. Because you only get a cursory glimpse of the culture and people and you aren't really diving into it, just touching the surface on your short trips. Like I was in the US for a few months and yes it was a great experience overall but I could not really get a lot to know about the people since you can't socialize much in such a short span of time. You just get a general picture of how things are and frankly things are pretty much the same in almost all major cities around the globe, like the same malls, the same brands, the same apartment styles, the same city culture etc etc.. So you aren't experiencing something unbelievable unless you are visiting the Maya civilization from the past. Fun traveling isn't a lot of learning. But what helped me was actually studying different cultures rather than visiting them on a short compact travel stashed with tight schedules. Read books on different religions, spiritual practices and go deep into their cultures. Read about their values and traditions. Improve your online communication and footprint. This helped me more than anything. Have relationships with people from other countries. There's people from other countries in my apartment and in nearby neighborhoods. So I easily get to bond with them. I invited an Italian neighbor to dinner once. Just mingling with them over time helps you learn a lot about their culture, behavior, thinking or mentality etc etc. Having a relationship with people from other countries in a safe zone helps in knowing them on a deeper level. This is a great revealing experience because you get to see how the cultural mentality works on a finer more subtle levels, the nuances that are reflected in their perspectives and how distinctly different they are from yours. Having an open mind helps a lot. So don't block yourself to any information, method, tradition or process by simply dismissing it as unnecessary or redundant. You have to be like absorbent sponge and soak in all the knowledge and perspectives and experience. Even if you are skeptical about it.. So read read read a lot. And socialize socialize socialize a lot. These are great ways of building your database on a finer level. Because most people just have a general information on everything. But a relationship or socializing opens different tiers of that same information that nobody else can know except you.. In the end, experience is king. So if you haven't really experienced something, you haven't really learned. You have only skimmed. You have to get exhausted learning about every nook and cranny regarding any new experience or tradition or system. Don't spend all your money at once because that won't be viable. Use it a bit at a time because learning is a gradual process even through socializing. So you'll always need some money saved for future learning. If you have time, spend it on 3 things ~ Learning ~ Total personal development - skills, health, personality, spirituality and mental health etc ~ a sustainable lifestyle long term and some fun and hobbies.

With the competitive US market, getting or switching the job is a bit tough. So won't recommend you to quit your job. Do what you are already doing. Leave that place of your ex because it's an unhealthy influence and save some money and look for a shared rent place. Ask your friends. They could even let you stay for free with them for a month or something. Place an ad for roommates on Craigslist and share the rent you're going to have to pay at the new house. Don't go to your mom. She is charging a lot. California is not a good place either, at least for jobs and stuff. Lots of problems there. So my advice will be to stick to what you are doing. Also look for career or housing programs in your local area so that you can enroll for them. I'm sure there are lots. Programs that help people get on track for housing and career. Do a part time job on Sundays to save some extra money. This is all better than forever relying on someone. I hope you get rid of the student debt. The whole student debt thing is reckless and pointless and is eating America.

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How to start implementation day all over again? Refer to the pre-planner. 3 page Reference chart Create sequence notes, activity codes and activity blocks. Start right away Keep the timer as a reminder for the reward system Reward points to be given Reward charms chart to be drawn. The tracking system will be represented by a sequence of codes in line in the order in which they were finished after a couple bunch of codes are done. Like example... T1, A4. S7. S4. R4. B2... Etc Create a pie chart in the end for future reference and record keeping.

February 24 Monday Day 22 of the no contact challenge. Day 8 of Implementation Days. February 2020 I kinda fell off the wagon for a few days.

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Could it be a sign of mass bipolar disorder?

You should get married to an Asian. Then getting married will be like going to Bermuda Triangle.