Preety_India

Relationship with a parent can be very destructive and turbulent in adulthood and a lot of parents especially moms do not have an understanding of how child psychology and maturity works. Please move out of a toxic parent's environment. It is super important for growth.. Parents are not Gods

Be with supportive people Finally God will bring hope

Truth will always stay true no matter how much ever you deny

This is why I believe in karma. Because Karma means truth. And it comes back like a blow to the conscience. A huge guilt. Nothing can stop it. No amount of denial. No amount of shaming. It hurts when someone engages in Slander. But it's encouraging to know at least that truth always triumphs.. The injustices that happened to a person will come to haunt to those who enabled it.... At least truth Wil be on the side of victims.

We need more love and Jesus in this world than judgement. This is a prime example of how good people get shamed and persecuted by their family. No empathy shown. No fucks given. No grace. No mercy toward my pain. Just plain judgement and blame and shame . And shaming me for asking for help. This is exactly what happens right before people commit suicide. They are Shamed for asking help. And after they die people wonder why they didn't reach out before dying

The relationship that I had last was like pure romantic love. I had been in love before but it never felt this way. It felt too strong, the craving was of a different kind. I couldn't live without. It was fantasy coming to life. It was all I wanted and to be in it was my goal!!! Fast forward a few months and I lost it. I still loved but the honeymoon phase was over, the fighting phase began, we started fighting like kids, over petty things. I felt guilty, he felt guilty. I reached my break point and I gave up. I caved in and broke up. My heart shattered like pieces of shard. The love was strong, the pain of heartache stronger. From my experience of love and pain, I can say this much that true unconditional romantic wonderful love is totally possible. It comes like a star, it's goes with the wind. If I have to pick one experience in my life as the most beautiful and profound I will say it was falling in love truly deeply and madly. It's not a narcissistic fantasy. It is not preoccupied with the fulfillment of the Self. In fact it's the furthest from self love or narcissism. Unconditional pure romantic love is an act of selflessness, an act of the highest virtue, an adventure that is unforgettable, a feeling undeniable. If I have to describe how true love feels like I will use Shakespeare's words Love is wisdom of the fool and folly of the wise. (not sure if Shakespeare said this though) I will call "falling in love" one of the greatest experiences of life, without which life is really just a bunch of colors on the canvas. But love is a beautiful mystery, a mystic fountain of Bliss and eternity. It's like madness but in a good way, like an elixir that you should taste at least once in your lifetime to give meaning to life.. But there is a problem. As is the case with anything else in life, love does not come without its fair share of struggles and disappointment. If you found love and never lost it, you are really the lucky master. If you found it and lost it, you're lucky enough to have found it at least, be glad for that. The reality of love is that we are not fully equipped for it. To love someone unconditionally is the most selfless act of charity and kindness. However human nature is a bit selfish.. And selfishness creeps in like a demon into a loving relationship and lovers drift apart. Love itself is not to be demonized, it's pure as water, white as snow. It's we the vehicle of love that fall short of its enormous expectations and struggles. Our compassion falls short, our weaknesses begin to seep in.. Blaming love would be like Fox and the Grapes. The blame should lie not on the shoulders of Love but on human nature that cannot sustain the divinity of love. When you try to measure the benefits of unconditional love, that's being a narcissist because they look for situational gains.. A true lover does not see what he can gain out of love.. But it is more about loving the other person than wanting their love to reach you. Of course there are expectations but real love does not seek expectations at least in the beginning. So you can't be asking for better grades for your children or better success rate because that's calculative. True love doesn't see outcome or maximum output. It goes on loving even when there is no gain. That's unconditional love. True love is like a godly thing. It's a glimpse into sainthood. The kind of love a mother has for her child. True love is deep and strong and doesn't come with conditions. It's a different experience . Your heart expands and you feel a sense of intense joy and peace and seek fulfillment in that person being happy. Now your remark on nature is a bit cherry picked. Because nature is both mysterious and diabolical. There are examples of animals like dogs who have died for their masters. That is also nature. You're only looking at the brutality of nature because that will easily suit your narrative. Do you know that Sam Harris once gave the example of ducks in a discussion about rape. And how rape was a observed in nature. The thing is one cannot justify actions by citing nature. Since there are examples of true unconditional love in nature as well unconditional love is not visible like murder. It cannot be displayed as an act other than in sacrifice. But there are tons of examples where pets give us unconditional love despite not feeding the pet or in a situation of distress the pet gives priority to the owner than it's own life. What would you say of that? Have you had it the other way round, where a human gave up his /her life for a pet? I highly doubt it but maybe rarely. Most cases are of animal cruelties and abandonment. This shows human nature and not animal nature. So be careful while citing examples of animals because some animals have shown greater humanity than humans. True unconditional love romantic or not romantic is extremely challenging to sustain. First of all, to even have such a love already feels heavy enough and then to carry it becomes very difficult because the more Empathy you become the more likely you are to attract a Narcissist. If you start loving people in the most selfless ways, people will brutally crush you and take advantage of you, that's why it's kinda anti-survival. But it's Heroism. Just because people are ruthless, one should not stop loving because only love can heal eventually. You in your post make unconditional romantic love look like a transaction which it is NOT. It's the furthest from that. If you really loved your child, you would have no problem sitting in that cubicle for hours and hours for your family. Because that's what people with unconditional love do. They struggle not only for themselves but also for those who they care about. It's a sacrificial love. There are no GAINS in unconditional love, in fact you might experience more loss than gain. But that's what it is. It's never meant to be a gainful transaction. It's about GIVING not SEEKING. That's why it hurts especially when you don't receive as much as you give. A mother who gives unconditional love to her child grieves when her child grows up and neglects her or abuses her because this is the same child she raised with unconditional love. With such love the pain is great. Because she has to love and forgive the child despite its evil behavior. But if a parent showed transactional love, they will sue the child for damages, take the child to court or get in revenge mode to get what they want. Because they don't care if the child is hurt, as long as it is tit for tat. A lot of people equate true love with foolishness. It might appear that way because you have to give up so much in the process that it becomes anti survival. So indeed it's not the wisest form of love. It's not survival smart. But it's divine or spiritual. Because it's selfless and beautiful. When you realize that you truly love someone, you wouldn't want anything from them, you wouldn't sit and calculate what your earnings were, that's like carrying a tally book for matching gains versus losses like updating a balance sheet. Transactional people always feel that true love is a misery and unfruitful. They look at it as futile, a waste of time, a deflection, a childish notion.. It takes an amount of soul searching and maturity to know what it feels like and to stop judging it and realize that it's not meant to fit into our paradigm of survival and living just because it is not perfectly tailored to our demands. It's never meant for our desires or gratification. It's otherwise. Judgement is always easy but to understand it is to accept and embrace it as a an act of difficulty and Heroism. Only strong people can truly love. Most people can't. And those who truly love will face ginormous challenges and possibly give up at some point because human weaknesses and flaws will take over. Yet even the smallest amount of unconditional love that you showed to some human being or animal is worth an entire lifetime. It's the best thing that came out from an entire period of ruthless rat race to gain, survive, calculate and succeed. Best of luck

@Unemployed thanks. Gotcha!!

I'm a bit naive when it comes to weed. Does this weed cause a lot of health problems like high heart rate, anxiety and all that? I have never done drugs in my life but people say weed is good. But since I never tried it, I'm a bit apprehensive. Is it like caffeine? Does it make you feel high alert or loss of sleep or some unpleasant feelings in the brain like nervousness? Because then I don't want to try it since I'm very sensitive and I have suffered epilepsy before. So not sure if it's safe for a sensitive brain.

This traumatic incident happened on March 1 2020

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So leviathan is a sea monster in the Bible

Some days are simply the worst days

@Elham hehehe.

Intimacy can do so much harm to a woman. .

You can't reason with Stupid Arrogant Manipulator Sociopath Hater

You are validating yourself.

Another thing that I was focusing on was the role of the go getter. And full plate. These two things are essential to self esteem. Being a go getter helps in feeling confident. As a go getter you are taking care of responsibilities that you are proud of.

These monsters will focus on different areas of life and they will focus on different skills

I wanted to create a monster tarot card deck. But I need names and roles to represent those monsters. Like one name I have in mind is Zanthazar a sea monster. They will be some awesome monsters. Maybe a couple of them. Each monster Another monster is Thoth. These monsters will represent monstrous qualities or traits of a monstrous capacity like Thoth has huge wisdom Zanthazar is about never giving up. Very strong resilience. Monster 3 {unnamed} has tremendous mental skill or potential.. All these monsters will fight against real Devils. Each monster will use their own incredible power to finally subdue the devil and will win the game against the devil Each monster will be inspiring in some manner. All the monsters will be one step ahead of the devil in their actions and plans.